Mr. Pick Me & The Manhater

In this episode, Chesko and Reagan dive into the problematic world of men who confuse boundaries with control. They break down a viral video of a self-proclaimed "six-foot-five millionaire" who gives his girlfriend a curfew and compares her to his Lamborghini, sparking a larger conversation about financial abuse, manipulation, and how some men use wealth as a weapon in relationships. The hosts als...

In this episode, Chesko and Regan react to a viral video of a husband who "historically hates" when his wife showers without him, dramatically entering the bathroom within seconds of hearing the water run. The hosts dissect why this behavior is concerning, discussing how it represents potential control issues, the weaponization of access to someone's body, and the importance of privacy and autonom...

In this episode of "Mr. Pick Me and the Man Hater Radio Podcast Hour," hosts Chesko and Regan dissect a viral clip claiming that "women are naturally better at rejecting men." The duo unpacks how this mindset reveals toxic attitudes toward both men and women, exploring how men who complain about constant rejection often approach dating with entitlement and poor strategies—like mindlessly swiping o...

Regan and Chesko start today's episode dissecting a cringe-worthy Backstreet Boys parody where a husband sings about hating marriage and his wife, then examining a controversial podcast clip about husbands giving wives "allowances", and finally breaking down the viral "lunch packing" incident where a husband filled his teacher wife's lunch bag with dog food, stale snacks, and old Chipotle...follow...

This week, Chesko and Regan dive into the wild world of online conspiracy theories and parenting fears. They discuss viral TikTok videos about "demonic" children's content and discuss the irony of fearing imaginary threats while overlooking real-world dangers, and examine how some religious conspiracy theorists prioritize invisible boogeymen over protecting children from actual harm. Plus, they ta...

In this episode, Regan and Chesko react to a viral dating show clip from Provo, Utah, where college-age men cruelly mock Riley (who just wants an adventure buddy) being mocked while hidden behind a sheet during her introduction. The discussion expands into a broader analysis of toxic masculinity, examining how men prioritize male validation over genuine connection, the contradiction between compla...

In today's episode, the Chesko and Regan break down a viral video from a "manosphere" content creator who claims that "25-year-old women are older than 35-year-old men" due to their supposedly privileged experiences. Reagan and Chesko examine the flawed logic behind hustle culture, incel ideology, and red pill dating advice, while discussing how these toxic beliefs harm both men and women. The con...

This episode is all over the place with Regan and Chesko diving into a grab bag of hot topics. They discuss plane etiquette drama, including a man who refused to give up his $300 seat to a rude family and a flight attendant who unapologetically eats tuna mid-flight while judging passengers for eating "fast food poison" and break down a viral video about guys with "game" and why women don't trust s...

Regan and Chesko break down a controversial list of the "10 Least Attractive Hobbies of Women According to Men." From video games and true crime to shopping and OnlyFans. They explore the psychology behind why these lists exist, unpack the double standards, and discuss how misogyny shapes what's considered "acceptable" female interests. Plus, Chesko's airhorn malfunctions, Regan fixates on the Tit...

Regan and Chesko dive into the bizarre world of men who think vaginas are "icky" after watching a cringe-worthy podcast clip of a guy describing women's bodies as gross and smelly. They explore the twisted logic of supposedly straight men who hate the very thing they claim to be attracted to, discuss how this ties into the pleasure gap and male loneliness epidemic, and roast the hypocrisy of men w...

This week, Regan and Chesko react to a middle-aged cowboy relationship guru who gives relationship advice that's more horror movie than romance. We dissect why this advice feels genuinely alarming when presented as universal marriage guidance, complete with piercing stares and uncomfortable hand gestures. From "luscious lips" to dinner table...antics, they explore the line between consensual kink...

Regan and Chesko dive into a viral courtroom clip where a male lawyer accidentally calls a female judge "honey" in a condescending tone, leading to an awkward exchange that perfectly captures workplace power dynamics and casual sexism. They then share their own cringe-worthy professional moments, including Chesko's traumatic experience as a young professor when three students coordinated elaborate...

Join Regan and Chesko as they sit down with Holly Solem, creator and host of "Manthropology TV," to discuss her viral street interview series where she asks men the simple yet loaded question: "Why are you like this?" Holly shares the unexpected journey of how a single post on Threads sparked a movement that led to her interviewing men on camera about masculinity. From the now-legendary Timmy "Bou...

Regan and Chesko dive into the world of "golf widows" after discussing a viral TikTok where a husband turned his text exchange with his struggling wife into an AI song. They explore how normalizing this behavior hurts marriages, the difference between actual comedy and cruelty disguised as jokes, and why some men get defensive when called out for treating their wives poorly. Plus: tangents on pick...

The episode touches on everything from 90s boy bands (with some nostalgic NSYNC vs Backstreet Boys debate) to the importance of taking criticism gracefully when doing social justice work. They also dive into Kid Rock's recent inflammatory comments about declining birth rates in the US, where he blamed "ugly" and "deranged" liberal women before unpacking the deeper issues behind such statements, ex...

In this episode, Reagan and Chesko dive into the absurd world of "Timmy Bounce Back" and his viral rant about why men are "awesome" and women are supposedly "destroyers." Between fits of laughter, they unpack the toxic mindset behind these kinds of statements, examining the fragility that leads to such ridiculous claims. They explore how patriarchal systems actually harm everyone, the importance o...

In this episode of 'Mr. Pick Me and the Man Hater Show,' Regan and Chesko dive into double standards, bodily autonomy, and the right to exist comfortably in shared spaces as We discuss the viral gym clothing debate currently raging on social media before moving on to discuss broader patterns of misogyny, false accusations, and the weaponization of exceptions to enforce control over women's bodies....

Chesko and Regan weigh in on the viral question sweeping the internet this week regarding 100 men vs. a silverback gorilla and of course connect it to some deeper conversations about red flags and toxic masculinity. Support us on Patreon (and hear bonus content!): https://www.patreon.com/mrpickmeandthemanhater Merch Store: https://www.bonfire.com/store/mr-pick-me--the-manhater/ Follow Us on Social...

In this episode, Chesko and Regan analyze viral videos from the man suggesting funeral crashing as a dating strategy to debates about 'dad bods' and why some men refuse to listen to women's actual preferences. Support us on Patreon (and hear bonus content!): https://www.patreon.com/mrpickmeandthemanhater Merch Store: https://www.bonfire.com/store/mr-pick-me--the-manhater/ Follow Us on Social Media...

Chesko and Regan totally go off the rails talking about their love of Netflix's "Love on the Spectrum" while constantly interrupting each other with tangents (as usual). The hosts get deep about why they're obsessed with the show—relating hard to the awkward silences, info-dumping, and that whole desperate need to fill conversational space. Between Chesko's beard-pulling stems and Regan's shaky-ca...

Regan and Chesko respond to an "alpha male" content creator who is just a lil guy, and a few more clips where self-proclaimed alphas claim women prefer sharing high-value men over being loyal to "betas." The episode concludes with lighthearted "would you rather" questions. Support us on Patreon (and hear bonus content!): https://www.patreon.com/mrpickmeandthemanhater Merch Store: https://www.bonfi...

In today's episode, Regan and Chesko dive into the uneven expectations placed on women in relationships. From religious advice about opposite-sex friendships to shocking stories about exes demanding care after betrayal, they explore why women are expected to be martyrs while men face minimal accountability. They discuss the painful double standards in caregiving (with women 624% less likely to lea...

Chesko and Regan discuss the intersection of politics and dating and dive into an article titled "Are femcels the new incels?" Support us on Patreon (and hear bonus content!): https://www.patreon.com/mrpickmeandthemanhater Merch Store: https://www.bonfire.com/store/mr-pick-me--the-manhater/ Follow Us on Social Media: https://www.youtube.com/@mrpickmeandthemanhater https://www.instagram.com/mrpickm...

Today marks 1-year of Mr. Pick Me & The Manhater! Regan and Chesko spend today looking back and reflecting on some of your favorite (and most controversial) episodes! Thanks for your support as we look forward to year two of building our wonderful community! Support us on Patreon (and hear bonus content!): https://www.patreon.com/mrpickmeandthemanhater Merch Store: https://www.bonfire.com/stor...

Chesko and Regan discuss some of the worst dating advice we've ever heard before cutting the show a little bit short due to Regan's daughter getting sick at school. Everyone is better now though, so enjoy the show! Support us on Patreon (and hear bonus content!): https://www.patreon.com/mrpickmeandthemanhater Merch Store: https://www.bonfire.com/store/mr-pick-me--the-manhater/ Follow Us on Social...