Musings Of a Tired Nigerian Girl

On this episode, we talk about pishtacos and reclaiming your mental space. Pretty chill yeah?

Why do we feel guilty when we ask for help? What is it about saying “I’m not okay” that makes us feel inadequate and whose fault is it? - Let’s unpack it.

In this special episode of "Musings of a Tired Nigerian Girl," join us,two tired Nigerian girls, Hikmah & Farida, after about 3 long years of not being able to record together. Our friendship has weathered the storms of time and distance, and this episode is a testament to the enduring bond we share. As we sit down together, reminiscing about the past and catching up on the present, our conver...

Are you a K-drama baddie? Do you currently lack motivation or your're looking for Inspiration? Here are top 10 K-drama's that would totally motivate you, honorable mentions and on American series that made it on this list! Don't forget to subscribe, share and like this podcast. Feel free to send your dilemma's and stories to me at tirednightriangirl@gmail.com for a feature!

I know right? It is smelly in these streets girls.

At some point, you start healing. You start setting boundaries, speaking kindly to yourself, walking into rooms like you belong there. And suddenly… people around you start shifting. This episode is about that moment. About what it means to finally love yourself and how uncomfortable that makes some people. I talk about how we’ve been taught to shrink, especially as women, or anyone who’s just a l...

Hello my love, how are you doing? How have you been! On this episode I talk about unlearning and taking responsibility for my self, whether that be emotionally, physically, mentally. Refuse to be silenced my love. Until next time xo Love Hikmah A Tired Nigerian Girl

So we are now a bi-weekly podcast! It’s a good thing, trust me. On this episode I share what I learnt from reading “Deep work” by Cal Newport. I hope one or two things stick with you. I would totally recommend this and like I say, please before reading or diving into the world of self help, please and please learn about your self first. That’s the best way to start and the best way to get the high...

Welcome to the first episode of Musings of a Tired Nigerian Girl in 2025! I’m so excited to kick off the year with you. In this episode, I’m sharing my thoughts on starting the year strong and staying intentional about your goals. I’ll talk about: • How I set realistic resolutions and make them stick. • My personal experience with vision boards and how they’ve helped me visualize my dreams. • The...

🎙️ New Episode Alert! 🎧 It’s a wrap on 2024, and what better way to start the year than with a little Spotify Wrapped reveal? 👀✨ I’m spilling the tea on my top episodes (don’t judge my guilty pleasures 😅) and diving into a recap of the most unforgettable episodes from Musings of a Tired Nigerian Girl. From laughs to lessons, we’ve covered it all—and it’s only getting better in 2025! 💪🏽 Tune...

On this episode I talk on the importance of keeping and respecting peoples boundaries. - I hoped you learnt something today about boundaries, value and self respect - Check out IG - @motng_ Send your stories, feedback etc to - tirednigeriangirl@gmail.com

On the issue of being picky… Honestly I am always surprised when people say things like “your standards are too high” or “you’re being too picky” when it comes to the choice of a life partner. Yes there is vanity but then there is standard as well, and you should never forgo your standard when making that decision. Hit play and let’s talk about it! - Check out and follow our Ig page @motng_ - Send...

On this episode I share 10 things I've learnt in my 20's. Sometimes I'm shocked by how far I have come, the fact that I'm on the road to 30's is just wow for me. In my head I'm a baby gyal lol. I hope I'm able to give some direction at least to my young-ings and if you're on this road with me, share somethings' you've learnt in your journey to adulthood with me on IG @motng_ . Until the next episo...

You know how Cookie said “I gats to put me first Lucious” yeah… thats the vibe. On this episode I talk about letting go and the bigger person culture. Lets get into it!