My New Life

The first years of a baby's life can feel anything but simple. While their needs are few, namely love, food, sleep, and play, parents often feel pressure to provide the absolute best on these fronts. The best food. The best sleep. The best play.    We are told that to accomplish this by doing more: more playdates, more lessons, more outings, and more variety on the table. Jessica Rolph is joined b...

Sibling rivalry is normal. The kids usually move on quickly, but it often leaves us adults unhinged. What can we do to help diffuse those tense moments, and maybe even build some mutual respect?   In the spring we shared an episode about bringing home a new baby sibling. In today's episode, we are following up with Lovevery expert Gabrielle Felman on sibling dynamics. We look at how to handle jeal...

We hear a lot about the first 3 years of a baby's life — how critical those years are to brain development. But today's guest, the author of The Baby and the Biome , would argue that the same window is just as critical for our gut. Probiotics may have a role in keeping that system healthy. But are probiotics helpful to babies? And what about when you're pregnant? Jessica Rolph, your host, welcomes...

Screens are so effective at distraction, but equally effective at causing parents angst! In today's interview, Jessica Rolph is joined by Lovevery expert, Dr. Zach Stuckelman , to get to the bottom of the research on screens and young brains.    They examine which content is better than others, and whether those learning apps are really teaching our kids anything. They also explore the value of vi...

Usually when we consider having another baby, personal preferences factor heavily into decisions around timing — things like budget or sibling dynamics. But it's rare to consider the health impacts, and it's even less common to discuss birth spacing with your doctor.   Jessica Rolph, your host, welcomes Dr. Alison Gemmill to today's episode. Alison is an Assistant Professor at Johns Hopkins, in th...

With everything we have to worry about in today's world, it's easy to lose sight of how our children can have their own big worries too. Things like getting nails clipped, night-time noises, strangers, doctors, even entering a pool can feel overwhelming to our children.   How do we help them push through their fears? Which are normal, and which are extreme? And how do we validate their feelings wi...

Young children are naturally egocentric. This is a normal part of their development, as they must first make sense of the world around them through their own eyes, before they can see it through someone else's. In fact, until they approach preschool age, they have little reason to believe that others might have feelings or thoughts different from their own. But getting them to eventually understan...

Independence, freedom, order, beauty. These are all elements of the Montessori play space, and who doesn't want these things for their child? However, sometimes adopting a Montessori approach can feel like a high bar.   Jessica Rolph, your host, is joined by Simone Davies, author of The Montessori Baby and   The Montessori Toddler . She can also be found online at The Montessori Notebook , where s...

Play has so much to teach us, children and parents alike. Sometimes parents can get a little too involved in their child's play, particularly with the extra cool toys. When does our guidance become interference? And what amount of direction is appropriate?   Dave Neale joins Jessica Rolph on this episode to help us strike the right balance. Dave is a researcher in the psychology of play at the Cen...

Any pregnant mom will tell you: Their body goes through a major transformation! And with each passing month, nutritional needs change. We hear lots about omega-3s, but did you know that protein and choline play critical roles in the baby's development in utero? Host Jessica Rolph speaks with Registered Dietitian Ryann Kipping, founder of The Prenatal Nutritionist.   Key Takeaways : [1:40] What is...

The so-called "Mozart effect" first entered the public conscience in the early 90s. The theory states that listening to classical music while pregnant, will make your baby smarter. We talk a lot about how babies become smarter on My New Life, so host Jessica Rolph figured she better dig into this theory. Here to give us a straight answer is Dr. Thomas Dardarian. He is an OB-GYN at Axia Women's Hea...

Children, like adults, lie and they can learn to do so from the young age of 2 years old, according to the researchers. In this episode, Jessica Rolph is joined by Dr. Kang Lee, a University of Toronto professor who has been examining lying and what it tells us about human cognition for over two decades. Kang is so dedicated to this field of study, he has convinced some 5,000 children to lie to hi...

Jessica Rolph is joined by Dr. Kate Barret and Dr. Terry Jo Bichell to bring listeners the story behind "Uncle Rob's Pizza Party," a Lovevery book about a toddler's relationship with a man with Angelman Syndrome.   Lovevery's Senior Advisor of Equity and Inclusion, Nicole Stamp, guides the conversation. This episode challenges some of the norms around how we discuss neurodiversity, particularly wi...

Choline is a nutrient proven to have a lasting link to a baby's brain development when taken in pregnancy, but many prenatal vitamins don't have much choline. The recommended amount is 450 mg/day, and studies show only 10 percent of all pregnant women get enough.   A recent study at Cornell University looked at the benefits of doubling the recommended choline consumption. It showed a link between...

Parent-child interaction is crucial to brain development. An important part of that interaction is what is said while we're engaging with our child — not just the words we use, but the frequency of those words and the way in which they are offered up.   Jessica Rolph welcomes Dr. Dana Suskind to today's episode to talk about the reasons why a language-rich environment is so important and to best a...

Share the news of a baby brother or sister with a toddler, and it's likely to be met with enthusiasm. But at some point after the baby arrives, jealousy and resentment can get in the way, and that can manifest in all sorts of new behaviors.   Jessica Rolph welcomes Gabrielle Felman, an early childhood development specialist and clinical social worker. She shares loads of practical, real-life tips...

So many parents find themselves flying through the day, constantly running through a mental to-do list. It seems there is always room to squeeze in more. To be focused on one moment in time feels next to impossible, but there are ways to get present, even with with all this mental clutter.   Jessica Rolph welcomes Hunter Clarke-Fields to today's episode. She's the Mindful Mama Mentor , author of R...

Parenting is full of trying moments. One way that parents express their frustration is by yelling — we've all been there! Feeling overwhelmed is usually at the root of it, but being around a parent who regularly raises their voice isn't optimal for a child. Learning strategies to reduce yelling takes time, but it's worth the hard work.   Jessica Rolph, your host, welcomes Brandi Jordan to today's...

Waldorf education has become increasingly popular in recent decades. Supporters champion the creativity and independent thinking that it fosters, but some critics say it fails to prepare children for the "real" world, where things like competition and technology cannot be avoided.   Jessica Rolph welcomes Dr. Natasha Beck to today's episode. She holds a Doctorate in Clinical Psychology and has a M...

Do you find yourself constantly having to nudge your toddler to stay on schedule and tick all the boxes? Let's get a move on, we'll be late! No seriously, it's bedtime! Little wonder that we parents lose sight of our playful side in all the hustling. Today's guest on the podcast has a remarkable knack for incorporating playfulness in the trickiest of situations. Even the dreaded tantrum feels slig...

Language milestones are a hot topic. When should my baby be speaking? And how many words? So much is tied up in our ability to communicate with our little people. On today's episode of My New Life, we call in the experts to get your baby talking!    While the timeline for those treasured first words varies from child to child, there are some time-tested tricks to help the process along. Spoiler: D...

Some children make a lot of noise as they move through their day. They tend to like big movements: bear hugs, wrestling, getting messy. Others are quieter. They can sometimes be bothered by subtle things: tags, temperature, too much light. These children might retreat if their senses get overloaded. Sensory preferences fall on a spectrum.   Jessica Rolph is accompanied by Dr. Allie Ticktin to talk...

The human brain has about 100 billion nerve cells, all of which are present at birth, but have few links between them. Those links are formed by experiences children have. The idea that the right inputs can strengthen a brain's architecture informs much of the product design at Lovevery . But there's lots of debate around how early we should start laying the foundation for academic learning.   Jes...

We all have big dreams for our little people, and there are so many ways to define success: finding purpose in life and work, reaching goals (whatever those might be), surrounding yourself with loved ones, to name just a few. Psychologists have pointed to a variety of practices that can help our kids achieve these things. Spending time with your child is a major one; others include letting your ch...

Many new parents struggle with decisions around learning outside of the home. When is the right age? Is daycare or preschool the answer? If extended family isn't available or other help isn't affordable, should parents keep their children at home while also juggling work or all the many other responsibilities? Then there's the decision regarding what learning philosophy to follow.   Jessica Rolph,...