Marriage Mondays' with The King's Podcast

Send us Fan Mail Marriage cannot thrive on one-sided effort. There must be a balance of giving and receiving for a relationship to grow healthy and strong. In this episode of Marriage Mondays with the Kings , the Kings break down the principle of give and take in marriage and why it matters. While there is nothing wrong with receiving, a marriage built only on taking will eventually struggle. Grow...

Send us Fan Mail Let’s be honest—how do couples expect their marriage to stay healthy if they never step away to spend intentional time together? In this episode of Marriage Mondays with the Kings , the Kings tackle a question many couples avoid: is your marriage struggling because of your spouse… or because the marriage has been neglected? Over time, many couples slowly stop investing time, rest,...

Send us Fan Mail Have you ever stopped to think about how often God’s Word is misused—especially when it comes to marriage? In this episode of Marriage Mondays with the Kings , the Kings speak candidly about the danger of twisting Scripture and the damage it causes in relationships. This conversation centers on the power of honesty, integrity, and truth, reminding us that “The Lord detests lying l...

Send us Fan Mail When did the internet become safer than honest conversation with your spouse? In this eye-opening episode of Marriage Mondays with The Kings , we unpack a growing trend that is quietly reshaping marriages. A 2025 survey reveals that 64% of married Americans search online for marriage help before speaking to their spouse , often out of fear of conflict, misunderstanding, or making...

Send us Fan Mail In Part III of this powerful series, we move from awareness to action . After uncovering the wounds (Part I) and identifying the patterns they create in marriage (Part II), this episode focuses on the practical tools individuals can begin using to heal the childhood pain that continues to shape their reactions, emotions, and communication today. Many husbands and wives know someth...

Send us Fan Mail In this powerful continuation of last week’s conversation, we go deeper into the truth many couples avoid: unhealed childhood wounds don’t stay in childhood— they grow up with us, and they show up in our marriages as patterns, reactions, and emotional habits that quietly damage connection. In Part II, we walk listeners through the real-life behaviors that come from unresolved pain...

Send us Fan Mail Let’s be real… many marriages today are fighting battles that didn’t start in the marriage — they started in childhood. In this powerful first installment of our two-part series, we unpack how unhealed childhood wounds silently shape adult relationships and create marital triggers that leave couples feeling misunderstood, frustrated, and disconnected. This episode takes you on a c...

Send us Fan Mail Let’s be real—some of y’all are out here dating a whole salesperson and calling it “getting to know them.” This week on Marriage Mondays with The Kings , we’re talking straight to the singles and the married folks who wish they’d paid closer attention before saying “I do.” This episode digs into the polished, perfectly-packaged version of a person that shows up during dating—the o...

Send us Fan Mail Some wives haven’t gone quiet because they don’t care — they’ve gone quiet because they’re tired of talking and not being heard. In this continuation of Marriage Mondays with The Kings , Kenya and ShanTrail King dig even deeper into the heart of what wives are truly longing for in marriage in 2025. Part II moves from awareness to action — helping husbands learn how to show up, spe...

Send us Fan Mail Let’s be real — a lot of wives aren’t silent because they’re fine… they’re silent because they’re tired of saying the same thing and still feeling unheard. In this raw and honest episode of Marriage Mondays with The Kings , Kenya and ShanTrail King unpack what wives in 2025 are truly longing for in marriage — not more stuff, but more emotional connection, healing, safety, and pres...

Send us Fan Mail Many couples say they want a stronger marriage — but few are willing to do the real work to get there.  In this follow-up episode, The Kings dive even deeper into what husbands are voicing in 2025 —their need for respect, appreciation, peace, and emotional safety —while also reminding wives that this conversation is about partnership , not perfection . This is for the grown folks...

Send us Fan Mail Many wives believe that the longer they’re married, the better they know their husband. But in 2025, men are expressing something different— they still want to be known, respected, and understood. In this week’s episode, The Kings dive deep into what husbands are truly voicing in today’s marriages. From needing respect, appreciation, emotional safety, and genuine partnership , to...

Send us Fan Mail Marriage is either evolving or eroding — there’s no standing still. In this powerful episode of Marriage Mondays with the Kings® , we uncover why a growth mindset in marriage is essential for building a strong, lasting relationship. Couples who fail to grow together often drift apart, leaving their marriage stagnant, unhealthy, and vulnerable. Through biblical wisdom, real-life ex...

Send us Fan Mail In today’s world, couples are facing more pressure than ever— financial hardships, job loss, political tension, and racial division threaten to pull families apart. But as believers, we are called to rise above the noise and build marriages that stand strong on Christ, not culture. In this episode of Marriage Mondays with The Kings , we’re diving deep into how husbands and wives c...

Send us Fan Mail In a world full of comparisons and distractions, how can couples stay focused on each other? In this episode, Kenya & ShanTrail King share Biblical tools and real-life strategies to help you stop competing with the world, rediscover your spouse, and build a God-centered marriage that thrives under pressure. Tune in and be encouraged to focus on what really matters—your covenan...

Send us Fan Mail In Part II of Healing from Spiritual Abuse in Marriage – Restoring Identity When Faith Became Weaponized , we go even deeper into how couples can recognize the hidden signs of spiritual manipulation, break free from cycles of control, and rebuild a marriage rooted in God’s truth. Many marriages struggle silently with religious trauma, church hurt, and misuse of scripture—often lea...

Send us Fan Mail Restoring Identity When Faith Became Weaponized "Spiritual abuse in marriage is a hidden struggle many couples face, where God’s Word is misused to control, shame, or silence a spouse. In this episode of Marriage Mondays with the Kings , we expose what spiritual abuse looks like in Christian marriage today, how it damages identity, and the biblical truth that sets couples fre...

Send us Fan Mail Couples that grind together... but do not grow together In this powerful episode of Marriage Mondays with the Kings , we dive into the real-life tension between building success and building intimacy. Many couples are grinding together but slowly growing apart. From emotional disconnection to spiritual misalignment, we’ll help you identify the warning signs — and give you practica...

Send us Fan Mail Are you blaming your spouse for the constant tension in your marriage? What if the real issue isn’t them... but your unhealed wounds? In this powerful episode of Marriage Mondays with the Kings , we’re diving deep into the truth that marriage often reflects the brokenness we’ve never dealt with . We’ll explore how past trauma, childhood wounds, and emotional baggage show up in our...

Send us Fan Mail If you and your spouse kneel side-by-side yet feel miles apart when you stand, this episode is for you.!  You attend church, read the Bible, even hold hands in prayer—yet you’re emotionally disconnected. You're not alone. Whether you’re newlyweds or 25 years in—don’t miss this one. Your marriage deserves more than surface-level unity. We're diving deep into what it reall...

Send us Fan Mail Let’s be real—whether you're single and dating or already married and reflecting, we all have moments where we question the choices we've made in relationships. Have you ever found yourself stuck in a cycle of toxic relationships, asking, “Why do I keep choosing the wrong person?” Or maybe you're already married, looking back and thinking, “Did I miss the red flags?...

Send us Fan Mail Question: Why do so many couples skip pre-marital counseling and head straight to the altar? In this eye-opening episode of Marriage Mondays with the Kings , we reveal the final 5 reasons why individuals avoid pre-marital counseling—and how that decision can silently destroy the foundation of marriage. 🎯 Whether you're SINGLE, ENGAGED, or already MARRIED—this episode is your...

Send us Fan Mail Question: Are you truly ready for marriage, or are you just ready for a wedding? In this powerful episode of Marriage Mondays with the Kings , we're speaking directly to singles who desire a Godly marriage but may be ignoring the most important question: "Do I really know who I'm marrying?"  We dive into the reasons as to why couples who desire to be married, n...

Send us Fan Mail Question: Can understanding your spouse’s birth order save your marriage—or at least explain why they do what they do? In Part II of "Who Am I Married To?" , Marriage Mondays with the Kings dives deeper into the powerful influence of birth order in marriage. Whether you're married to a firstborn, middle child, youngest, or only child, each position in the family lin...

Send us Fan Mail You love them... but do you really know them? This episode of Marriage Mondays with the Kings will make you pause and ask:  👉 Did I marry their heart or just their habits?  👉 Am I fighting with my spouse, or their childhood trauma? We’re diving DEEP —childhood wounds, unresolved triggers, and how they secretly show up in your marriage.  Plus, tools to start truly understanding y...