Modern Anarchy

On today's episode, we have artist Fadl Fakhouri (He/Him) join us for a conversation about deconstructing society's narrative for our lives. Together we talk about the elusive nature of queerness, learning to love ourselves in relationships, and throwing away the manual to create your own relationship garden. If you enjoyed today's podcast, then please subscribe, leave a review, or sha...

On today's episode, we have founder and CEO of Make Love Not Porn Cindy Gallop (She/Her) join us for a conversation about authentic pleasure. Together we talk about the need for real consent conversations, the social sex revolution, and the barriers to sharing adult content. If you enjoyed today's podcast, then please subscribe, leave a review, or share this podcast with a friend! To learn...

On today's episode, we have somatic sex educator, writer, and healer Britta Love (She/Her) join us for a conversation about the power of deeply embodied pleasure. Together we talk about dismantling systems through community, the vulnerability of expressing desire, and radical consent practices. If you enjoyed today's podcast, then please subscribe, leave a review, or share this podcast wit...

On today's episode, we have psychotherapist and author Laura Mae Northrup (She/Her) join us for conversation exploring how capitalism affects intimacy. Together we talk about the power of community, identifying shared frustrations under capitalism across political ideologies, and staying in connection for transformative growth. If you enjoyed today's podcast, then please subscribe, leave a...

On today's episode, we have non-binary gender and sex therapist and author, Rae McDaniel, (They/Them) join us for a conversation about embracing more play and pleasure. Together we talk about the beauty of chosen family, following your expansion, and when labels become a box. If you enjoyed today's podcast, then please subscribe, leave a review, or share this podcast with a friend! To lear...

On today's episode we have co founder and CEO of Momotaro Apotheca, Lindsay Wynn (She/Her) join us for a vulnerable conversation about authentic liberation. Together we talk about having sex in a Hot Spring, finding empowerment in vulnerable conversations, and connecting to radical pleasure. If you enjoyed today's podcast, then please subscribe, leave a review, or share this podcast with a...

On today's episode, we have therapist, educator, and sex worker Raquel Savage (She/Her) join us for a conversation about the need for a more relationally focused world. Together we talk about the healing power of intimacy, the isolation of our existential existence, and talking shit about mental health system. If you enjoyed today's podcast, then please subscribe, leave a review, or share...

On today's episode, we have diversity, equity, and inclusion practitioner, educator, and business owner Jasmine Prince (She/Her) joins us for a conversation about being true to yourself. Together we talk about redesigning your life path as an adult, paying attention to the top five people you surround yourself with, and listening to the wisdom of the body. If you enjoyed today's podcast, t...

On today's episode, we have Kelly Gordon (She/Her), join us for a conversation all about prioritizing our pleasure. Together we talk about remembering the historical context of women's sexuality, healing our inner child, and letting go of perfectionism. If you enjoyed today's podcast, then please subscribe, leave a review, or share this podcast with a friend! To learn more, head over t...

On today's episode, we have sex therapist, licensed clinical social worker, and sex worker Soleil Merroir (She/They) join us for a conversation about how structural oppression is embedded in psychotherapy. Together we talk about burnout in therapy under capitalism, building a new world of connected healing, and how basic sex education can get you fired. If you enjoyed today's podcast, then...

On today's episode, we have Mistress Sybil Fury (She/Her) join us for a conversation about harnessing the power of dominance. Together we talk about early kink memories in Catholicism, the risks of having only one erotic mirror, and Mistress Sybil Fury's fascist state. If you enjoyed today's podcast, then please subscribe, leave a review, or share this podcast with a friend! To learn m...

On today's episode, we have Dr. Craig Heacock (He/Him) join us for a conversation about the future of psychedelic healing. Together we talk about the varying experiences of different psychedelics, exploring these medicines in our relationship to pleasure, and the importance of connecting to our bodies. If you enjoyed today's podcast, then please subscribe, leave a review, or share this pod...

On today's episode, we have artist Maxx Hill (They/Them, He/Him) join us for a conversation all about relationship customization within the practice of Relationship Anarchy. Together we talk about queering it up, the importance of finding love and belonging in community, and the discomfort of growth. RELATIONSHIP ANARCHY RESEARCH : ⁠https://www.modernanarchypodcast.com/relationshipanarchy⁠ Che...

On today's episode, we have sex educator and content creator Hannah Witton (She/Her) join us for a conversation about the passionate anger that fuels our advocacy for a sex education that deconstructs binaries. Together we talk about toxic monogamy culture, navigating sex after pregnancy, and the Madonna whore complex. If you enjoyed today's podcast, then please subscribe, leave a review,...

On today's conversation, we have psychedelic therapist Kayla Felten (She/Her) join us for a conversation about the healing journey of reclaiming our spirituality and intuition. Together we talk about how submitting to a male god has complicated dating, differentiating between our inner healing wisdom and trauma scripts, and tapping into the feminine divine. If you enjoyed today's podcast,...

On today's episode, we have sex educator Damian Weatherald (He/Him) join us for a conversation about the pleasure we all deserve. Together we talk about the taboo topic of sexuality for people with a disability, how American sex education is worse than other countries, and the medicine of laughter. If you enjoyed today's podcast, then please subscribe, leave a review, or share this podcast...

Activation Warning: Discussion of Sexual Assault On today's episode, we have birthwork and writer Chaney (She/They) join us for a conversation all about the transformative healing journey of exploring kink. Together we talk about virginity coins, being completely unaware that you are kinky, and stepping into radical embodiment. If you enjoyed today's podcast, then please subscribe, leave a...

On today's episode, we have Chad (He/Him) from PolyamFam join us fo a conversation all about the wild learning journey of non-monogamy. Together we talk about the one penis policy, designing your own relationship structures, and the pitfalls of open-relating. If you enjoyed today's podcast, then please subscribe, leave a review, or share this podcast with a friend! To learn more, head over...

On today's episode, we are celebrating the two year anniversary of the podcast with a special reflection episode with my dear friend, Dan (He/Him). Together we talk about the divine intervention of meeting a kinky person, the uncomfortability of emotions, and embracing the full human experience. If you enjoyed today's podcast, then please subscribe, leave a review, or share this podcast wi...

On today's episode, we have traditional birth keepers and community herbalists Andi Rose (She/Her) and Jaycee (She/Her) join us for a conversation all about radical holistic healing under capitalism. Together we talk about the healing nature of plants and herbs, the lack of informed consent in medicine, and being understandably upset with our current social conditions. If you enjoyed today&#39...

On today's episode, we have Dr. Daniel José Gaztambide Nuñez (He/Him) join us for a conversation all about liberation psychology. Together we talk about the neoliberal tilt of psychology today, the mobius strip of how social conditioning affects our ability to love, and how speech is always relational and political. If you enjoyed today's podcast, then please subscribe, leave a review, or...

On today's episode, we are celebrating the 100th episode with a special masturbation meditation. Slow down and connect with all the pleasure that is possible in your body with this quick 10 minute meditation. **Meditation begins at 9:04** For all of you listeners that continue to tune in each week, from my full heart I want to wish you the deepest thank you. Thank you for joining me on this jo...

On today's episode, we have therapist Karla Scherf (She/Her) join us for a conversation all about having patience for larger systematic change. Together we talk about the balance between activism and self-care, having faith in the unfolding process, and following your passion.  If you enjoyed today's podcast, then please subscribe, leave a review, or share this podcast with a friend! And...

On today's episode, we have sex educator and surrogate partner therapist Brandon Hunter-Haydon (He/They) join us for a conversation about challenging the status quo to bring about sexual liberation. Together we talk about the healing nature of kinky play, the human need for physical touch in intimacy, and navigating the complexities of fighting for truth.  If you enjoyed today's podcast, then...

Activation Warning: Suicide  On today's episode, we have therapist and author Amber Underwood (She/Her) join us for a conversation all about the power of healing yourself first. Together we talk about the strength of saying we are not okay, the relational core of our mental health, and the expansion process of healing.  If you enjoyed today's podcast, then please subscribe, leave a review,...