Mucked Up My Self-Care Podcast

Do you find yourself waiting for the “perfect” moment to take care of yourself? Like maybe after the dishes are done, after the kids are healthy again, or after that one big work deadline? In this episode of Mucked Up My Self-Care , Jill and Linda talk about what it really looks like when self-care keeps getting pushed to the bottom of the list—despite our best intentions. Through honest reflectio...

Do you ever feel like the universe is throwing everything at you all at once? Like you’re one stubbed toe away from losing it? You're not alone. In this episode of Mucked Up My Self-Care , Jill and Linda open up about those "I can't adult today" moments we all have but rarely talk about. From PMS-induced rage to the tiny wins of watching our kids grow, we unpack the real, raw, and ridiculously mes...

After a brief (and very human) pause, we’re back in the studio — messy, honest, and real as ever. In this episode, Jill and Linda open up about the curveballs life’s been throwing lately — from broken dryers and blind cats to Easter chaos and toddler meltdowns. You’ll hear what happens when our well-intentioned self-care plans fall apart and how we find little wins and grace in the middle of the m...

Ever feel like the very act of planning self-care becomes another exhausting task on your to-do list? In this candid conversation, Jill and Linda explore the surprising paradox many moms face: sometimes our pursuit of self-care creates more pressure than relief. From decision fatigue to disappointment when plans fall through, we unpack why self-care sometimes feels like just another burden—and how...

In this episode following our milestone 100th celebration, Jill and Linda dive into the vulnerable aftermath of putting yourself out there. Whether it's hosting an event, reaching a significant milestone, or simply stepping outside your comfort zone, the emotional toll often goes unaddressed. The raw conversation explores how to navigate the melty feelings that follow moments of visibility while b...

The 100th episode of the mucked up my self-care podcast certainly aligned with our vision and realities. From technical hiccups to sick children in the background, our 100th episode celebration embodied everything the Mucked Up My Self Care Podcast stands for – real, interrupted, and beautifully imperfect self-care. Join hosts Jill and Linda as they reflect on their two-year journey, sharing vulne...

In our 99th episode, Jill and Linda explore how collaboration can be a powerful form of self-care for moms. As we all navigate the exhaustion and demands of motherhood, finding ways to share the load with others isn't just practical—it's essential for our wellbeing. From carpooling arrangements to podcast partnerships, this conversation reveals how connecting with others helps lighten our burdens...

In this candid conversation, Jill and Linda dive deep into what it truly means to practice intentional self-care as busy moms. Moving beyond the superficial "just take a walk" advice, they explore how being purposeful with our self-care can transform everyday moments into meaningful experiences that fill our cups – even when things don't go as planned (like shower time with toddlers!). Key Takeawa...

Ever feel like you're juggling a million pieces of your life, trying to keep them all perfectly balanced—only to have a toddler flood the laundry room or a child need an emergency trip to the hospital? Jill and Linda dive into the myth of balance and explore a more realistic approach to self-care for moms. Through their own daily struggles and victories, they reveal why chasing perfect balance mig...

"You probably don't even realize that you're doing the self-care that you are doing." This week, Jill and Linda challenge the Pinterest-perfect version of self-care, trading Instagram filters for real talk about finding moments of peace in the chaos of motherhood. From monster truck shows to firework displays, they explore how true self-care often shows up in unexpected ways – and why the best "se...

Jill and Linda peel back the layers of what it truly means to be vulnerable while trying to maintain self-care as a mother. From managing household chaos to handling hormonal challenges, they share their personal struggles with the constant pressure to "keep it all together." Their conversation reveals what many moms experience but rarely voice: those moments when everything feels like it's fallin...

Sometimes the last thing we want to hear when we're frustrated is "try some self-care." In this episode, Jill and Linda tackle the complex relationship between venting and caring for ourselves. Through stories of messy kitchens, interrupted plans, and late-night conversations, they explore how expressing our frustrations can either help or hinder our wellbeing. Key Insights from Our Conversation T...

What would self-care look like if we approached it as we would a new acquaintance? In this episode, Jill and Linda explore this question through their own experiences - from finding unexpected reading moments during summer play to recognizing how we speak differently about self-care to others versus ourselves. Their conversation reveals fresh perspectives on making self-care feel less like an obli...

In this episode, Jill and Linda talk about what it truly means to lead by example when it comes to self-care. They explore how mothers can embrace and model self-care in ways that ripple through their families and communities. This isn't about perfect Instagram-worthy wellness routines; it's about the messy, real-life ways we take care of ourselves and inspire others along the way. Key Insights fr...

Ever notice how your inner voice changes when you're running on empty? In this raw and honest episode, Jill and Linda dive deep into the complex relationship between self-care and the way we talk to ourselves. From sleep-deprived nights to moments of joy, they explore how our internal dialogue shapes our ability to prioritize self-care, especially during those challenging seasons of motherhood. Ke...

Motherhood is full of moving parts, and sometimes, self-care feels like just another thing to add to the list. In this episode, Jill and Linda explore how self-care can fit into the everyday, even when life feels overwhelming. From joyful family moments to recognizing when to slow down, they reflect on the little things that make a difference. In This Episode: How family playtime can unexpectedly...

In this episode, Jill and Linda are diving into the real benefits of self-care. The kind that gets you through those melty moments and helps you feel more like yourself again. The post-holiday chaos or the daily juggle of motherhood, we chat about why self-care is necessary. Our 5 benefits are not one and done. In fact, we feel that we could have easily listed 50 benefits of self-care (which would...

As we wrap up 2024, Jill and Linda reflect on the highs and lows of the season. From sweet family traditions to the sometimes overwhelming need for solitude and balance. This episode concentrates on the real and relatable side of self-care, especially during the holidays when indulgence can sneak in under the guise of relaxation. The joy of family time, but also the need for space and quiet. The d...

It's Christmas again for the Mucked Up My Self-Care Podcast. In this short special pre-holiday chat, we discuss what self-care means to us during this busy time. The joy of finishing work projects to the stress of unexpected family health issues. Letting go of guilt and embracing small moments of joy and quiet. Why normalizing conversations around rest and well-being can benefit the whole family....

This week, Jill and Linda dive into the messy, often interrupted journey of building resilience as moms and how self-care plays a pivotal role. From car troubles to toddler birthday cake improvisations, we share the highs and lows of parenting and how embracing imperfection helps us grow stronger. Here’s what we unpack in this episode: How self-care is not just about pampering but building the emo...

The leading question in this episode is a slightly different take. We wonder what happens when we don't practice self-care. Most of us have been there, and Jill and Linda are no exception. While thinking about this question, we talk about several topics including: How we are more likely to engage in distractions and unhealthy behaviours such as scrolling or eating too much ice cream. The energy an...

Stress. It manifests physically, impacts decision-making, and leads to reactive behaviors and pushing our boundaries. In this episode Jill and Linda talk about stress from their own perspectives and provide insights into managing stress, the importance of self-care, and invite listeners to reflect on their own experiences with stress. Tune in to hear about: Jill shares the thrill of her first-ever...

In this episode, we continue our discussion around the question - why is self-care so hard? This is part two, after episode one of last week, in which Jill and Linda found there was actually quite a lot to talk about when it comes to the hard side of self-care. Afterall, self-care isn't meant to be 'hard', is it? Hear all about topics such as: Hard things in parallel with good things, such as alle...

Why can self-care be so difficult to maintain? Should it really be this hard? Jill and Linda still wonder about these questions, even after 82 episodes of talking openly about these questions. Today's episode is no different, as we dive into the challenges and hard side of self-care. Take a listen as we chat about: All the different things we need to do before we can do something. The self-talk ab...

It's no joke. Motherhood is full of intense emotional moments. Not only for us, but also from our kids as well. Jill and Linda both have had a lot of practice when it comes to emotions and now talking about self-care adds a whole new level to the conversation. Listen in as we talk about: What is 'too emotional'? The stereotypical labels that are placed on us, both from ourselves, others and societ...