Modern Marriage with Monica

Ever wondered if your wife might be having an affair? In this eye-opening video, I share personal insights from my own past experiences as a former cheater to help you spot the signs. Here's what we cover: Sign 1: Sudden Improvement in Appearance - Why a change in style might signal more than just self-care. Sign 2: New Friends or Interests - The influence of new social circles and the 'divorce co...

Many couples proudly proclaim their spouse as their 'best friend" . In this video, we discuss why your husband or wife should never be your best friend. This is due to the fact that the more of a friend you are, the less of a lover you tend to be.

In this thought-provoking video, we explore the profound effects of male obesity on marriage, focusing on how it impacts key aspects like attraction, safety, and emotional well-being. 🔹 What You'll Discover: Physical Attraction: How obesity can diminish the physical attraction your wife felt when you married. Safety Concerns: Physical, financial, and emotional safety - why an obese man might stru...

Is your marriage at risk? In this thought-provoking video, we explore the profound effects of male obesity on marriage, focusing on how it impacts key aspects like attraction, safety, and emotional well-being. 🔹 What You'll Discover: Physical Attraction: How obesity can diminish the physical attraction your wife felt when you married. Safety Concerns: Physical, financial, and emotional safety - w...

Fellas, have you ever found yourself in the middle of a heated moment with your wife, wondering, "Why is she so emotional about this?" If you’ve tried to “logic” her out of her feelings, only to make things worse, this video is for you. We dive deep into the emotional dynamics of relationships, explaining why logic doesn’t work in these situations and what you should do instead. Learn how to handl...

🎥 7 Signs She’s Into You (And 1 Misleading Signal You Need to Ignore!) Do you ever feel like women are speaking in a secret code when it comes to showing interest? Don’t worry—you’re not alone! In this video, I’ll guide you through 7 unmistakable signs that she’s into you. From personal space to lingering glances, I’ll help you decode the signals you might be missing. Plus, I’ll share one common...

Many men choose to stay in bad marriages for a variety of reasons. The most common are 1. Children still at home 2. The Financial Implications 3. Playing it "Safe" In this video I discuss why staying with a contentious, demeaning woman, for any of the above reasons is a poor decision.

Do You Feel Like You've Been Bait-and-Switched in Your Marriage? 🤔 In this video, we explore why some men feel like their marriage took a turn for the worse after the honeymoon phase ended. You might be feeling like your wife has lost interest, the passion has faded, and that you've been bait-and-switched. But is that really what’s happening? I break down the common misconceptions and the emotion...

Understanding each person's core needs the basis for a relationship/marriage long term success. In today's video, we explore what are the core needs of women. It is only by understanding your spouse's core needs that you can then meet them and have a long term healthy and happy marriage. Core needs are the building blocks in which the rest of the relationship is built. Women have two primary core...

Life can be difficult but even in those tough times there's valuable lessons that can be learned. In this episode we explore 5 life lessons I learned by playing a treasure hunt type of radio station contest for the last seven years including one big mistake that cost me the $10,000 prize. Stick around for these motivating, inspiring and funny stories of my rock hunting adventures and how the lesso...

Men often will rejected their wife's offer for duty sex due to feeling like it's just another chore, something to cross off her "to do" list, taking it as a lack of physical attraction and desire for him, leading to a cascade of problems in their marriage. This video covers why duty sex shouldn't be considered pity sex. How it's not a rejection of the man, rather a sacrificial offering of love tha...

We wrap up our Roadblocks to Sexual Desire today with exploring what emotional influences may be coming into play from the woman's point of view that can be hindering her desire for intimacy.

Today we continue our Roadblocks to Sexual Desire Series. While we've previously discussed potential physical obstacles with both the man and the woman. We start by jumping into detail what I believe is the #1 cause of women rejecting their husband's sexual advances. In this video we are diving into potential emotional problems with the man. Specifically what behaviors or actions is the man doing...

What is a Godly wife? In this video we examine the one of the most popular Proverbs. 31:10. We examine in detail this entire chapter to get a better insight into the qualities and attributes of a good wife. And the findings just may surprise you, as it did me. For instance, we often think a Godly wife solely stays at home with the children and doesn't have a job outside of caretaking children. How...

Are you a married man who's wife doesn't want to have sex with you? Today, we continue our Roadblocks to Sexual Desire Series. The last two episodes we focus on how the "problem" could be from the man's side. Today we turn our focus on reasons having to do with his wife. Specifically, we discuss physical issues such as medicines, medical conditions, seasons of life and menopause. We discuss how or...

In this video we continued the Roadblock to Attractions series. Today, we explore how a man's physical body can enhance or detract his woman's attraction for him. We discuss the need to refer back to his wedding picture as a clue or a reference point to what physically turns her on. Do you look as good, if not better than that day? Or is did you do a physical bait and switch? Your physical body is...

If you're struggling to keep the passion alive in your marriage, this video will help you navigate roadblocks to desire and get your wife interested again. Don't let divorce be the only option - watch now!

All women want strong male leadership in their relationship. But what does that even look like? It's likely that you have you been getting your advice from other guys. And while that is extremely helpful, I think there's a piece of the puzzle missing... a woman's point of view? And that is what I'm here to help you with today! This video covers what women want and need from men as a leader in the...

25 to 50% of today's marriages today are sexless. This is often called a "Dead Bedroom". This leads to a feeling of rejection, frustration, and resentment for many people Today we have taken some posts from the Reddit community in the Dead Bedroom Subreddit. Follow along as I read some of the posts and offer my thoughts and opinions of what is the possible problem and potential solution. This is a...

Explore real Dead Bedroom Reddit stories in this video. Find out how others have dealt with intimacy struggles in their relationships. With almost 5000,000 members on Reddit's Dead Bedroom forum, the lack of physical intimacy and the emotional impact it has on a person's sense of self-worth and the relationship as a whole is greater than we ever thought. I share my thoughts, suggestions, and gener...

Unlock his heart and transform your marriage with the secret power of homecooked meals! 🥘 Join me, Monica Almaguer, as I share my personal journey from a career-driven mom who saw cooking as a chore to discovering its profound impact on a happy, successful marriage. Through a life-changing realization, I found that homemade meals can boost your relationship and create deeper intimacy. I'll share...

Last week, we explored praise, appreciation, and gratitude. Now, I'm sharing actionable tips and tools to balance praise and criticism effectively. In my personal journey, I've noticed how easy it is to focus on the negatives, especially with my kids and husband. But here's the secret: Your compliment-to-complaint ratio needs to be right! Aim for a 10-to-1 ratio of positive to negative comments. P...

Ever wondered if you can change your husband? The answer might surprise you! In this video, I explore how focusing on your own actions and mindset can transform your marriage, leading to deeper intimacy and profound improvements. Through heartfelt anecdotes and actionable tips, I'll share how praise, appreciation, and gratitude can create a positive shift in your relationship. Discover how rewardi...

Ever had those days where your husband walks in grumpy? I've been there! In this video, I share my personal journey and a life-changing realization that transformed my marriage. Discover the 4-step strategy to handle disagreements with grace and build a deeper intimacy. Join me as I dive into my own experiences, from funny anecdotes to heartfelt moments. Learn how curiosity can replace judgemental...