Mind Your P's and Q's

What happens if you open a case for your divorce or custody matter and your ex doesn’t respond? Are you stuck married and/or without a formalized custody arrangement? Fear not! In this episode, we’re covering everything you need to know about what happens if you find yourself in this scenario. -- Credits Intro and Outro Music: “Motivational Day” by AudioCoffee , available under the Pixabay License...

This episode covers an important update on the standard used to approve agreements reached outside of court. Tune in to learn about the recent case that clarified the unfair versus equitable standards used within family court. -- Credits Intro and Outro Music: “Motivational Day” by AudioCoffee , available under the Pixabay License Recording and Editing Software: Audacity® software is copyright © 1...

Tune in for this brief update episode where I address why there were no new episodes released in November. You’ll also find out a little about what to expect from the podcast going forward. -- Credits Intro and Outro Music: “Motivational Day” by AudioCoffee , available under the Pixabay License Recording and Editing Software: Audacity® software is copyright © 1999-2021 Audacity Team. The name Auda...

If you’re facing a divorce or custody matter with a history of domestic violence, you may assume you’re automatically precluded from pursuing an alternative to litigation. In today’s episode, I’m breaking down why that assumption isn’t true and shedding light on key considerations when deciding whether an alt may be a viable option in your case. -- Credits Intro and Outro Music: “Motivational Day”...

If you’re facing a divorce or custody matter, you’re likely to make mistakes if you plow ahead blindly—and that’s to be expected! So, whether choosing to litigate, mediate, or seek some other alternative to litigation, listen to this episode to get ahead of the top mistakes to avoid. -- Credits Intro and Outro Music: “Motivational Day” by AudioCoffee , available under the Pixabay License Recording...

The updated spousal maintenance guidelines and BRAND NEW spousal maintenance calculator are here! Tune in now to learn about the changes, including their effective date, and where to find the guidelines and calculator for yourself. -- Links Mentioned Spousal Maintenance Calculator - https://www.superiorcourt.maricopa.gov/app/selfsuffcalc/ Spousal Maintenance Guidelines - https://www.azcourts.gov/P...

If you and/or your spouse identify as LGBTQ+, you may be curious if/how your divorce or custody matter will differ from a heterosexual one, in terms of both process and specific issues. Tune in now to learn all about navigating an LGBTQ+ divorce or custody matter in Arizona. -- Credits Intro and Outro Music: “Motivational Day” by AudioCoffee , available under the Pixabay License Recording and Edit...

Did you know you can mediate your prenup? Consider this healthy alternative to reduce or remove the stress and tension that can be involved when using the traditional process. In this episode, find out all the details you need to know about mediating your prenuptial agreement, including the benefits and what the general process entails. -- Credits Intro and Outro Music: “Motivational Day” by Audio...

Today, we’re talking all things prenup! Learn exactly what a prenuptial agreement is, who should get one and why, what agreements can be included, and how to actually get one. We’ll also cover amending or revoking your prenup and enforceability of it during your divorce or legal separation. -- Credits Intro and Outro Music: “Motivational Day” by AudioCoffee , available under the Pixabay License Re...

Mediation is a powerful tool that can help couples avoid litigating their divorce or custody matter. Nonetheless, not all cases are well suited for this alternative. Tune in now to find out when it may be best to skip mediation and go straight to court, including discussion on whether mediation may be successful at helping you work through limited issues at any point. -- Credits Intro and Outro Mu...

Once you tell your children about your divorce or break-up, they’ll need to start adjusting. Listen now to find out how you can help your kids best adjust to your separation and their new normal! -- Credits Intro and Outro Music: “Motivational Day” by AudioCoffee , available under the Pixabay License Recording and Editing Software: Audacity® software is copyright © 1999-2021 Audacity Team. The nam...

So, you’ve decided to divorce or break-up and now you have to tell the kids. If you’re currently dreading this talk or are simply unsure the best way to approach it, tune in now! Today’s episode goes over all you need to know to best prepare for and have the discussion as well as be ready to respond to your kids’ questions and concerns. -- Credits Intro and Outro Music: “Motivational Day” by Audio...

Have you heard about nesting co-parenting or are you already considering whether it’s the right plan for you? Whether you know nothing or want to learn more, tune in now to discuss what nesting is, considerations in choosing it as your co-parenting plan, and terms you might include. -- Credits Intro and Outro Music: “Motivational Day” by AudioCoffee , available under the Pixabay License Recording...

We’re diving deeper into parenting plans in today’s episode! Curious what factors to consider when developing a parenting plan when there is a history of domestic violence? Listen now to hear best practices to follow and get your ideas flowing with some example provisions you might want to include. -- Links Mentioned Maricopa County’s Domestic Violence Program - https://superiorcourt.maricopa.gov/...

In this episode, we discuss crafting an appropriate parenting plan for your family. Tune in to learn overarching considerations for your parenting plan and hear some specific examples of common parenting schedules. -- Links Mentioned Court Guide on Planning for Parenting Time - https://www.azcourts.gov/portals/31/parentingTime/PPWguidelines.pdf -- Credits Intro and Outro Music: “Motivational Day”...

Emotions run high during divorce and custody mediations and that’s perfectly normal! That said, how do you actually deal with emotions constructively? Tune into this episode to learn tips on coping with your emotions in family mediation. -- Credits Intro and Outro Music: “Motivational Day” by AudioCoffee , available under the Pixabay License Recording and Editing Software: Audacity® software is co...

As you prepare to head into your mediation sessions, listen to today’s episode to learn tips for a productive mediation. By preparing for your mediation sessions and using the tips in this episode, you best ensure a successful mediation where full agreement on all issues is reached. -- Credits Intro and Outro Music: “Motivational Day” by AudioCoffee , available under the Pixabay License Recording...

Moving along in the unofficial mediation fundamentals series, in this episode we’ll be discussing how to prepare for your mediation sessions. By preparing for your mediation sessions, you’ll start on the “right foot” and put yourself on the best path toward a successful mediation. -- Credits Intro and Outro Music: “Motivational Day” by AudioCoffee , available under the Pixabay License Recording an...

Now that you’ve got a better idea of what mediation is, including styles of mediation for you to consider, now learn about the benefits mediation can offer as an alternative or supplement to litigation. -- Credits Intro and Outro Music: “Motivational Day” by AudioCoffee , available under the Pixabay License Recording and Editing Software: Audacity® software is copyright © 1999-2021 Audacity Team....

When choosing a mediator, it’s important to know which style(s) of mediation they use and whether that’s the best style for your situation. Listen now to learn all about the different mediation styles, including which one(s) may be most appropriate for your circumstances. -- Credits Intro and Outro Music: “Motivational Day” by AudioCoffee , available under the Pixabay License Recording and Editing...

We’ve covered the legal fundamentals so now let’s chat mediation fundamentals starting with what mediation actually is and how it can help in your divorce or custody matter. -- Credits Intro and Outro Music: “Motivational Day” by AudioCoffee , available under the Pixabay License Recording and Editing Software: Audacity® software is copyright © 1999-2021 Audacity Team. The name Audacity® is a regis...

Did you know lawyers are only the tip of the iceberg when it comes to professionals who help with divorce? In this episode, learn about other professionals to consider, from legal professionals to experts from related industries. -- Credits Intro and Outro Music: “Motivational Day” by AudioCoffee , available under the Pixabay License Recording and Editing Software: Audacity® software is copyright...

If you’re unsure of the differences between divorce and legal separation, this is the episode for you! We cover considerations for choosing between legal separation and divorce, discuss the requirements and process to get legally separated, and end on how to convert your legal separation into a divorce or terminate the legal separation entirely and restore your marriage. -- Credits Intro and Outro...

If you’re considering modifying spousal maintenance, this episode covers how to determine whether you’re eligible to modify or terminate the ordered support and the court process for doing so. -- Credits Intro and Outro Music: “Motivational Day” by AudioCoffee , available under the Pixabay License Recording and Editing Software: Audacity® software is copyright © 1999-2021 Audacity Team. The name A...

After your initial parenting plan is put in place, how do you address any changes that may be needed? Whether you are looking to modify legal decision-making, parenting time, or child support, learn the requirements to request modifications and what the court must see to approve them. -- Credits Intro and Outro Music: “Motivational Day” by AudioCoffee , available under the Pixabay License Recordin...