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The dialogue between Heather Hester and Dr. Ronnie Gladden dives deep into the intricate layers of identity and the transformative power of self-reflection. Dr. Gladden, an accomplished speaker and educator, shares his personal journey of grappling with his identity, which culminated in his thought-provoking book, "White Girl Within." This work is not merely a recounting of experiences but serves...

Join Heather as she engages in a heartfelt conversation with Elizabeth Brunner, founder and CEO of Stereotype, a gender-free kids' fashion brand. Elizabeth shares the inspiration behind her brand, which stemmed from observing her own twins joyfully mix and match clothing without regard for traditional gender norms. The discussion delves into the importance of supporting children's individuality an...

In a compelling episode of Just Breathe, Court Vox engages the hosts in a candid exploration of sexuality and intimacy, emphasizing the vital role these elements play in our overall wellness. The conversation begins with Vox recounting his personal journey into the field of sex education and intimacy consulting, revealing how his early experiences with sexuality were shaped by an open and acceptin...

In a powerful and poignant episode, Heather Hester opens the conversation about Pride Month 2023 with warmth and reflection. The episode serves as a reminder that while Pride is a time for celebration, it also marks a moment to confront the harsh realities faced by the LGBTQ community. Heather emphasizes the importance of creating a safe space for parents of LGBTQ children, inviting them to feel a...

What if you could break free from the tiny box of gender expectations that society places on us from birth? Join our enlightening conversation with Rae McDaniel as we dive into the fascinating world of gender freedom. Rae shares the Gender Freedom Model, which guides individuals in exploring and transitioning their gender with more play, pleasure, and possibility. We discuss how identity explorati...

Heather Hester welcomes Jeannie Gainsburg, author of the newly released second edition of "The Savvy Ally," to discuss essential strategies for becoming an effective LGBTQ ally. The conversation delves into the importance of understanding and respecting pronouns, as well as the need for continuous learning and adaptability in allyship. Jeannie shares her journey from a late bloomer in advocacy to...

Join Heather Hester as she delves into the essential stages of the coming out process for LGBTQIA individuals, highlighting the importance of acceptance, pride, and synthesis in their journey. She emphasizes that coming out is not a linear experience but a lifelong exploration of identity, filled with complexities and emotional growth. Through personal anecdotes and insightful discussions, Heather...

Today's conversation focuses on the importance of self-care and emotional awareness in parenting. Heather Hester and her guest, Maureen Spielman, explore how parents can take a step back during challenging moments to prioritize their own needs, which ultimately enhances their ability to support their children. They discuss the significance of understanding and validating one’s emotions, encouragin...

This podcast episode delves into the significance of self-acceptance in the journey of understanding one's gender and sexuality, emphasizing that "coming in" to one's identity is often more crucial than coming out to others. Heather Hester hosts Lori Sweetman, a gender and sexuality holistic life coach, who shares her experiences and insights on creating safe spaces for exploration and validation....

Today's podcast delves into stage three of the coming out process, focusing on identity and orientation tolerance. This stage is crucial as individuals begin to realize they are not alone and actively seek out supportive communities, such as LGBTQ social groups and safe online spaces. Host Heather Hester emphasizes the importance of understanding these stages to better support children and loved o...

Join Heather Hester as she explores the transformative power of Odyssey Teen Camp, a unique space that provides support and acceptance for LGBTQIA teens navigating their identities. Adam Simon, the camp's Executive Director, shares his journey of creating a welcoming environment where campers can truly be themselves, free from judgment. The conversation delves into the importance of representation...

Heather Hester welcomes listeners to Just Breathe Parenting Your LGBTQ Teen, creating a safe space for parents to understand and support their LGBTQ children. The podcast begins by emphasizing the importance of recognizing that parents are not alone in their journey, which can often be filled with fear, confusion, and uncertainty. Heather takes a moment to address recent communications from listen...

The dialogue between Heather Hester and Annie Henderson unfolds the layers of people-pleasing, a common yet often under-discussed trait that can hinder personal growth, especially in the LGBTQIA community. Annie, who specializes in coaching individuals through their coming-out journeys, shares her own evolution from a life dictated by the need to please others to one characterized by authenticity...

Navigating the complexities of raising an LGBTQ teen can feel overwhelming, especially for parents who may not fully understand the coming out process. This episode dives deep into the stages of coming out, particularly focusing on the experiences of young people as they grapple with their identities. Heather Hester emphasizes the importance of recognizing the internal struggles that LGBTQ youth f...

This podcast episode delves into the deeply personal story of Heather Hester's sister, Corinne, who was diagnosed with frontotemporal dementia at the age of 42. Heather reflects on their contrasting personalities and the complexities of their relationship, highlighting moments of joy, conflict, and support throughout the years. As Corinne's condition progressed, Heather faced the emotional struggl...

Jason Ablin's insights into gender equity in education come alive in a riveting discussion with Heather Hester about his book, "The Gender Equation in Schools." This episode delves deep into the often-overlooked biases that exist within educational systems and the significant impact they have on students' experiences and outcomes. Ablin, who has spent over 35 years in various educational roles, br...

The podcast episode delves into the nuanced world of gender identities, specifically focusing on non-binary and gender fluid identities through a heartfelt panel discussion. Heather, the host, brings together her daughter Gray, her friend Kate, and Autumn Graham to share their experiences and insights. The conversation kicks off with a critical examination of the terminology surrounding gender ide...

Heather Hester and Katherine Burrows engage in a compelling discussion centered around the importance of storytelling in the LGBTQ community in their latest podcast episode. The conversation is sparked by their collaborative project, Rainbow Stories, which aims to gather narratives from parents, teens, and allies. Heather opens up about her personal journey as a mother when her son came out, detai...

Exploring the intricate relationship between mental and physical health is at the heart of this engaging podcast episode featuring Heather Hester and her guest, Daniel Maigler. In an age where mental health discussions often take a backseat, Heather encourages listeners to treat mental health with the same importance as physical health. This conversation begins with a thought-provoking examination...

Navigating the complexities of parenting an LGBTQIA child during the holiday season can be challenging, especially when confronted with non-affirming relatives. Heather Hester opens the conversation with warmth and reassurance, emphasizing the importance of creating a safe space for both parents and their children. She encourages listeners to take a deep breath, reminding them that they are not al...

The discourse presented in this podcast episode centers on the intricate relationship between disordered eating and the challenges faced by LGBTQ youth during the holiday season. A significant focus is placed on the psychological implications of these struggles, particularly as they pertain to identity formation and societal pressures. Our esteemed guest, Dr. Theresa Bussert, offers invaluable ins...

The primary focus of this podcast episode is the critical importance of Diversity, Equity, and Inclusion (DEI) initiatives within corporate and academic environments, emphasizing that awareness and education are foundational to creating inclusive spaces. We delve into the multifaceted nature of DEI and explore strategies for increasing awareness and knowledge, which in turn fosters an atmosphere o...

The exploration of unconditional love serves as the central theme of our discussion today, delving into the profound complexities that surround this elusive concept. Love, as we unravel it, transcends mere sentiment; it embodies a continuum of actions and intentions that reflect our deepest human connections. Throughout this episode, I recount the transformative journey undertaken by our guest, Ki...

The principal theme of this podcast episode centers upon the concept of positive masculinity and its transformative potential in dismantling the pervasive cycle of toxic masculinity. Our esteemed guest, Mac McGregor, elucidates on the intricacies of gender expectations and socialization, advocating for a paradigm shift that embraces vulnerability and authenticity in all individuals, irrespective o...

The focal point of this podcast episode revolves around the often insidious nature of covert bullying and the essential role that parents play in creating a safe and supportive environment for their LGBTQ teens. I emphasize the importance of fostering a home atmosphere where children feel comfortable expressing themselves, even amidst the complexities and challenges they may face in their social i...