Messy Classy

If you want to not only look confident, but actually feel confident and self-assured, and have it be something that comes easily and effortlessly, rather than just pretending and hoping others see you that way. Then, darling, this episode is for you. Because what I’ve discovered is that confidence isn’t actually about how other people see you at all, but rather how you’re talking to yourself and y...

Spring is the perfect season for glow-ups, and darling, we’re not sitting this one out. Let’s talk about how to reset, refresh, and become the most magnetic version of ourselves this spring. Messy Classy is back for the spring season, full of fresh new episodes ready to help you on your glow-up journey to become the most elevated classy version of yourself. But, since we're messy classy, darling,...

The classiest, most successful women understand that real power doesn’t need to be broadcast; it needs results. There is power from someone who quietly transforms their life compared to someone who constantly posts about what they plan to do. Let’s talk about why moving in silence will help you reach your goals and help you to maintain that class and grace along the way. After all, messy classy gi...

Let's analyse some of Blair Waldorf's best traits and apply them in our own lives to become unstoppable. If you want some of Queen B's power and confidence, it comes down to planning strategically and going after what you want. And you can do it with class and grace. So if you've ever asked yourself what Blair Waldorf would do in a situation, let's break down why she's made...

Let’s talk about becoming the trifecta: hot, elegant, and unbothered. And as I was in Paris recently, I’ll also sprinkle in a few of my favourite Paris moments too. So getting hot. This encompasses two things. One is about looking the best you’ve ever looked, and the second is your attitude, since you CAN decide that you’re hot now. Now elegance. This comes down to three main areas: clothing, how...

Once you start choosing yourself and your goals, and taking that focus away from needing approval or validation from someone else, that’s when your life starts to change for the better. Your self-worth does not belong in the hands of other people. You don’t need someone else's approval or validation to become the person you want to be. Let’s talk about growing from a people pleaser to a classy que...

If you want to become irresistible, combining class and charm together is the key. That way, you get to be elegant and polished, but not cold. And magnetic, but not like you’re trying too hard. They intertwine and enhance each other. So let’s talk about combining both class and charm to create that magnetic aura. In this episode, we'll discuss body language, voice, confidence, emotional intell...

So let’s talk about one of the biggest glow-up hacks I’ve done this year. And that’s quitting alcohol. Here are some of the benefits that I’ve discovered being alcohol-free: You look better (glowing skin, weight loss), you save money, and these internal changes: Mental clarity: better ideas, deeper reflection; Confidence: real confidence, not wine-fueled; Energy & routines: mornings feel sacre...

You want to be THAT girl. What if you could be her, but the classy version? The one who walks into a room and doesn’t need to say a word. With timeless style and magnetic habits, people will turn heads and want to know who you are.  Today, I’m not giving you another basic routine, I’m showing you how to become THAT girl -the classy edition. You already know the ‘that girl’ aesthetic online. Usuall...

Your worth isn't determined by others, you get to decide it for yourself. We often look to others for validation or to 'choose' us. But often, people can't see you for who you are because they don't see the world the same as you do. But when you start to build your confidence and self-worth, it no longer becomes about whether someone else can see your worth or not, because who...

A good Sunday reset routine marks the end of one week and sets up the next for success. You can leave any chaos in the past and start fresh and have a clear mind for the new week. It’s like a mini shakeup that you get to do every week, and it is excellent if you have anxiety.  It’s my favorite day of the week, and I always look forward to it. And not because it’s the weekend, because it’s a reset....

Need to shake up your life? Not sure if you should? Guess what, baby girl, you can rebrand yourself as many times as you like.  Let’s explore the topic of rebranding and reinventing yourself. It’s my favourite thing to do when I need a change. I love a good life glow-up. I’ll go over the aesthetic first, then lifestyle changes, and the mindset shifts to become the new version of you. The empowerin...

Drinking alcohol made me weak and stupid, so I decided to cut it out. It was the biggest power move I’ve made so far this year. In this episode, I’ll talk about why I gave up alcohol. How it's making me smarter and more successful, and why it’s leading me towards my dream life. It was a bold move, but one that was oh-so easy to make. Now I’m reaching my goals so much faster and easier than eve...

Imagine you weren't scared to pursue your dreams? If you started to chase your goals relentlessly? How would people react if you were more bold and audacious? If you set boundaries and put yourself first? In this episode I'll show you what I wrote in my notes app for more motivation and confidence to reach my goals. It came down to one main thing: Having more audacity to start asking for w...

Forget the January resolutions. The real reinvention starts now, and I'm going to show you how. This is your action plan. Reinvent your look. Curate your space. Elevate your circle. And do it with intention. An excellent place to start is always with ourselves. Our clothes, our look, our mindset. So let’s talk about that first and then we can move on to our homes (which I think is a super impo...

Let’s discuss how to attract and find quality relationships (both friendship and romantic relationships) as you level up and become a more classy version of yourself. We’ll also discuss moving on from those old relationships that no longer serve you while maintaining your grace and style. Enjoy the ep and don’t forget to follow me on ig @messyclassypodcast Stay messy classy! Trace x

Let’s create a simple but classy morning routine. It’s all about crafting a routine that’s more soft life and luxurious with quality over quantity. That means we are not waking up at 5am to do a gruelling workout, we are taking our time to be intentional with the day and start calm and prepared. Not many updates this week, but that starts at 14:10. The rest of the podcast is about how to set up a...

As you become more confident, you will trigger jealousy and bad behavior in other people. It's unavoidable, as they perceive it as a threat to their self-esteem. I'll cover tips on how to handle it and why it happens. Life updates at 10:05. Enjoy the episode!

Let's discuss people who claim they are just keeping it "real" as an excuse to be rude or offensive. Being rude is a lack of self-control and empathy towards others. You have far more power and dignity when you remain gracious and polite. Not only that but you'll attract more people to you and get ahead in life. And that's classy.

Halloween as a classy girl can be so hauntingly chic. In this episode, I'll go over practical tips and inspiring ideas that combine sophistication with a playful spirit. If you want to elevate your Halloween style and be elegantly spooky this year, then you'll enjoy this fun episode, covering decorating, costumes, and Halloween party ideas.

In today’s episode, we are asking if classy girls can have a brat summer and, if so, what that looks like in terms of fashion, activities, social etiquette, and what kind of social media posts would work. We are about to enter summer here in Australia, so I thought it would be a great topic to discuss. Grab your martini, put on your crown, fire up the jazz, and let’s get into the episode.

Learn how to draw people to you with confidence and style while being the classy queen that you are. This episode will go over tips that you can do to be magnetic and irresistible to others. Appear confident & approachable and, above all, classy.

Queens make the rules, they don't follow them. In this episode, we'll explain why being a queen rather than a princess is more desirable. It's about knowing your worth and never settling for less than you deserve. A queen can stand on business and always be the one in control. Put on your crown, fire up the jazz, and listen to this week's episode.

In this episode, let's talk about how you can level up to become more confident and use that confidence for more success in your life. I'll discuss goal setting, how to balance your ambition with self-acceptance, and maintaining grace under pressure. So grab your martini, put on your crown, fire up the jazz and enjoy.

The first step to becoming classy is to rebrand your aesthetic. This week we'll cover your look with fashion, since how you portray yourself to the world is often how people treat you. We'll also look at lifestyle and going to the types of up-leveled places that convey the sophistication you want. Next, we'll discuss relationships and dating as you level up to a more classy lifestyle....