Moments in Time with BLisB (B.lack L.ife is S.imply B.eautiful)

I’mma run down the starting lineup, but y’all already know the deal. You know who the strongest players are. If you’re not one of them I don’t want no back talk, just get your game up.~Vega.

My father did not have to go through India to acquire authentic gold and clear diamonds. They were pure and original in Africa, buried in the soil, drifting in the waters, mined and sold in our shops...with the jewels in close view, glistening under Umma’s night lamp, the seriousness of my taking a wife sunk in even further. It was deeper than Akemi’s beauty and charm and intelligence and creativi...

Anger blocks success,because anger shuts down a person’s thoughts, which paralyzes a persons skills. ~SENSEI

We both agreed that there was no reason for us to move out of a horrible place into a terrible place. If we were gonna make a move, it needed to be a real improvement or else what’s the point of parting with our hard earned capital?

In the sunlight I saw that she was a natural beauty, no makeup, just grease shining on her combed down swirling bangs...It seemed like she could ask me all the questions but was too jumpy to listen for my answers. Or maybe she really didn’t want any answers, I don’t know.

Now, curiosity had me open...I wanted to read about females, what they want and what they like. I wanted to learn about how to make them feel good...I knew I could just rely on my instincts...yet when I looked into these females’ eyes, they looked at me like I was gonna give them the most extreme amount of pleasure imaginable, the highest high. Truthfully, I wanted to be able to do it right and sm...

It is best for you two to recite the Nikah and for you to take a wife than to corrupt yourselves and bring forth a ‘chaos’ baby...there is no finer young man in this country than you, my son. And we are business people. We make our own money. We make our own way. I am certain you can and will provide nicely for our new household.

It is the responsibility of a Muslim man to be the guardian of his wife and family. In today’s times, the non-believers scream, why marriage? Why limit myself? Why bother? ... we marry because a complete family is the foundation of life and civilization. Where there is a man who willingly bows down to Allah, and voluntarily obeys Allah’s laws, there is a man capable of respecting limits, of being...

This dude, who acted like he already had the best of everything , was hiding some kind of jealousy towards me. He was like a nervous , deadly and dangerous rattlesnake...in the jungle , a rattler,python,mamba,and boa are all poisonous creatures. A tap from the tooth, a too tight squeeze and death comes quickly. But as my grandfather would say long ago, “There is a mongoose for every snake, a hyena...

I thought to myself, I could pick any one of these girls. It seemed like no matter what, I’d end up with the same damn thing...I don’t know what she was thinking , but I was thinking, to me she was average. Her personality didn’t shine through. She had a nasty attitude and her conversation had my mind wandering off all over the place...and I thought about getting out of there before this chick got...

‘War is deception’. You see, an opponent who can attack your mind and disable your confidence and skill, has won before you have ever thrown one weapon, one kick, one fist. This person who flaunts his military superiority over you or your people, is trying to immerse you in fear. He knows, and they know, that fear will guarantee their success and your defeat. They will have conquered you in your m...

Your wife’s family is wealthy then...Not really but if my family has it, why not give it to her? She’ll become the mother of my children.,inshallah. When I give her something , in some way, it still remains with me. It’s still mine, because she is mine. Besides, if she is happy, my life is so good. No intelligent man wants a miserable wife.

I wanted you to know that there is a reason why, in our faith, we hold back from making love until we are married...once a man has knowledge of a woman’s body, almost nothing or no one can stop him from seeking that pleasure over and over again...your lovemaking will bring forth new life. New life is a beautiful blessing, but should be brought forth into a complete family, a mother and father, a h...

Our job is to make sure the groom and his family, who have been living in Europe and America for all of these years, are properly prepared for his wedding to a Northern Sudanese Muslim woman whose Sudanese family will expect a traditional Sudanese wedding and will be completely insulted by anything else...

Her eyes slowed me down and softened me. This was our truest form of communication...I came back from the hot spot where my anger is stored, and let her capture my attention once again...I could feel the love moving and spreading through my chest like an invasion. It was a new feeling, different from my love for my family. It was a good feeling too.

The whole team and coach had fresh cuts, including me. I could smell the scents of coconut oil and Afro sheen and a strong cologne that I wouldn’t wear cutting through the odors of grime, gum and piss on the New York pavement. But the bright and colorful lights of Seventh avenue, the crowd for the garden, the rest rushing to shop at Macy’s, made us forget any foul smells and made this the place to...

I hope not one of you is here looking to get something for nothing. You gotta work to earn. You gotta train to win. You gotta go hard and play hard. Got it?

She locked her eyes into mine. No translation needed. I stood and held my hand out to assist her up the last step. She never let it go....I didn’t know what my next move would be. I had suspended my thoughts and was moving only on feelings, something completely new for me... I felt foolish standing there with no words in the middle of a storm of energy moving back and forth between us...

“Nature works perfectly alone,”my father said. “It is only the abuses of human beings that can alter that.”

It took me a few seconds to understand a mother telling her son to ignore his own fathers instructions. I actually never heard that before.

I liked seeing Sudana. She made me feel at home. She was subtle, sweet, and careful, not a high-powered vacuum cleaner like the American girls who came at me all day long, titties first and ass out, nice looking but way too much way too quick, only to find out she’s really nothing at all.

If you go outside, you can find a thousand stones on the ground. They are lying around everywhere. You can just pick any one of them up anytime and put it right into your pocket, or throw it back into the ground. Or do whatever you like with it. It has no value, so no one cares. But when a stone is a precious jewel, it is surrounded and protected. You’ll have to work very hard to earn it and even...

Now that you are becoming a man, things will be more complicated than they have ever been. You will have strong urges and feelings pulling you in every way. But you should not become a servant to your desires...a man should not try to eat from every dish.

...and for this reason, I have chosen to train you in weapons. I have watched you. You retain information that others forget. You have developed very nicely. I know that you are not a predator and will not abuse the knowledge that I will offer to you. You now show the discipline, the focus, and have the mind to become a great defender and protector of life...

....she seemed to be a female who plans and thinks ahead. Everything she wore and possessed, down to the smallest items, seemed to be carefully chosen. She paid close attention to details and preferred everything she wore, used and surrounded herself with to be unique. It added to her elegance...