Marriage And Relationship Insights | By Licensed Psychotherapist.

One Lie You Need to Stop Telling Yourself "It didn’t affect me." That’s the lie so many women tell themselves. Maybe you’ve said it too. But if your father was emotionally unavailable, critical, orsimply absent — it left a mark. And pretending it didn’t only delay the healing your heart deeply needs... Thank You! For listening. I’m Marvel C. Adeyemi, a Psychotherapist and Faith – Based Coach who s...

Has anyone else noticed that the more you chase what looks successful, the more drained and lost you feel inside? 😔 If you’ve ever found yourself stuck in a life that looks good on the outside but feels empty on the inside, this episode is for you. 🎙️ In this powerful conversation, I satwith Lois, Founder of Chosen Consulting, an Executive and Team Coach with over 20 years of HR experience in For...

YOU'RE NOT TOO SENSITIVE....you're Unseen. Who you're vulnerable with matters... I hope this blesses you. Welcome to Emotional Healing for Christian Women. Thank You! For listening/Watching. ⁠I’m Marvel C. Adeyemi⁠ ,a Psychotherapist and Faith -Led Coach who supports Christian women.  Imagine waking up without the weight of shame, fear, and loneliness. Imagine finally feeling worthy, confident, an...

Declare this with me: ❤️ I am a beautiful, confident resourceful, and virtuous woman- full of kindness, compassion, and a heart that seeks understanding. ✨ I am a, loving, respectful, and wise example for mychildren. ❤️ I am a supportive, faithful woman, a trusted friend, a safeplace, and a true wife. 🗝️ With God's help, I build my home through wise,thoughtful, and encouraging words. 🔥 I use my...

This short podcast is a gentle reminder that healing is possible—even after deep betrayal. I pray it blesses and encourages your heart today. Thank You! For listening. I’m Marvel C. Adeyemi, a Psychotherapistand Faith -Led Coach who supports Christian women.  Imagine waking up without the weight of shame, fear, and loneliness. Imagine finallyfeeling worthy, confident, and at peace — and doing it w...

Family of origin wounds includes rejection and neglect; this impacts our lives significantly. Drawing inspiration from Job's story, we discuss the importance of acknowledging inner child wounds and taking steps toward recovery. I hope this episode blesses you! Thank You! For listening/Watching. ⁠I’m Marvel C. Adeyemi⁠ , a Psychotherapist and Faith -Led Coach who supports Christian women.  Imagine...

I hate to say this… but when you focus only on emotional healing, it can actually make things worse." There’s one powerful shift you must make if you want true, lasting healing from inner child wounds — and it has everything to do with aligning your healing with God’s purpose. This was an intimate, deeply resonant conversation I had with Gospel musician Marie Bell, and I can’t wait for you to hear...

Waiting can feel lonely, frustrating, and even painful — especially when it seems like everyone else is moving forward. But God's timing is never late, even when it feels slow. In this video, we’ll talk about how to hold onto faith, lean into patience, and trust God's process — without losing yourself or your hope in the waiting. I hope this blesses You. Thank You! For listening/Watching. ⁠I’m Mar...

Unpopular opinion: It’s not just stress — it’s unresolved childhood wounds showing up in your adult life. You might be wondering: "Why do I keep reacting like this?" "Why do I feel so anxious, triggered, or exhausted — even when nothing big is happening?" Here’s something they won’t tell you in the mainstream: The wounds from your childhood — the ones you were told to get over, stay quiet about, o...

Are you always saying ‘yes’ when you really want to say ‘no’? Do you constantly worry about disappointing others, even at the cost of your own peace and well-being? People-pleasing might feel like kindness, but the truth is, it’s a trap—a trap that keeps you from living the life God intended for you. Welcome to Emotional Healing for Christian Women. Thank You! For listening/Watching. ⁠I’m Marvel C...

What if anxiety is a spiritual cue that our spirits are picking up on conversations that are happening in the unseen realm about our lives? What if the anxiety you feel is actually your spirit picking up a signal that your career, marriage,family, health, or future is under discussion, and your voice needs to be present in the conversation? What if it’s a call to intercession? To seek God’s strate...

Have you ever felt like your past mistakes are holding you hostage? Maybe it’s the guilt of bad decisions or the shame of experiences you had no control over. Whatever it is, it’s like a heavy weight you can’t seem to shake. But here’s the truth: God’s grace is greater than your past. Welcome to Emotional Healing for christian Women. Thank You! For listening/Watching. ⁠I’m Marvel C. Adeyemi⁠ , a P...

Have you ever been betrayed by someone you loved? Maybe it was a friend, a partner, or even a family member. The pain of betrayal runs deep—it shakes your sense of security, leaves you questioning your worth, and makes trusting again feel impossible. But here’s the truth: God doesn’t want you living in fear or shutting your heart off from love. Welcome to Emotional Healing for Christian Women. Tha...

I know you think you need to put a rigid boundary around your fragile heart, but that’s probably making it worse. Unintentionally, you are pulling away from potential great relationships, doubting your worth, or feeling like no matter what, love just doesn’t seem to work for you? Imagine feeling seen, supported, and safe — starting with yourself. That's exactly what I unpacked in this episode... T...

Maybe you push away good relationships because deep down, you fear getting hurt. Maybe you procrastinate on pursuing your dreams because you don’t believe you’re worthy of success. Whatever it looks like in your life, self-sabotage is a thief of joy, and today, we’re calling it out Sis, fear is not your portion. Guilt and shame are not your portion. You were created for more! Welcome to Emotional...

If you’ve ever felt stuck, kept repeating unhealthy patterns, or pushed away the very things you prayed for—this episode is for you! Self-sabotage is often rooted in inner child wounds, fear of neglect, rejection, and limiting beliefs. If you grew up feeling unheard, abandoned, or emotionally neglected, you may have internalized the belief that you don’t deserve good things. God did not call you t...

Healing isn’t just about forgetting the past—it’s about allowing God to transform it. But why is it so hard? Here are three reasons why many Christian women stay stuck in emotional pain." 1️⃣ You’ve normalized pain– You’ve been strong for so long that suffering feels familiar, even comfortable. 2️⃣ You don’t know where to start – Healing feels overwhelming, so you keep pushing it aside. 3️⃣ You’re...

Let’s be real for a moment—are you feeling overwhelmed, exhausted, and emotionally drained? Do you constantly question your worth, struggle to set boundaries, or feel like you're stuck in patterns of people-pleasing? Maybe you’re battling anxiety, depression, or intrusive thoughts that keep you up at night. Sis, I see you. And I need you to know—this is not the life God designed for you." Many Chr...

Hey, beautiful soul! Imagine waking up without the weight of shame, fear, and loneliness. Imagine finallyfeeling worthy, confident, and at peace — and doing it with God by your side. That's the healing we begin together Perhaps you’re struggling with low self-worth, rejection, persistent anxiety, spiritual confusion, neglect,abandonment, or feeling disconnected from your purpose… If you're afraid...

We understand that while supporting loved ones is a noble endeavour, it can sometimes become overwhelming and impact your mental health. Have you ever felt the weight of this responsibility? That's why I'm here to guide you through it. Balancing the financial support of family members overseas with personal responsibilities can be challenging, but it's crucial to prioritize your mental health and...

Welcome to Wholesome Counselling. I am your host Marvel C. Adeyemi. In this episode, we dive deep into the world of highly sensitive people (HSPs). Join us as we explore the characteristics, strengths, and challenges of being an HSP. Discover valuable insights and practical tips to navigate life as an HSP, fostering self-awareness and embracing your unique sensitivity. In this episode, I am thrill...

Welcome to an exciting episode where I have the pleasure of chatting with the remarkable John Adeyemi. Join us as we delve into the captivating world of migration to Australia and uncover invaluable insights for starting anew. With over eight years of professional experience in providing migration services, John is an expert in helping individuals navigate the complex immigration journey. As a Reg...

Do you feel like you're constantly pushing yourself to the limit without taking time to recharge and reflect? You're not alone. As someone who has experienced the negative effects of high functioning, I understand how easy it is to get caught up in the pursuit of success. We live in a society that has defined success in a very generalist way, and as a person of colour, I know how symbols of status...

Welcome to the Wholesome Counselling Podcast! I'm Marvel Adeyemi, your host for today's insightful discussion. Join us as we embark on a journey into the complexities of being a Highly Functioning Person and explore the profound influence of cultural nuances on our personalities and relationships. In this episode, I am thrilled to have Ibinye Osubodu-onyali as our guest. Ibinye is a licensed Marri...

Welcome to today's captivating podcast! I'm Marvel Adeyemi, a successful evidence-based holistic relationship and family therapist, based in Melbourne, Australia. In this episode, we will delve into the profound benefits of approaching romantic relationships with care and intention. Join me as I guide you through the stages of a relationship and share how my services can support you in building a...