Marriage and Intimacy Tips for Christian Couples: Secrets of Happily Ever After

Today I'm giving you tips to super-charge your emotional intimacy, which is the workhorse of all the intimacies. Emotional intimacy includes communication and how you connect with each other on a personal level. How well do you know your partner's inner world? I'm giving you the best ways to get to know them better on a deeper level.   I created a resource, which is 51 Questions You...

In this episode, I'm talking about the results of the Intimacy Level Quiz we launched a couple weeks ago. After thousands of you have taken the quiz, I was surprised and delighted at the results. I talk about each of the levels and give you two big tips for how to raise the intimacy in your marriage all by yourself. These suggestions are relationship gold.   If you haven't take this 3-mi...

I just couldn't hold it in any longer. This podcast is getting a facelift and a brand new name! Next week's episode will be published under the name: Secrets of Happily Ever After.   The cover art isn't changing much, but the name will be different. The content is new and improved and we're stepping everthing up a notch or 10 notches.   In this episode, I'm talking about h...

This is my first episode back after taking a break and spending some much needed quality time with my favorite humans on the planet. I give an update on my family and make some announcements about cool things that are coming soon.   My favorite announcement is that the Intimacy Level Quiz that I've been working on all summer is finally ready for you to take! Did you know that there are 4 leve...

In today's episode, I'm chatting with my friends, Greg and Rachel Denning of Extraordinary Family Life about expectations in marriage and love. We quickly come to the conclusion that husbands don't get hints. All joking aside, unrealistic expectations are the breeding ground for lots of unnecessary disappointment and resentment.   Our conversation covers how to start becoming aware...

In this week's episode, Eric MacDougall of the Evolved Marriage Podcast interviews me about how to create more intimacy even in the busyest seasons of life.   We discuss desire differences, how to approach conversations around intimacy with your spouse and my favorite equation for creating the relationship of your dreams... Curiosity + Vulnerablility = Creation   Join us for the 5-Day Seduce...

In this week's episode, I'm sharing 10 tips to ensure date night increases your intimate connection with your spouse. Weekly, non-negotiable date nights are one of the very BEST ways to keep your marriage thriving and healthy through every stage. Carving out at least 3 hours each week to connect, make memories and enjoy each other's company communicates your commitment and makes lif...

In this week's episode, Coach Troy Aberle shares with us the 6 human needs and how understanding them in ourselves and our partner allows us to get the results we really want out of life and marriage.   We discuss how to set goals taking our 6 human needs into consideration and how to establish high frequency habits in order to acheive our goals in every area, including health, wealth and rel...

Today I'm chatting with Couplepreneurs, Kyle and Ariel Tresch who are just as passionate as I am about helping entrepreneurs achieve success in their business as well as in their relationships. Kyle and Ariel Tresch are husband-and-wife digital marketing consultants, who have built a thriving relationship AND many thriving businesses over the last 10 years.   In this episode, we discuss How E...

I'm thrilled to bring you this interview with some of my favorite marriage mentors, Tony and Alisa DiLorenzo of One Extraordinary Marriage. They are the hosts of the #1 rated marriage podcast on Apple podcast and authors of several books, including the 6 Pillars of Intimacy.   On today's episode, we are discussing how to strengthen all 6 pillars of intimacy even during the busiest season...

While the holidays are supposed to be the happiest most magical time of the year, they can be stressful and cause strain to many couples. This doesn't have to be the case though. By putting certain safeguards into place, the business of the holidays can be used to strenthen your relationship as you prioritize the most important things.   In this week's episode, I'm sharing 3 ways to...

This week's episode is a conversation with my friend and colleague, Nate Bagley of Growth Marriage. Just in time for Thanksgiving, we are talking about gratitude and other great gifts we can give our spouse and our marriage.   We are also revealing a BIG project we have been working on. It’s something that will help make your relationships SO much better, and your life SO much easier, so you...

In this week's episode, I'm chatting with Seth and Melanie Studley of Anatomy of Marriage about how to stay intimately connected during the hustle and bustle of the holiday season. The Studleys began their journey 11 years ago when Melanie gave Seth a black eye for lying and looking at pornography. That was when their search for raw, helpful and authentic marriage resources came to a dea...

In this week's episode, I'm sitting down with Ryan and Bethany Lee who are known for empowering couples to become financially free in 10 years or less through a principle based approach regardless of age, income or experience.   We talk about the meaning of true financial freedom, how teach your kids healthy financial habits and value-based practices. How do you address money disconnects...

It this week's episode, I'm chatting with Joshua and Ashlee Latimer of Honor and Fire about How to Create a Powerful Family Culture and Empower Your Kids to Win using family systems. Their number 1 passion is helping your entrepreneurial Family build wealth, become radically generous and engineer a Family culture that changes the world.   We talk about their 5 step framework for implemen...

In this week's episode, I'm sharing a simple, game-changing hack that will instantly increase the intimacy and connection in your marriage. I'll teach you how to override your brain's default thoughts at 3 critical times during the day in order to feel more love and appreciation for your spouse, your family and your home. I promise, you do NOT want to miss this episode!   Husba...

Today's episode is a special treat! Stu and Amy McLaren join me to discuss new Amy's book, Passion to Purpose and how their multiple businesses and their global charity, Village Impact has gone from a passion to a massive source of purpose, contribution and legacy.     We talk about passion, working together, family life, leveraging their strengths, challenges they faced and how they hav...

In today's episode, I'm sharing a simple secret hack that will instantly 10X your marriage. It's a sneaky little lie that sneaks in and wreaks havoc on our relationships, but once you understand and apply it, the game changes and everything feels a little easier. I don't want to spoil the surprise, so I'll let you listen for this happily ever after treat with a twist of fo...

In today's episode, I'm interviewing Onnie Michalsky, a therapist and coach with 6 kids who helps overextended, ambitious moms get comfortable with hanging up their Super-Woman cape and putting themselves on their to-do list.   In our interview, we talk about why we put so much stress on ourselves during the holidays, how to silence our inner mean girl, how to get better sleep and experi...

This is part 2 of my interview with Russell and Collette Brunson of Click Funnels. Coming home from spending a week at Funnel Hacking Live 2021 with a community of the 1% crazy entrepreneurs that Russell and his team has built, I'm more deturmined than ever to answer the call serve married couples who feel a call to something bigger.   In this episode, Russell and Collette answer questions so...

In this rare interview with both Russell and Collette Brunson, we talk about how the co-founder of Click Funnels recommends entrepreneurs start making an impact. We talk about the ups and downs and the most important things to remember when starting the entrepreneurial journey.   Russell and Collette remenisce about their humble beginnings from the first domain name Russell bought to how he went f...

This week's episode with Dr. Joli Hamilton is packed with actionable takeaways and ways to deepen your intimacy. We talk about ways to have a better relationship without dragging an unwilling partner to therapy, the one question that will reignite our intimacy and all things jealousy and how it could be wrecking your intimate connection.   For more secrets for unlocking the potential for deep...

This week's episode is one of my favorites! I'm chatting with New York Times bestselling author, Laura Doyle. Laura’s mission is to end world divorce. And she has helped over 15,000 women fix their relationships--even the hopeless ones--without their husband’s effort.   In this interview, Laura shares some of her best cheat phrases, how to change a spouse-fulfilling prophesies, mistakes...

My guests on the podcast this week are Jeff and Tammy Hill. Tammy Hill is a licensed marriage and family therapist, sex therapist and a professor for the School of Family Life at Brigham Young University. She teaches marriage preparation, marriage enhancement and healthy sexuality in marriage courses. Jeff is also a professor at the same university teaching family finance courses. So naturally I a...

In today's episode, I'm sitting down with Shanda Sumpter and Ash Ghandehari who are passionate entrepreneurs and mulit-million dollar owners of Heartcore Business Coaching. Ash and Shanda are married, partners in business and parents and they are sharing their keys to success with on the podcast.   We talk about setting appropriate boundaries around work and family life, challenges they...