Mind Your Own Motherhood

Minding Your Motherhood is more than just going to therapy it is all about choosing to pour into yourself so that you have an overflow for everyone else around you. Creating the boundaries to navigate and define what type of mother you want to be for yourself can be challenging. All of the opinions from family and friends, plus the Pinterest suggestions, and more can leave you feeling less confide...

This book review is focusing on Candice Marie Benbow's  Red Lip Theology.  The Mom Bar has a quarterly highlight of BIPOC Christian women based authors to enhance the conversation and bring to the forefront the voices that are sometimes most marginalized in the Christian community. Candice is a theologian, feminist, an advocate for healing and wholeness and an educator. In her first book relea...

There's more to your vision than this one season that you are currently in. As you develop and evolve as a mother your ages and stages will require different parts of you to show up. Figuring out how to do that doesn't have to be done alone. In community, this episode explores: How to access the blueprint for success specifically tailored to you The benefits of partial vision and progressi...

Life is full of transitions, some that we pray and prepare for and others that just hit us like a ton of bricks. No matter which transition you come to face in your womanhood journey it is how you approach them, your perspective, and evaluating your desires that will make the difference on the other side of the tranisition. The biggest transitions, motherhood and marriage, allowed Dae to ground he...

Starting new things in a society that expects for your first try to be perfect will lead you to not doing the thing that you were created to do. This journey of podcasting is new and The Mom Bar may not have all the pieces together but done is absolutely better than perfect. The grave is the one place that has the most unfinished business, dead dreams, and ideas. Dae shares some of her biggest fea...

Surprises for a Type A, overplanning, retired perfectionist, who is also a stay at home are not usually taken too well, however that's why there's a moment where you have to stop pulling out your hair, unlock the bathroom door from hiding from the kids and your husband, and finally surrender to the BIG BIG God that loves you and has plans for you. You weren't created to figure it all o...

You were not created to move in isolation, mama. The nature of the world has compartmentalized us and left us feeling more alone and less connected. Scrolling on social media seeing the perfect pictures of your favorite mommy influencer while you are covered in spit up and your toddler throwing tantrums leaves you feeling less confident. Honestly, you are only getting the highlights of their life...

Not sure if it’s pregnancy insomnia but Dae has so many things on her mind that she figured she would upload how she is managing the launch of a new business and ministry, going into the last 60 days of pregnancy, and the beauty of getting strategy from God. Expect to be blessed in this episode with:  What Dae learned from pandas and elephants The unique creation and assignment of human mothers. ...

Introduction- Mattie James 1 of the 2 influencers I followed on IG that I still connect with full time influencer, mama of 3, wife, lifestyle blogger, and Youtube Vlogger She teaches influencers what she has done She was Miss Liberia I also adore her sister Maya Elious Why it took me forever to finish the book — I thought it was superficial and a commodified self-care version but it is not! I am s...

Raise your hand if you knew what you were getting into when you signed up for motherhood. Every mama should have their hands tied behind their back because if motherhood was a contract, most of us didn't read the fine print. There's no blueprint to motherhood and in this episode Dae Hayes explores how her journey of motherhood felt like it began with her being a martyr which she didn't...

Let's get away from carrying the burden of generational curses and begin to unlock the generational promises. God’s word is not just what He does but who He is. God is the only thing that proves hisself against hisself. We always say "On God” or “On my mama” because of high reverence and regard to our knowledge of how holy, unshakeable, and faithful those two are so we need to begin to ac...

As a mom you can find yourself wanting to lock yourself in the closet sometimes just to get a quiet moment and it's not because you don't love the family you get to serve and love but because the heaviness applied to motherhood. Carving out time to pour into yourself should come before you have a mental load or break down. In fact, building in time to pour into yourself consistently sets a...

Introducing The Mom Bar a Pro- Mama, Mother loving community and podcast holding space for: Stay at Home Mamas, Work from Home Mamas, Bonus Mamas, Single Mamas -- All My Mamas Minding your own motherhood through developing applicable mental health support and the truth rooted in your relationship with God Mom Tales aka your voice and the stories that run through your head when you're alone Mul...