Modern Anarchy

On today’s episode we have author Camille Sapara Barton (they/them) join us for a conversation about grief tending as a generative force for deepening our relationships. Together we talk about the power of tuning into your body, imagining a new future of collective healing, and learning to savor the small daily pleasures. If you enjoyed today's podcast, then please subscribe, leave a review, o...

On today’s episode we have surrogate partner Katherine Yeagel (all pronouns) join us for a conversation about expanding our cultural imagination around sex work. Together we talk about exploring sex work for pleasure and the connection to solo-polyamory, submitting to the kinkiness of our interconnection, and how our relationships shape our reality. If you enjoyed today's podcast, then please...

On today’s episode, we have Ren Cerebral (they/them) join us for another relationship anarchy research conversation. Together we talk about trying to explain relationship anarchy to your parents, the eroticism of intellectual alignment, and the power of a frame shift.       If you are also interested in participating in the research and sharing your voice in the movement, then click on the link be...

On today’s episode, we have Sex educator Tristan Taormino (She/Her) join us for a conversation about the queer sexual revolution. Together we talk about bottom at age 25 compared to age 52, transformative soul merging sex, and when a magnet hits you with timeless wisdom. If you enjoyed today's podcast, then please subscribe, leave a review, or share this podcast with a friend! To learn more, h...

On today’s episode, we have Dr. Eric Fitzmedrud (He/Him) join us for a conversation about letting go of erotic shame to embody your pleasure. Together we talk moving from infidelity to consensual non-monogamy, taking a multicultural view to our scripts around pleasure, and liberating your right to play. If you enjoyed today's podcast, then please subscribe, leave a review, or share this podcas...

On today’s episode, we have Psychiatrist Dr. Sam Zand (He/Him) join us for a conversation about finding your unique path to healing. Together we talk about building neuro plasticity through play, how community is medicine, and the impact of SSRIs and Psychedelics on sexuality. If you enjoyed today's podcast, then please subscribe, leave a review, or share this podcast with a friend! To learn m...

On today’s episode, we have August Wolff (It/They) join us for a relationship anarchy research interview. Together we talk about finding the magic pill of security for my anxious heart, relationship anarchy’s connection to kinky play, and trying to fit relationship anarchy onto a bumper sticker. If you are also interested in participating in the research and sharing your voice in the movement, the...

On today’s episode, we have sex educator Jimanekia Eborn (She/Her) join us for a conversation about finding presence in the full range of life’s emotions. Together we talk about bringing pleasure to your biggest sex organ...your brain, the importance of laughter in sex, and finding healing in community. Psychedelic Jealousy Guide: https://www.modernanarchypodcast.com/groundinginjealousy If you enj...

On today’s episode, we have Dr. Juliana Hauser (She/Her) join us for a conversation about the cultural shift towards sexual empowerment and pleasure. Together we talk about when your biggest fear is having to seduce someone, no longer whispering the word “clitoris”, and the freedom of embodying your pleasure. If you enjoyed today's podcast, then please subscribe, leave a review, or share this...

On today’s episode, we have anthropologist  Bia LaBate (She/Her) join us for a educational conversation about queering psychedelic healing and activism. Together we talk about ripping out the gendered ribbons, the intersection of our bodily autonomy, and how queers throw the best parties. If you enjoyed today's podcast, then please subscribe, leave a review, or share this podcast with a friend...

On today’s episode, we have Kat Pfligler (They/Them) join us for another special episode of the relationship anarchist research series. Together we talk about and getting outside of the monogamy non-monogamy binary, finding your edge of deconstructing internalized systems of oppression, embracing the inevitability of change. If you are also interested in participating in the research and sharing y...

On today’s episode, we have queer sex educator and podcaster Em Hill (She/Her) join us for a conversation about healing from sexual trauma to embodying empowerment. Together we talk about the mindfuck of doming cis-men, the subversion of role play, and the life-long exploration of our erotic narratives. If you enjoyed today's podcast, then please subscribe, leave a review, or share this podcas...

On today’s episode, we have Allen Turner (He/Him) join us for a conversation about creating narratives of play and nourishing connections. Together we talk about boldly embracing your authenticity, learning to practice love, and stepping into the flow state of play. Relationship Reflection : https://www.modernanarchypodcast.com/relationshipreflection If you enjoyed today's podcast, then please...

On today’s episode, we have Kristen Thomas (she/her) join us for a conversation about our cultural shift towards more expansive pleasure. Together we talk about unpacking why you might be nervous at your first play party, telling your mom about your first threesome, and embracing the fluidity of our sexuality. If you enjoyed today's podcast, then please subscribe, leave a review, or share this...

On today’s episode, we have Sarah Caroline (she/her) join us for a research conversation exploring the practice of relationship anarchy. If you are also interested in participating in the research and sharing your voice in the movement, then click on the link below. RELATIONSHIP ANARCHY RESEARCH : ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.modernanarchypodcast.com/relationshipanarchy⁠⁠⁠⁠ If you enjoyed today's podcast,...

On today’s episode, we have professional dominatrix Mistress Wild Iris (She/Her) join us for a conversation about exploring our psyches through BDSM and fantasy. Together we talk about confronting your shadow in play, the power of the priestess archetype, and surrendering to the keys of your erotic liberation. If you enjoyed today's podcast, then please subscribe, leave a review, or share this...

On today’s episode, we have psychedelic activist Tony Moss (He/Him) join us for a conversation exploring the relational impact of psychedelics. Together we talk about the importance of examining your set and setting, seeing your relational patterns from a new perspective, and finding your own spiritual empowerment with psychedelics. If you enjoyed today's podcast, then please subscribe, leave...

On today's episode, we are celebrating the three year anniversary of the podcast with the annual reflection episode. If you enjoyed today's podcast, then please subscribe, leave a review, or share this podcast with a friend! To learn more, head over to the website ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.modernanarchypodcast.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ And if you want to connect deeper with the Modern Anarchy Family, the...

On today’s episode, we have our second relationship anarchy research interview with Lara Okafor (They/Them). If you are also interested in participating in the research and sharing your voice in the movement, then click on the link below. RELATIONSHIP ANARCHY RESEARCH : ⁠⁠⁠https://www.modernanarchypodcast.com/relationshipanarchy⁠⁠⁠ If you enjoyed today's podcast, then please subscribe, leave a...

On today’s episode, we have artist Anita Nevar (She/Her) join us for a conversation about living into sexual liberation. Together we talk about growing up in a doom’s day cult, the connection between creativity and embodiment, and letting our pleasure lead by example. If you enjoyed today's podcast, then please subscribe, leave a review, or share this podcast with a friend! To learn more, head...

On today’s episode, we have Nicolle Hodges (She/Her) join us for a conversation about exploring our erotic psychology. Together we talk about the transformation of looking at your vulva in the mirror, the joy of sexual world building, and the curiosity and courage needed to play in the erotic. If you enjoyed today's podcast, then please subscribe, leave a review, or share this podcast with a f...

On today’s episode, we have Dr. Adele Lafrance (She/Her) join us for a conversation about examining mother blame. Together we talk about healing from internalized patriarchy, navigating the Madonna and the whore complex, and integrating the political need for pleasure. If you enjoyed today's podcast, then please subscribe, leave a review, or share this podcast with a friend! To learn more, hea...

On today’s episode, we have our first relationship anarchy research interview with Renya NeoNorton (They/Them). If you are also interested in participating in the research and sharing your voice in the movement, then click on the link below. RELATIONSHIP ANARCHY RESEARCH : ⁠⁠https://www.modernanarchypodcast.com/relationshipanarchy⁠⁠ If you enjoyed today's podcast, then please subscribe, leave...

On today’s episode, we have sex worker and writer Liara Roux (They/He/She) join us for a conversation about finding empowerment after the abuse of religion. Together we talk about learning to leave relationships, empowering others to choose for themselves rather than giving advice, and normalizing sex work. If you enjoyed today's podcast, then please subscribe, leave a review, or share this podcas...

On today’s episode, we have Tshegofatso Senne (They/Him) join us for a conversation about the transformative nature of power play. Together we talk about an abolitionist perspective to harm and transgression in kink, green flags in play partners, and the spirituality of bdsm. If you enjoyed today's podcast, then please subscribe, leave a review, or share this podcast with a friend! To learn mo...