Hector Santiesteban

Modern Masculinity

"Modern Masculinity" is a podcast that explores the real-life challenges that men face today. Whether it's balancing work and family, figuring out how to be a good husband or father, or just trying to make sense of the world - this show is for guys looking for practical, down-to-earth advice and guidance. The podcast discusses the struggles and triumphs of modern manhood and features interviews with men (and women) who can share their methods and mindsets to maneuver the world as a modern man.

Author

Hector Santiesteban

Category

Education

Latest episode

Jul 8, 2026

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Episodes

Becoming the Modern Alpha Male with with Ali Tag 19.09.2023

We dive deep into the intricate balance between strength and vulnerability in modern men. From the cultural confines of Hispanic machismo to the biological realities of testosterone decline, Ali Tag sheds light on the silent struggles many men face. Through candid conversations, we explore the importance of consistent messaging, the need for emotional outlets, and the evolving definitions of male...

The Modern Man’s Man with Lawrence Dunning 12.09.2023

Lawrence Dunning dives deep into his personal journey, exploring the intricate balance between masculinity, fatherhood, and personal growth. From the discipline of martial arts to the challenges of partnerships, Lawrence shares candid insights on navigating life's highs and lows. Drawing from his experiences as a professional fighter and a dedicated parent, he offers a unique perspective on resili...

Igniting your Inner King with Michael Diamond and Russell Reynolds 05.09.2023

Michael Diamond and Russell Reynolds dive deep into the intricacies of personal growth, likening it to the challenges of navigating a dark attic. They shed light on the importance of heart-guided actions, emphasizing the dangers of moving without purpose. Drawing from decades of transformational work, the discussion touches on societal trends, the millennial perspective on hard work, and the profo...

Embracing Brokenness: Erik Hatch's Path to Connection and Community 29.08.2023

Join Hector as he delves into the inspiring and challenging world of modern masculinity with real estate expert turned advocate, Eric Hatch. Eric shares his mission to save children facing unimaginable hardships and explores the power of self-validation. From overcoming insecurities to finding purpose, Eric's journey offers valuable insights on personal growth and making a positive difference in t...

Pursuing Your Dreams while Keeping Your Responsibilities with Ben Gibson 22.08.2023

Ben Gibson explores the intersection of physical pursuits and fatherhood. He shares his own experiences and struggles in balancing his ambition and responsibility as a dad. Ben emphasizes the importance of doing cool shit and integrating passions into family life. He highlights the need to communicate with partners, create comprehensive plans, and adapt to challenges. Ben Gibson ultimately aims to...

Overcoming Addiction and Alchemizing Struggles with Jesse Harless 15.08.2023

Jesse Harless, an expert in addiction and trauma, shares his personal journey and insights into the world of addiction recovery. He discusses the challenges faced by entrepreneurs and the importance of marketing one's business in the face of adversity. Jesse also sheds light on the male mental health crisis and its connection to addiction. He emphasizes the role of self-love and community in the r...

A Not-So-Crazy Way to Save Your Health, Finances and Relationships with Dom the Hypnotist 08.08.2023

Dom the Hypnotist explores the power of hypnotism and self-hypnosis for personal growth. He discusses the challenges of company growth and remote leadership, his brief stint at Google Maps, and overcoming failure and embracing change. Dom also shares the success and controversy surrounding sleep hypnosis for business owners and salespeople, as well as the power of affirmations and overcoming subco...

4 Timeless Archetypes of Masculinity and Exploring Ancient Wisdom with Philip Folsom 04.08.2023

Philip Folsom, a leadership and culture consultant, shares insights on navigating the hero's journey to find freedom and meaning. He discusses the challenges men face in a shifting cultural landscape and the importance of embracing traditional masculine archetypes. Philip emphasizes the need for men to take ownership of their lives, overcome self-sabotage, and break free from the limitations impos...

Embracing Responsibility and Healthy Masculinity with Ted Rensaw 01.08.2023

Ted Rensaw discusses the challenges he is currently facing in understanding what it means to be a "real man" and in promoting the importance of fathers in today's society. He explores the misconceptions around masculinity and the cultural stereotypes that hinder the progression of healthy masculinity. Ted also emphasizes the need for men to have strong connections with other men for support, growt...

Leadership, Authenticity, and the Balance of Masculinity with Alan Heymann 28.07.2023

Alan Heymann, an executive and leadership coach, about the evolving nature of masculinity and the challenges that men face in today's world. Alan discusses his book, "The Soup Book," which offers 52 analogies for leadership and personal development. He emphasizes the importance of questioning traditional gender roles and expectations and finding a balance between personal well-being and fulfilling...

Parenting Real Talk: The Best & Hardest Parts of Being a Dad [Modern Man Podcast] 21.07.2023

We dive deep into the heart of modern masculinity, exploring the intricate balance of personal growth and parenting. We share our experiences as husbands, fathers, and professionals, navigating the complexities of mental health, setting healthy boundaries, and the profound impact of our actions on future generations. We're not just talking about the surface-level stuff here; we're peeling back the...

Money, Masculinity, and Modern Husbands with Brian Page 18.07.2023

In this episode of Modern Masculinity, Hector Santiesteban sits down with Brian Page to discuss the evolving dynamics of modern households. They delve into the challenges and adjustments that come with dual-income households, where traditional gender roles are shifting. They discuss managing money, household chores, and fostering a more equitable relationship at home. Chapters: 00:00:00 - Gratitud...

Balancing Self-Care and Responsibility with Mac Scotty McGregor 14.07.2023

In this episode of Modern Masculinity, Hector Santiesteban joined by Mac Scotty McGregor. They discuss the challenges and opportunities of navigating masculinity in today's world, with a particular focus on self-care, emotional expression, and societal expectations. McGregor shares his personal experiences and insights, emphasizing the importance of balance, communication, and self-definition in e...

Challenging Societal Expectations with Ed Frauenheim 11.07.2023

In this thought-provoking episode of the Modern Masculinity podcast, host Hector Santiesteban engages in a deep conversation with guest Ed Frauenheim. They delve into the complexities of modern masculinity, discussing the challenges men face in defining their roles and identities in today's society. The episode explores personal growth, societal expectations, and the evolving concept of masculinit...

Redefining Strength and Vulnerability with Pellegrino Riccardi 07.07.2023

In this episode of the Modern Masculinity podcast, Hector Santiesteban and Pellegrino Riccardi dive into a discussion about the evolving roles of men in society. Pellegrino shares his personal journey, from grappling with feelings of inadequacy during periods of unemployment to his experiences with IVF. They navigate the terrain of emotions, societal expectations, and the importance of breaking ol...

Embracing the Evolving Definition of Masculinity with Everett Shupe 04.07.2023

In this episode, Hector Santiesteban engages in a deep conversation with Everett Shupe, also known as Dr. E. They discuss the evolving concept of masculinity, personal development, and the challenges of navigating changes in traditional gender roles. Everett shares his personal experiences as a parent navigating the transition to an "empty nest" and his professional insights as a Vice President of...

Why Many Men Don't Feel Lovable with Dr. Kelly Flanagan 30.06.2023

In this episode of Modern Masculinity, Hector Santiesteban is joined Dr. Kelly Flanagan. They talk about the challenges and triumphs of personal growth, self-improvement, and maintaining work-life balance in a remote work setting. We delve into the intricacies of nurturing relationships and being fully present for our loved ones. Dr. Flanagan shares a lot of insights for men seeking to enhance the...

Why So Many Men Feel Aimless and What to Do About it with John D'Agostini 26.06.2023

In this episode of the Modern Masculinity Podcast, Hector engages in a deep and insightful conversation with John D'Agostini. John, who has worked with over 10,000 young men over the course of his career, shares his personal journey and the importance of self-discovery and brotherhood in a man's life. He emphasizes the need for men to question societal norms and expectations, and to engage in self...

Expanding Your Range and Evolving as a Man with David Arrell 23.06.2023

In this episode of Modern Masculinity, host Hector Santiesteban engages in a meaningful conversation with David Arrell, an accomplished Author, Entrepreneur, Consultant, and Men's Coach. Together, they delve into the challenges of balancing parenthood and daily responsibilities, likening it to a delicate teeter-totter where maintaining equilibrium is crucial to ensure the happiness and smooth func...

Understanding the Damages of Perfectionism and Shame with Jim Young 20.06.2023

In this episode of Modern Masculinity, host Hector Santiesteban engages in a meaningful conversation with Jim Young about the topic of burnout and its impact on men. They delve into the reasons behind burnout and explore ways for men to navigate intimacy and address shame through open communication. The discussion also sheds light on the alarming rates of depression, addiction, and suicide among m...

Undoing Generational Trauma and Embracing Self-Compassion with Quentin Finney 16.06.2023

In this episode of Modern Masculinity, Hector Santiesteban and Quentin Finney delve into the power of male friendship and the significance of engaging in open conversations about challenging topics, including death. They draw inspiration from a long-standing group of men who have been meeting for 25 years to explore such subjects, and consider forming a similar group with their own friends. They a...

Foundational Fatherhood Principles with Dustin Riechmann 13.06.2023

In this episode of Modern Masculinity, Hector Santiesteban engages in a meaningful conversation with Dustin Riechmann, an entrepreneur, father, husband, and professional podcast guest. They explore a range of topics related to family, relationships, and personal growth. Dustin candidly shares his own financial struggles and the transformative experience of attending a marriage retreat, which empha...

Getting the Goods Out of Life and Having It All with Tim Rhode 09.06.2023

In this episode of Modern Masculinity, Hector Santiesteban and Tim Rhode explore various aspects of masculinity and personal growth. They discuss blending traditional masculinity with the modern world, navigating parental expectations, and finding joy in simple pleasures. Tim shares personal anecdotes and insights, emphasizing the importance of expanding capacity in modern masculinity and allowing...

Living Authentically in the Modern World with Scott Groves 06.06.2023

In this episode of Modern Masculinity, Hector Santiesteban engages in a conversation with Scott Groves, covering various topics related to personal growth and development. They highlight the importance of separating the message from the messenger when discussing controversial subjects, focusing on the content of arguments rather than personal biases. The episode also emphasizes the significance of...

The Mindset Needed to Sustain a Healthy Lifestyle with John Winters 05.06.2023

In this episode of Modern Masculinity, Hector Santiesteban interviews John Winters, a personal training business owner and author. They delve into the challenges of transitioning between self-employment and corporate employment in the fitness industry, emphasizing the importance of health and fitness in maximizing time. They discuss the significance of setting achievable fitness goals, anticipatin...

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