Negotiate Your Best Life

6 Ways to Deal with Narcissists’ False Accusations//If you're dealing with a narcissist, you know that they can be incredibly manipulative. They often make false accusations in order to control and dominate you. In this episode, Rebecca Zung, lawyer and narcissist negotiation expert, shares six ways to deal with narcissists' false accusations. Check out my FREE Live webinar, the 3 MUST HAVE Secret...

If you are going through a divorce with a narcissist, you may be feeling overwhelmed and alone. You may not know where to turn or what to do next. The good news is that there is help available. Rebecca Zung discusses the five stages of divorce and what you can do to get through them. Keep in mind that every situation is unique, so these stages may not apply to everyone. But if you are struggling,...

Narcissists are some of the most self-destructive people you can meet. They are so focused on getting what they want and feeling special that they often end up sabotaging their own lives. They routinely make poor decisions that lead to bad consequences, because they are too short-sighted to see how their actions will affect them in the long run. Rebecca Zung talks about how narcissists sabotage th...

When dealing with a narcissist, one of the key challenges is mastering their constant need for control. The narcissist requires an obedient and subservient partner, who will cater to their every whim and put their needs and desires ahead of their own. However, if you refuse to be controlled by the narcissist, you can expect them to start acting out in inappropriate and destructive ways. Rebecca Zu...

Narcissists are notoriously unreliable people. They make promises they never intend to keep, and they often fail to follow through on their commitments. But, there are some things that you can always count on a narcissist to do. For one thing, narcissists are always looking out for themselves. For today's episode, Rebecca talks about the other things that you can totally expect from a narcissist s...

Many people think of physical abuse when they think of domestic violence. While physical abuse is certainly a form of DV, it is not the only one. Emotional abuse can be just as damaging, if not more so. Emotional abusers are often narcissists who seek to control and manipulate their partners. What are the ways that narcissists can wound us emotionally? In today's episode, Rebecca lists down signs...

Whether you're dealing with a covert narcissist, a grandiose narcissist or a maligant narcissist wife, husband, boyfriend, girlfriend, business partner, family member, business partner or colleague, you always need ways to make it more manageable.   In this episode, Rebecca breaks down one of the most critical ways.  What does it mean to go gray rock?  And how can that help you in your every day l...

Sarah Armstrong went never thought she was going to go through a divorce.  No one does.  Until they do.   So one day when standing in a CVS with her daughter, she had an aha moment.  Her daughter pointed to a People Magazine where JLO and Marc Anthony were on the cover.  The story was about their divorce.  She asked her mom "Is that a good divorce or a bad divorce?"  When Sarah asked what she mean...

Covert narcissists are often difficult to spot because they appear humble and withdrawn. However, if you know what to look for, there are several key signs that can help you identify a covert narcissist. One of the most common indicators is a constant need for validation and approval. Covert narcissists are also often hypersensitive to criticism and will go to great lengths to avoid any perceived...

Sharon Scott and her husband were charmed into a business partnership with a narcissist by what seemed by a perfect guy. He was charismatic, had the perfect background and experience.  But once they got into the partnership it all turned dark.  He quickly showed his true colors.   The narcissistic true colors came out with a vengence and their lives became a living hell.   The narcissist playbook...

Dominic Francis was a normal guy who was a very successful professional when his wife came along and swept him off his feet.   Just a few years after meeting her, he was literally homeless and living in a tent for a while and having to change his name while he was being chased by guys in the Australian mob.  His wife was a malignant narcissist who took him for everything.  Piece by piece he has re...

How to Outsmart a Narcissist//Want to know how to outsmart a narcissist boyfriend, girlfriend, wife, husband, co-worker, boss, colleague or family member?  In this episode, you'll find out how to turn the tables on that narcissist by getting the key phrases to disarm the narcissist, and finding out how to ethically manipulate the manipulator so if you are an empath, you can finally outsmart that n...

Ways to Trick Narcissists//Ever have a narcissist in your life? Narcissists are tricky to deal with on their own, but there are some ways you can outsmart them and get what you want. In this episode, Rebecca Zung, lawyer and narcissist negotiation expert, offers ways for dealing with narcissists so they will do what you want, and give you what you need. THIS WEEK'S SPONSOR INFORMATION:   Soberlink...

How Narcissists Tell on Themselves All the Time (How Narcissists Confess Without Confessing)//Narcissists are all around us. They're in our families, in the workplace, and even as friends. Narcissists can be difficult to spot because they do a lot of their damage on the inside but there are clues that you can pick up if you know what to look for. Rebecca Zung, top lawyer and narcissist negotiation...

This is What Happens When You Break Up With a Narcissist// When you break up with a narcissist, there are some things you should know. In this video, I'm going to share with you what happens when you say goodbye to a narcissist. This episode explores some of the things you may go through in your head and in your life after breaking up with a narcissist.   THIS WEEK'S SPONSOR INFORMATION:   Soberli...

Narcissists often have a grandiose sense of self-importance, an intense need for admiration and a lack of empathy for others. What does this toxic personality hate most? People who don't play by their rules. In this episode, Rebecca Zung, lawyer and narcissist negotiation expert, will share 10 things you can do that will drive a narcissist crazy.   THIS WEEK'S SPONSOR INFORMATION:   Soberlink is a...

5 Ways to Manipulate a Narcissist (Keep Peace With a Narcissist)//Narcissists are masters of manipulation. And if you have one in your life, you know how difficult it can be to keep peace. But there are some tricks that they don't expect that will help you maintain a good relationship with them. Rebecca Zung, author, lawyer, and narcissist negotiation expert, shares five tips on how to manipulate...

6 Ways Narcissists Build a Case Against You//Narcissists are masters of manipulating and they use their words to get what they want. These toxic people know how to twist everything you say and know how to make you look bad. They can also do it over and over again, with a different approach each time. Rebecca Zung, narcissist negotiation expert and top lawyer, gives six examples how narcissists can...

Narcissists consider people around them as their possessions and so they have little or no respect to their well-being and boundaries. If you've had it being their narcissistic supply, then it's time to starve a narcissist of attention and take your power back. How do you starve a narcissist from supply and what should you expect when the narcissist starts the pity play? THIS WEEK'S SPONSOR INFORM...

Winning negotiations can feel impossible, especially when you are going up against narcissists. They mess with your head.  Many people think you might as not even bother to try.  In this episode Rebecca share 6 sneaky psychological tricks that anyone can easily use, whether you are dealing with narcissists, or just anyone, regardless of whether it is a formal negotiation or just a regular conversa...

Do you want to know how to stop an argument with a narcissist?  Narcissists can be so hard to deal with.  In this episode, Rebecca gives you ways to actually take control away from a narcissist by showing you what the narcissist's weak points are and how to respond to the narcissist.  If you are so ready ethically manipulate the manipulator then tune in to this episode and find out how to become d...

Tis the season of gift-giving, and what could be wrong about giving gifts and receiving them, right? If you are with a toxic person or have been noticing red flags that you are dealing with a narcissist, then a LOT could go wrong so you should beware of the narcissist gift giving. Rebecca Zung, narcissist negotiation expert, talks about the unusual gifting patterns and how this supposed warm gestu...

Want to know about the Do's and Don't of Negotiating with Narcissists?  In this episode I go over:  - the 3 main types of narcissists - the basic definition of a narcissist - the basici definition of narcissistic supply  - how each type of narcissist acts in divorce and in negotiations - the do's and don'ts of negotiating with narcissists THIS WEEK'S SPONSOR INFORMATION:   Soberlink is a comprehen...

Whether you’re facing the glass ceiling, a toxic work environment, or anything in between, limit-breaking female founder Heather Monahan’s 3-Step BAK process will help you evaluate and eliminate any outside or self-defeating blockers between where you are now and where you deserve to be. If you’ve ever felt alone, down, defeated, or discouraged—this book’s for you. If you’ve ever been unsure of yo...

Natasha Grano Graziano looks like she has it all - but she has been through the depths of hell and back.  She has been a single mom and nearly even homeless.  She absolutely understands how to master her mindset and how to harness the power of the law of attraction and abundance to get anything you want and she is sharing it all right here in this episode.   How did she go from nothing to having a...