Messy Can't Stop Her

Send JKO a Text Message Chronic stress can silently shape our lives, impacting our health, emotions, and behaviors in ways we don’t always recognize—until it’s too late. In this episode, I share a personal wake-up call that revealed how stress had been taking its toll on my body for years. We’ll explore the science behind stress, how it manifests in our daily lives, and most importantly, how we ca...

Send JKO a Text Message Many of us live under negative labels, sometimes even believing them. Drawing inspiration from notable figures this episode challenges you to reject false labels and stand firm in the truth of who you are. If you have you ever been misunderstood, labeled unfairly, and even treated differently because of it, this episode is for you.  Nuggets of wisdom in this episode People&...

Send JKO a Text Message JKO encourages you to embrace your vision despite your weaknesses. Your struggles don’t disqualify you—they are the very place where God’s power shines the brightest. If you've ever felt unworthy, inadequate, or stuck, this episode is for you.  If this message resonates with you, share it with someone who needs to hear it.  Nuggets of wisdom in this episode   Your weak...

Send JKO a Text Message  JKO opens up about the emotional turmoil that made her miss last week’s episode. She reflects on grief, motherhood, and faithfulness in hard times. If you're going through a difficult season, this episode is for you. You are seen. You are not alone. God is with you.    Nuggets of wisdom in this episode   Faithfulness Matters. Even in pain, showing up has value. God ho...

Send JKO a Text Message How are you feeling about Valentine’s Day? Excited? Apprehensive? Whether you’re being showered with love or navigating a difficult relationship, this episode of Messy Can't Stop Her is for YOU.  Nuggets of wisdom in this episode 1.    Self-love is a Biblical principle.  2.    Celebrate yourself, no matter your relationship status.  3.    Treating yourself special sets...

Send JKO a Text Message These days, friendships dissolve at the speed of a tweet. Cancel culture is real, and betrayal is often public. But are we the kind of friends we'd want in our corner when we are in a crisis? Looking at real-life examples of friendships tested in the spotlight – Jessica Mulroney & Meghan Markle, Justin Baldoni & Blake Lively – and with guidance from the Word of...

Send JKO a Text Message In the trenches of life, we all crave deep, meaningful friendships. But sometimes we mistake acquaintances for friends? What do we do when those we trust betray us? This episode explores the deep desire for true friendship, the pain of disloyalty, and how to discern between real friends and mere acquaintances in 2025. Nuggets of wisdom in this episode Not everyone you meet...

Send JKO a Text Message Host, Judith Kambia Obatusa (JKO) explores how comparison and copying impacts us negatively, and can derail our 2025 goals. If you want to overcome feelings of inadequacy, cultivate contentment, and align with your purpose, this episode is for you.  Nuggets of wisdom in this episode ·        How comparison and copying can stop you from reaching your goals in 2025. ·       ...

Send JKO a Text Message This episode dives into the power of faith to overcome life’s challenges and fear as you step into 2025. If you are a woman who has faced setbacks or struggled with doubt, this episode provides practical tools and spiritual encouragement to embrace a victorious year. Nuggets of wisdom in this episode ·        Faith requires aligning your words and actions with God’s promise...

Send JKO a Text Message A lesson on why you should stop waiting for perfect conditions and instead, take a leap of faith and show up as you are. Learn to use what you have now, trusting God to multiply it. If you are a woman who is stuck waiting for the right time or for things to be perfect, this episode is for you. Nuggets of wisdom in this episode Life is happening now, and the world needs what...

Send JKO a Text Message Kick off 2025 with hope and purpose! Learn 3 essentials to making this your best year ever—no matter the challenges. Get ready to embrace the new year with faith, courage, and actionable insights.  Nuggets of wisdom in this episode Let love lead in your interactions, actions and decisions. Choose your virtual and in-person relationships with intentionality. Stand on God’s W...

Send JKO a Text Message  Reflecting on God’s promises of restoration,  host Judith Kambia Obatusa, JKO, shares an uplifting message for 2025. She encourages listeners to speak life into challenges, embrace hope, and prepare for a year of thriving. If you desire practical and spiritual insights to guide you into the new year, this episode is for you.   If Messy Can’t Stop Her blesses or inspires yo...

Send JKO a Text Message Do you know that regret can make us unable to reach our goals? Learn how letting go and reframing regrets can help you create the 2025 you desire. If you are being weighed down by burdens from your past, this episode is for you. Nuggets of wisdom in this episode Even God, experienced regret. Dwelling on regret can be harmful to your future. God can use your past mistakes an...

Send JKO a Text Message Do you have unmet goals from previous years? Learn how to approach your 2025 goals with purpose so that you achieve them successfully. If you have lost confidence in your ability to turn your goals into reality, this episode is for you.   Nuggets of wisdom in this episode Our motivation to achieve the goals we set can waver, but routines give us the structure we need to per...

Send JKO a Text Message Have you ever been told that you do too much? Have you ever been made to feel like your personality is a flaw?  Discover how to embrace your unique qualities, live boldly, and break free from the mold. If you have ever faced the challenge of being yourself in a world that constantly tries to reshape you, this episode is for you.  Nuggets of wisdom in this episode The unique...

Send JKO a Text Message Are you feeling the weight of missed opportunities? Inspired by a friend's compliment, JKO explores how our losses can become new beginnings. Through the story of a poor childless widow’s journey to restoration, learn that it is never too late to reclaim your purpose. If you have ever regretted paths not taken, this episode is for you. Nuggets of wisdom in this episode...

Send JKO a Text Message Have you ever felt that your life was filled with curveballs? What if those challenges are preparing you for greatness? Through science-backed insights and scriptural lessons, learn how the messiest challenges on our journey are not setbacks but setups for our elevation. If you ever wondered why this trouble, this episode is for you.  Nuggets of wisdom in this episode Every...

Send JKO a Text Message Do you often find yourself asking, “What will people think?” when facing challenges or making decisions? From social science and scripture, we explore how this fear of judgment and need for approval can limit our ambitions, silence our authenticity, and create unnecessary stress in our lives. Learn how to break free from people-pleasing and live fulfilled even in the trench...

Send JKO a Text Message Are you overwhelmed by loss, failures, disappointments or setbacks? Discover how small steps can lead to unexpected victories in the game of life. Learn how the divine game master turns seemingly insignificant moves into breakthrough moments. If you are feeling stuck in one of life’s toughest levels, this episode is for you. Nuggets of wisdom in this episode Life, like a ce...

Send JKO a Text Message Do you know that you can offer the pain of your struggles, disappointments, sacrifices and challenges to God as an offering? On this episode, faith and science align to show us that our pain is never wasted when we offer it to God. With scripture backed by research, we learn how that the offering of our pain can lead to profound healing and spiritual growth. If you have eve...

Send JKO a Text Message Reflecting on a quote from Brene Brown’s Atlas of the Heart by George Saunders about “failures of kindness”, Judith Kambia Obatusa (JKO) highlights how fear often holds us back from being kind. She explores the courage it takes to show compassion, both to others and ourselves. Through Scripture and prayer, JKO encourages listeners to seek boldness, trust in God’s strength,...

Send JKO a Text Message Rounding up our series on praying God’s Word over us Natasha Rae, a prophetess and passionate prayer warrior, offers practical advice on how prayer can heal wounds, restore relationships, and bring hope to even the darkest of times. She encourages and reminds women who are feeling distant from God that He hears every cry, and leads a powerful prayer for listeners to experie...

Send JKO a Text Message Exploring the prayers of 3 Kings of Judah - Hezekiah, Asa, and Jehoshaphat - who battled overwhelming enemies, Judith Kambia Obatusa, JKO, focuses on how to pray when faced with challenges from people, situations, or systems that are much more powerful than us. If you’ve ever been helpless before a formidable hater, this episode will teach you how to ask God for help to ove...

Send JKO a Text Message Continuing the series on Praying God's Word Over Us, Sherry VanDolder, a woman of faith, certified relationship expert, and author shares her journey of writing with purpose, and how aligning prayer with scripture can shift mindsets and bring healing. She speaks powerful prayers over listeners, encouraging them to trust in God's plan and the transformative power o...

Send JKO a Text Message After a period of silence due to a technological hiccup and a very recent loss, Judith Kambia Obatusa, JKO, continues the series on praying God's word over us. JKO reflects on finding solace in God during times of overwhelming grief and uncertainty, much like the story of Job. Through prayer and scripture, she encourages listeners who may be facing their own trials and...