Matters of the Heart - Relationship Classes for Singles & Married Couples

It is not in all instances that the breakdown of a relationship/marriage is due to vice. Sometimes just inflexible or complacent in a relationship/marriage is enough to cause the association to breakdown. Please visit: https://mattersoftheheartrelationshipclassesforsinglesmarriedcouples.wordpress.com/2023/07/03/cultivating-healthy-attitudes-towards-relationships-and-marriage-part-2/ to find out mo...

This podcast offers insights based on God's Word into why several sexual orientations exist and also takes a look at a sometimes overlooked cause of some alternative sexual lifestyles: sexual abuse. *For anyone struggling with issues relating to sex and sexuality and needing help, please reach out on matters.fm@gmail.com (your confidentiality is assured). Photo credit: Shutterstock

The subject of sex is one that has always captured the fascination of many civilizations over the ages. Various ideas about sex and sexuality have been developed over time and in an age where raging debates and conversations on multiple sexual orientations are rife, this podcast delves into the Scriptures to explore the concept of sex and sexuality from the lens of its original author and designer...

Just as there are various types of individuals, there are different types of lovers. There are those who are willing to give their very best to make a relationship work, while there are others who somehow believe that all the benefits of being in a relationship or marriage will come rolling in automatically with no effort on their part. However this expectation is similar to expecting a garden to...

A key trait to look out for when trying to find a partner who is just right for you is their willingness to support your dreams and ambitions. However there are times that life does not go as expected and sometimes both you and your loved one might find yourselves caught up in plans that are much bigger than yourselves and way out of your control. This is where yet another key character trait is n...

‘How do I know he/she is the one?’ is a common question singles ask when trying to find a partner to settle with. This question is definitely not an easy one to answer as it requires discernment (the ability to distinguish one thing from another such as truth from falsehood, virtue from vice, etc.) or sound judgement. Please visit: https://mattersoftheheartrelationshipclassesforsinglesmarriedcoupl...

Case study: Anne and Frank are engaged to be married in a fortnight. Anne is five weeks pregnant and as the countdown to their wedding begins, Frank suddenly calls Anne in the middle of the night to call off their engagement. It turns out that he’s been seeing another lady while they were together, and she is two months pregnant. The other lady comes from a very wealthy family and her family has p...

As humans we are prone to error and while some offences can be overlooked such as a loved one who regularly throws clothes all over a neatly cleaned floor, what happens when the offence directly attacks the foundation of the relationship and trust is broken? Visit https://mattersoftheheartrelationshipclassesforsinglesmarriedcouples.wordpress.com/2023/05/07/when-trust-is-betrayed-in-marriage-and-re...

In a time where casual sex is considered a norm among singles and expected in relationships, sometimes people are shamed for deciding to refrain from sex until they are married. This podcast offers a word of encouragement to young and mature singles who desire to keep sex out of their relationships until marriage. Frank, hard talk about sex before marriage and not for the faint-hearted. Movie titl...

Ever wondered why two people who are genuinely in love drift apart and their relationship or marriage crashes? This podcast takes a look at two root causes and offers insights on developing healthy and realistic expectations about love in a relationship or marriage.

As a marriage partner, part of the husband’s role requires him to treat his spouse well. However some husbands are guilty of mistreating their wives in marriage. This article takes a look at a possible cause of such behaviours and offers husbands tips on treating their spouses right in marriage. Visit reflections-for-husbands-treating-your-spouse-right-in-marriage on wordpress.com

This podcast is a continuation of an earlier podcast specially prepared for once married individuals who lost their spouses very early in the life of the marriage or lost their spouses at a very young age. This podcast offers both comfort and new considerations to all such persons this Easter season. May your heart be consoled.

The word 'leader' immediately conjures several images in the mind, the most popular one perhaps being that of a person who wields absolute power over others, with no consideration for their feelings or needs. Visit Reflections for men: The husband as leader of the home on wordpress.com to find out more about the definition of true leadership at home for husbands.

There are times you find someone similar to you to be in a relationship with, but other times, the person is the exact opposite of who you are - with tastes, viewpoints and behaviours that differ from yours. What do you do in such a situation? Visit the following link to find out more: When two opposites are in a relationship (For singles with different personality types and those in inter-racial/...

This podcast offers singles entering the dating scene for the first time useful mindsets to consider when starting a relationship. These include: deciding not to hurt your partner,  treating your partner well and being a giver. This podcast also offers singles re-entering the dating scene practical tips to consider when re-navigating the love scene, which include avoiding a repetition of past...

Today's dating scene is fiercely competitive with singles investing lots of money and time into physical looks in a bid to attract prospective dates or relationship partners. Beauty however does not only come in the form of physical looks, it can also come in other overlooked forms such as intelligence, charm, character, etc. This podcast offers singles some insights on standing out from the crowd...

There are a number of pitfalls singles need to be mindful of when in a relationship. These pitfalls include relying on 'assumed knowledge' about relationships and deception. Find out more about these pitfalls on Pitfalls to avoid in relationships - Part 2 (For singles)  

This is the time of the year where lovers get to celebrate each other and their love for each other. While some argue for celebrating love on a daily basis, it is also a good idea to set aside special times to celebrate your loved one. Valentine's Day is one of such special times as it presents lovers with the opportunity to express their love for each other in special ways. For ideas on Valentine...

In the arena of love, just like any other sphere of life, sometimes things don’t go as planned or intended and disappointments occur. This podcast offers singles insights on handling disappointing relationship outcomes with dignity.

There are lots of myths that surround marriage such as:  ' Marriage is difficult - is it worth it?'   ' With the way marriages are just crashing all over the place, how do we know what makes marriage work?'  'Marriage is the final bus top. There is nothing else to do after you are married' .  This podcast takes a look at some of these myths and offers some wisdom nuggets to sin...

Regardless of a married couple's cultural or family upbringing, there should be no shame in discussing sex between the two. To find out more, please visit: https://mattersoftheheartrelationshipclassesforsinglesmarriedcouples.wordpress.com/2023/01/10/ the-naked-conversations-mature-content-for-married-couples /

As the year 2022 draws to a close, it's worth taking stock of our love lives to identify areas needing improvement and new areas worth exploring. This podcast takes a look at areas singles in a relationship, singles desirous of a relationship and married couples might want to consider when appraising their love lives.  Matters of the Heart wishes every lover and believer in love a fulfilling...

The Yuletide season can sometimes be tough for singles, particularly who are not in a relationship and are of marriageable age. This podcast provides mature singles with some practical advice on how best to approach the subject of love and marriage. Season's greetings from Matters of the Heart. 

For parents to successfully mentor their children in the area of relationships, timely discussions and instructions are necessary and a few things need to be taken into consideration when these discussions begin. These include the willingness to have a change in perspective and parenting style.  To find out more, please visit: https://mattersoftheheartrelationshipclassesforsinglesmarriedcoupl...

Parents have several roles to play in their children's lives which go beyond just meeting physical needs. Mentoring is also an aspect of parenting and parents have an important role to play in helping their young adult children navigate the sometimes murky waters of relationships. To find out more, visit: https://mattersoftheheartrelationshipclassesforsinglesmarriedcouples.wordpress.com/2022/12/05...