Mixing Up Midlife

For the first time in the show's history, we've got  a twenty something on as our guest! We're joined by Melissa's Gen Z daughter, Alison, who gives us her thoughts on The Golden Bachelor, explains what "Porch Era"is  and talks about what she liked about the show. Mix It Up with Us Leave Us A Voicemail       Terri on Instagram   Melissa on Instagram   Join the Mixing Up Midlife Discussion Facebook...

In this episode, hosts Melissa and Terri sit down with Marilee Bramhall, the passionate founder of Iola Wines. Marilee takes us on a sensory journey, sharing her adventures in the wine business and her dedication to elevating the work of women in the wine industry. From virtual wine tastings to her deep-rooted connection to Old World wines and the influence of women in its production, Marilee's in...

Not a Golden Bachelor fan? Don't despair! While we do discuss the most recent TGB episode (The Fantasy Suites), we dive into some of the bigger themes that struck us: Does sex equal intimacy, would you choose adventure vs. safety and the importance of pillow talk. We also laugh about grappeling with chin hair, sports and concepts of aging. HAPPY THANKSGIVING to our listeners who celebrate. We're t...

Get ready for the holidays! Melissa gives posing tips for the camera shy, which include holding a 6 inch sub and getting comfortable with yourself in front of a mirror....we do a not recap of the Golden Bachelor Women Tell All and we get ready for Black Friday with a few Try it or Buy its and we have some Weekend Watches for you. Get Melissa's   Camera Shy Guide: The Ultimate Guide to Stepping In...

Inspired by an interview with The Golden Bachelor contestant, Nancy Hulkower, we talk about what it would take to kickstart your life and make yourself a little uncomfortable so you can reap the benefits and grow. We do a pretty quick recap of the Golden Bachelor Ep. 6. We think Faith is out and it's going to be Theresa and Leslie after the hometown visits. Send us an email or voicemail with your...

It's another recap: Gerry is having the time of his life, but are the women? 3 women go home in this episode, 3 move onto hometown visits. Weekend Watch: Drops of God i s an absolute must see on Apple TV + Get ready for Thnanksgiving now by making this insanely good Pumkin Spiced Latte clarified milk punch . It takes about 3 days to make and lasts for as long as you can leave it in the fridge. Mix...

Terri is back from Paris, the City of Love. She walked, ate and drank her way through most of the city's arrondissements. Speaking of love, we're back breaking down episode 4 of The Golden Bachelor. TLDR: Kathy & Theresa are having a disagreement and Gerry feels the negativity.  Sweet & Spicy Sandra plays a mean game of Pickleball on 2 artificial knees, while missing her daughter's wedding. Then g...

Third time's a charm.   We're back and recapping episode 3 of The Golden Bachelor. This week's group date is a talent show, the winner of which will be awarded a prized one on one date with Gerry. The ladies were so creative with their talents and we wonder:   If you had an hour to prep for a talent show, what would your talent be? Leave Us A Voicemail   with your talent! Joan mentions feeling inv...

We're back breaking down Episode 2 of the Golden Bachelor. We got a voicemail from our favorite listener Carrie weighing in on why she won't be watching the Golden Bachelor and how being energetic is a mindset and not at all about age. Go Tigger! So far, we are absolutely loving how the ladies are representing the over 50 crowd, but we're a bit concerned with their hearts. So many of the women hav...

We swear, we had notes for this show! But here we go again... Melissa & Terri watch ABC/Hulu's The Golden Bachelor and have thoughts and HOPES on how these women are portrayed. We were invited to a watch party with Golden Bachelor contestant, Natascha, who we met a few years ago on Clubhouse. It was a fascinating opportunity. We have concerns of course- will this forward the pro-aging conversation...

A lot has happened since we first had Erica Schulte King on episode 140 . When we last spoke almost a year ago, Erica was just about to host her first meet-up of women in Minnesota who were interested in creating connections. Since then, Erica has hosted an exchange student, quit her job of 10+ years, took the summer off to figure out what she really wanted to do in this new phase of life , found...

In this episode of Mixing Up Midlife,  Terri and Melissa delve into the power of storytelling in reigniting imagination during midlife. They explore the intricacies of storytelling, drawing inspiration from John Truby's book "The Anatomy of a Story". They also discuss the evolution of storytelling in music, with artists like Bruce Springsteen and Chrissie Hynde embracing the themes of aging and in...

Is the term "Aging Gracefully" gracelessly ageist? Melissa and Terri discuss the term and question why do supposedly "pro-age" accounts and influencers use a term that seems to be based in submissive, passive and powerless language. We prefer to use a term that previous guest, Holly Boxenhorn suggests: "Aging Powerfully". We're going to be recapping The Golden Bachelor on our soon to be released P...

It's that time of year again, Back to School. For many, this will be the first taste of an empty nest and while tears might be shed, Terri & Melissa, who have been empty nesters-then not empty nesters for a few years now (hello, adult children between jobs), have some thoughts on how to empty nest happily. Some episodes mentioned and worth a re-listen:   Episode 154. Katherine Leamy The 5 Kilo Tra...

n today's episode, we have the pleasure of chatting with the inspiring Amy Wall. Amy is a skincare expert and beauty coach who is here to share her incredible knowledge and insights with us.   Amy dives deep into her three pillars of beauty: skin intelligence, energy illumination, and self-image. She believes that taking care of ourselves goes beyond just using the right skincare products. It's ab...

Welcome back. Summer adventures are coming to a close and Melissa & Terri are back together! In today's episode, we dive into the question: Can you spend six weeks with one person? Melissa takes us on a journey through her recent experiences, including hiking in the wilderness, dealing with unexpected challenges, and reflecting on the dynamics of a marriage in really tight quarters . From the beau...

Are you ready to embrace the transformative power of midlife? Join us on the latest episode of Mixing Up Midlife as we dive deep into the world of empowered aging with midlife coach Holly Boxenhorn. In this episode, Holly shares her expertise in creating an empowered energetic state during midlife and how it can positively impact all areas of your life. She highlights the six influencers that impa...

It's been 4 weeks since we last spoke and boy do we have a lot to catch up on. From picturesque towns and adventurous hikes to surprise engagements and house hunting, we'll dive into the highs and lows that have been shaping our lives recently. Hold on tight as we journey through family visits, camping adventures, and the delight that comes with welcoming new family members. We've missed each othe...

 Terri and Melissa dive into the summer season with a fun BuzzFeed-style quiz created on ChatGPT to determine what type of house guest (or host) you might be. The quiz wasn't the best, but the conversation surrounding it was! We're both off for our summer adventures and we won't be seeing each other for a few weeks, but we've got some great guests lined up for you! Are you going on a summer advent...

Has there been something that affected you so profoundly that it changed the course of your life? An encounter with the music of Joni Mitchell's music made Annie Lenox change her life. On today's episode we're talking about the ladies of the 80's- iconic 80's singers and how they navigated   families, children and becoming empty nesters.     Annie Lenox on Instagram , On PBS Interview Suzannah Hof...

MUM 166. Podcast Updates, Natalie Merchant On Tour, Season FInales & More While there are literally millions of podcasts, that shouldn't stop you from creating your own. As "women of a certain age", there are a ton of reasons why you should start podcasting. On today's episode, Terri and Melissa, talk about some of those reasons and what it's meant for their friendship. We get back to segments tod...

We're talking about ways to make summer last longer on today's episode. This episode is short & sweet with listener ideas and our own thoughts on ways to stretch the good vibes of summer. Melissa's summer started 2 weeks ago with a chilly, but relaxing beach get away on Cape Cod. Terri is dreaming of creating a romantic outdoor reading room that will be a shaded place to relax and dream. What are...

Not a finance nerd? Neither were we, until we had the pleasure of speaking Stacy Francis, CFP®, CDFA®, CES™, President & CEO of Francis Financial and the visionary behind Savvy Ladies, a charity dedicated to empowering women through no cost financial education and resources.   Stacy joins us on today's episode and shares her expertise with us, making personal finance relatable, accessible and atta...

In this episode, we sit down with Pat Ogle Collins, a travel advisor with extensive experience in expedition travel. Pat shares her insights on the role of travel advisors and how they can enhance your travel experiences. She also discusses her unforgettable journey through the Drake Passage in Antarctica and the challenges and rewards of this type of adventure. Pat emphasizes the importance of tr...