Muhammad West

The Etiquette of Disagreement - Episode 06 11.10.2018 33:31 ↓

When marriages fall apart It requires constant work Every marriage has its own problem We all have things we are not happy about Give and take Reasons For Divorce Marrying for the wrong reasons Some are doomed from the start Marriage should not be an escape or a solution to your problems Coming into the marriage with baggage Are you your own person? You are not ready to be a spouse Are you ready f...

The Etiquette of Disagreement - Episode 05 11.10.2018 33:53 ↓

Etiquettes between husband and wife Two Halves “It is He Who has created you from a single person (Adam), and (then) He has created from him his wife (Hawwa (Eve)), in order that he might enjoy the pleasure of living with her” Surah Al A’raaf 7:189 Secret to a happy marriage “And of His signs is that He created for you from yourselves mates that you may find tranquillity in them; and He placed bet...

The Etiquette of Disagreement - Episode 04 11.10.2018 33:35 ↓

Bond with parents How to build a bond Spent time together Give Quick to respond to their call and fulfil their needs Honour and respect above anyone else Arguments Never retaliate The sibling bond As children first best friend, confidant, accomplice, biggest traitor, arch rival We tend to grow apart as we become adults Those relationships cement themselves as we get older The longest relationship...

The Etiquette of Disagreement - Episode 03 11.10.2018 33:18 ↓

Types of disagreements Personal disagreement Marital and family disagreement Work disagreement Religious disagreements Personal disagreements Competition for resources Conflicting physiologies and personalities Conflicting views The "Adaab" to overcome these differences Identify the source of the conflict – Why are we even fighting Try to understand and respect the counter view – Learn to listen,...

The Etiquette of Disagreement - Episode 02 11.10.2018 40:17 ↓

Types of Disagreements Personal disagreement Marital and family disagreement Work disagreement Religious disagreements Personal disagreement Competition for resources Conflicting physiologies and personalities Conflicting views Competition for resources Amr ibn Awf reported: The Messenger of Allah, peace and blessings be upon him, said, “By Allah, it is not poverty I fear for you, but rather I fea...

The Etiquette of Disagreement - Episode 01 11.10.2018 38:20 ↓

A Major Crisis We are unable to interact with those we disagree with. Result is hatred, violence and even killing Locally: Cape Accord, Name calling, Takfir Globally: Disunited ummah “And obey Allaah and His Messenger, and do not dispute (with one another) lest you lose courage and your strength departs, and be patient. Surely, Allaah is with those who are As-Saabiroon (the patient)” Surah Al Anfa...