Moments Matter

Is it really worth all the hassle of trying to vacation with your adult kids? Realistically, what does planning look like and how can you make it as SMOOTH as possible without as much tension, conflict, or drama? On this episode we discuss: - The best practical conversations to have BEFORE you plan a vacay with your adult kids - Why expectations should always be communicated and what expectations...

Remember how the Enneagram was a fad, like, last year? Well to be completely honest, the Enneagram has been around for a lot longer than 2021... or 2020 (should I even mention that year out loud 🥴?).  So what are the facts? As Christian women, dare we even CARE about the Enneagram? Are we fools to use the Enneagram even now, after all the stereotypes put out on the internet? (PSA: the internet is...

CAN you find joy when your kids leave home and live far away? On today's episode, Sonja and Julia dive into how to handle all of the hard emotions of your kids living far away from (and practical ways to find joy in it all). Living far away from your kids is NOT easy, but there is hope to find joy in this season of life.  Tune in to hear: What it was like for Sonja to help move her daughter 1...

What is Empty Nest Syndrome and what should we do about it? Sonja’s been through it all–the sadness, fear, and guilt–and she’s ready to talk about what to do to lessen some of those difficult emotions as you look down the road to empty nesting or even if you’re already in the empty nesting years!  Tune in to hear: The common signs of Empty Nest Syndrome How do your kids feel about leaving the hous...

What do we do when we don’t agree with our adult children’s choices? Is there really a way to let them know we disagree without it ending in a huge conflict? We think there is! Listen in as we cover:  The differences in response between the high school, college, and adulting stage  Practical, respectful ways to communicate that you disagree with their decision/behavior What it's like when the...

What is the difference between reacting and responding? What does it have to do with being a mature woman of God? Join mom and daughter as they tie up a lot of Sonja's crazy hot mess (i.e. her journey) and what God taught her along the way about her immaturity and where He's still taking her today.  Links We Promised:  Big Moment Membership Guide to Having Everyday Victor Over Conflict (...

Welcome to the Moments Matter Podcast! Thank you for joining us in this first episode, where you will hear Sonja's personal journey of how God brought her through a lot of difficult situations throughout her lifetime and what she's learned from her mistakes and experiences.  Join us as we discuss the following:  Sonja's salvation testimony How she dealt with attempted assault What h...

In this space, everyone is invited to chat with mom and daughter as we dive deep into God-honoring, refreshing, and eye-opening conversations about having healthy relationships with your kids as they grow from teenagers to adults... even when it's hard! Listen in as we chat about the mistakes and wins of life moments from the unique perspective of both empty-nesting mom, Sonja Wallenbeck, and...