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As we peel back the layers of modern relationship dynamics, one man's tale of open marriage regret becomes our springboard into the deeper waters of love, attraction, and the unforeseen complexities they bring into our lives. We pour over your comments, deep-diving into the quagmire of workplace crushes and the steps we can take to fan the flames of attraction within our own marriages. Our pe...

With a blend of humor and heartfelt discussion, we share a snapshot of our own life as Monica mends from oral surgery, bravely battling the world of soft foods, while also rejoicing in Cody Rhodes's epic victory at WrestleMania. And for those of you who've ever scratched your heads at the frenzy over solar eclipses, we're right there with you, wondering why a few minutes of celestia...

Buckle up as we venture into the bedroom—where the heart meets the heat. We're candidly discussing the challenges that can arise after infidelity shakes the foundations of a relationship. With a mix of personal stories and listener contributions, we're diving into the nitty-gritty of maintaining intimacy, harmonizing mismatched desires, and—most importantly—the art of forgiveness. It&apo...

Have we slapped an expiration date on the institution of marriage without even realizing it? Tackling the weighty question of matrimonial relevance, this episode wades into the perspectives of young adults who label marriage as passé and scrutinizes the significance of lifelong vows amidst the backdrop of soaring divorce rates. As your hosts, we don't shy away from the tough topics. We return...

It's one thing to manage your money, but it's another to manage it together. Stick with us as we tackle the gritty, often avoided conversations about fiscal stress and how faith can shine a light in the darkest of times. We're not just talking dollars and cents. We're talking about what it means to be wealthy in love and life. Discover how our own journey through unexpected exp...

Join us as we unpack new research pointing to a generational shift in mindset, and share our heartfelt thanks to you, our listeners, from every corner of the globe—from the buzzing streets of Los Angeles to the sun-kissed shores of Miami. Your voices and stories fuel our passion, and for that, we're eternally grateful. Let's strip back the layers of intimacy, peeling away the physical to...

Amidst the bloom of bouquets and Valentine's Day blitz, we're stepping out to question if society's grand romantic gestures are overshadowing the true essence of lasting partnerships. As we navigate through the maze of modern dating, from the adrenaline rush of the first crush to the sobering moment of a breakup text, our discussion lays bare the humor and humanity of seeking connec...

 I can't contain my enthusiasm as we discuss the return of Theo Epstein to the Red Sox and the fresh hope he brings to our beloved team. The story of Joseph has always been a testament to patience and perseverance, but its relevance hits home as we draw parallels with our own relational sojourn. We muse over the enduring virtues that saw us through trials and tribulations, and the profound in...

Let's talk about the secret sauce to any robust relationship—taking care of yourself. We're getting real about the sweaty tales from the gym and the quirkiness of our mutual grooming sessions (nose hairs, be gone!). Discover how staying fit together isn't just about chiseled abs but forging an ironclad partnership that thrives through pandemics and life's curveballs. We're...

We take a raw and humorous look at the complexities of marriage, serving up our truths alongside a side of laughter, as we unpack what it means to be hitched in the modern age. Now, don't think we've skipped over the bread and butter of married life—the daily grind, the quirks of growing older together, and the surprises that life tosses your way like confetti. From entertaining tales of...

Ever imagined what it's like to break free from the daily grind and jet off to Hawaii with your partner? Well, buckle up because that's exactly what we're doing! After 15 years of marriage, my wife Monica and I, Matthew, are set to embark on an adventure that includes surfing, volcano exploration and much more! But this episode isn’t just about our exotic plans, we also take a momen...

Imagine being married for 20 years, still sharing laughter and playful touches as if you're back in high school. That's our reality, and we want to share with you how we keep our marriage fun and vibrant. We've learned through our personal experiences that laughter truly is the best medicine. Even when we faced a pushy  salesperson, we found humor in the situation and it brought us...

Have you ever considered how jealousy works in relationships and marriages? We'll be stripping this complex emotion down to its bare bones, sharing personal anecdotes that expose the reasons behind jealousy, from lack of self-confidence and feelings of inadequacy to the fear of losing one's partner. You'll hear how we've navigated the murky waters of jealousy in our relationshi...

Vacations, those magical times that create memories for a lifetime. Do you ever wonder what makes them memorable? Is it the people we journey with, the meticulously planned itinerary, or the thrill of last-minute adventures? Join our discussion where we delve into the heart of this matter. We also share our perspectives on the intriguing spectrum of vacation styles - each unique and potentially li...

Does your marriage seem more like a series of negotiations than a sacred union? Are you losing sleep over home safety or the pressure of parenthood? Join us as we unravel the complexities of modern relationships and discuss how to navigate them with grace and understanding. We promise that by the end of this episode, you'll have fresh insights and practical advice to help you find balance and...

Think back to your first roller coaster ride - the anticipation, the thrill, the exhilaration. That’s where we are taking you in today's episode, as we navigate the roller coaster journey of modern relationships and adventure. We're peeling back the layers on the enigma of declining marriage rates and sharing one listener's deeply personal struggle with a 15-year marriage, strained...

Our latest adventure had us packing up our bags and heading out to Los Angeles, where we walked through the sets of Friends at the Warner Brothers studio, made our daughter's day with Barbie props, and ended up at a Laker game out of the blue. But amidst all the fun, we found ourselves reflecting on the beautiful complexity of family life, the highs and lows of marriage, and the impact sports...

What if we told you that openly discussing the delicate topic of sex could be the key to a thriving marriage? In our latest podcast episode, we pull back the covers on this often-taboo subject. We'll first dive into the surprising statistics around dwindling satisfaction in our sex lives. Unraveling the fear many couples harbor around expressing their sexual needs, we provide insights on how...

What if your marital bond was tested with a potential life-altering health diagnosis? What if the joy of a newborn was overshadowed by a shocking revelation of cervical cancer? As a couple, we faced this harrowing ordeal, and we are here to share our journey with you. This episode is a candid narrative of our challenging journey. The diagnosis led to a hysterectomy, a surgery that left Monica grap...

Ever wonder why your partner didn't reveal something about their past until much further into the relationship? Or why marriages seem to be an outdated concept for many young adults? Well, you're not alone. Join us in this enlightening conversation as we unravel the mysteries of secrets, honesty, and communication in relationships. We kick off the discussion with a personal anecdote abou...

Season 3 is here! New Episodes coming September 18th

We discuss some of the top reasons and moments when people realized when their  marriage was over.  Congressional School - Explorers Wanted An co-ed independent school in Falls Church, Virginia

We discuss an article where married people give advice to people who have yet to get married. We picked the highlights that are really great advice for not just people who are not yet married, but even those who are married can take a look at their relationship and begin to put this into practice.  Congressional School - Explorers Wanted An co-ed independent school in Falls Church, Virginia

We are discussing a new trend of spouse's who no longer sleep with each other. Giving various reasons for more alone time, not having their late night scrolling interrupted, and better sleep...we aren't buying it. Congressional School - Explorers Wanted An co-ed independent school in Falls Church, Virginia

We are continuing our conversation of the secrets married men are keeping from their wives. We talk double lives, money, lies, and a whole lot of cheating between these couples.  Congressional School - Explorers Wanted An co-ed independent school in Falls Church, Virginia