Mark Queppet

Episode #3 of the Redpill Playbook, where I help you learn to navigate your way through the world of men and women. - why women are attracted to a**holes [3:00] - why being extra-polite to women turns them off [7:00] - can pickup artists really create "trick status"? [9:00] - what I recommend over using pickup lines and tricks [12:00] - finding your core 'invincible confidence' [13:00] - sacrifici...

It's no secret that men can really mess their lives up when they don't get a handle on their sexual energy. Chronic porn addiction is just one of many ways that men become slaves to their own sex drives. On top of that, the "Me Too" movement has been a massive wakeup call for a lot of guys, especially male celebrities who have much more power & status than the average guy. This week I break do...

If you're an artist, getting your life, business and career together can be tough going - especially in the early days. Today, I sit down with a Vanguard member to talk about how to build his business, how to get clients, and the inner game of business. If you want more live calls with me, check out The Vanguard, where you'll get access to weekly zoom calls with me personally (and access to my com...

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"What porn-quitting advice NEVER works?" Today's QnA comes straight from my guys in The Vanguard (my private masculine development community) No matter where you're at in your journey, there's something for you here. Here's the cliff's notes: - the in-depth process of getting to 90-day streaks [1:00] - how to manage "flat line" symptoms when quitting porn  [2:00] - the relapse-preventing powe...

Today's topic is about resonance, specifically as it relates to your own self talk. This matters because MOST of your self talk is on autopilot, If you learn to reprogram your self talk in the right way, you can put yourself back in the driver's seat of your life. (This is part of a series called Psychomagnetic Self Talk, so keep your eyes peeled for future videos) - the four types of resonance yo...

Earlier this week I kicked off what I was calling my Self-Talk Toolbox series - after thinking it over more I'm changing the name of the series Psychomagnetic Self-Talk to be in better alignment with my other work. The idea is that if you can learn how to use self-talk to control what you are attracted to and repelled by emotionally, then you will ALSO be able to control the results that you attra...

I'm starting another series this week that I'm calling the Red Pill Playbook. The idea is to present "Red Pill" truths about sexuality, social dynamics, and psychology etc. and offer my take on how to best handle these (often painful) realities. I'm doing this because I'm not satisfied with most of the conclusions I've found presented by other content creators. We'll kick things off at a high leve...

In today's video, I answer a question taken directly from a member of the Vanguard, my masculine development community, dedicated to helping guys live and thrive at the front lines of life. He asks: 'I have been developing a game for the last three years, but most of the time, I struggle to get enough work done on it that I know I could be doing because there are no deadlines, and I won't see any...

New series: Self-Talk Toolbox. Self-talk is the ultimate psychological superpower because it is the most practical method for managing your emotional state When you get good at this, not only can you remove unwanted negative states, but generate high powered states of motivation, focus, and joy The art of doing this adeptly is what I'll be covering in depth in the coming weeks You see, without sel...

Hey guys, back with another Vanguard Coaching Call where I record a coaching session I did with one of my Vanguard Community members. In this call we cover Cheating Girlfriends, Betrayal and Self-Love. Enjoy!

When you're struggling with a craving or dealing with resistance to enacting some sort of discipline, there is a simple truth that can supercharge your ability to do what's right: The truth about TIME. The problem with emotions is that they do not accurately portray time - they just portray the experience of the moment. To make matters worse, the more intense a feeling in the moment, the more it t...

Our world is filled with "dopamine slot machines" and everyone is addicted to gambling. Here are four tips so that you can beat the house and win big instead of go broke: 1. See the slot machines Every algorithmically generated feed, every notification ping, every new item in the fast-food menu represents another pull of the dopamine slot machine, offering a chance at stimulatory pleasure. Heck, e...

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A little while ago I got a question from someone who was asking me about the best diet that he could go on to help him with his porn reboot. He was trying to eat this super-restrictive clean diet to optimize his mental performance so he could feel better, look better, and have higher cognitive performance to improve his decision making. Now on the surface, this makes total sense. If you can reduce...

Hey guys, back with another Vanguard Coaching Call where I record a coaching session I did with one of my Vanguard Community members. In this call we cover college productivity, finding your path in life, and some advanced discussion of the 80/20 principle. I hope you get a lot out of this call, and if you've got any topics that you'd like to see me coach people around, feel free to drop a comment...

How to deal with a spouse who is a needy drama queen who is in constant crisis Having a significant other who behaves like this can make it nearly impossible for you to focus on yourself and your own goals. In this video I'll tech you the general strategy you'll need to employ to get both yourself and hopefully your spouse, on the right track @UniversalMan Hi Mark, My spouse thrives on crisis. Thi...

Most guys today realize that a victim mentality is the path of weakness and failure. It's the idea that things are happening "to" you and that you lack any agency over your outcomes. Basically, it's focusing on the things you can't control and blaming them for your circumstances. This is in opposition to an "ownership" mentality where you focus on the things you CAN control, and doing everything i...

A good question can unlock the universe. As a coach, I make a habit of collecting them. One that hit me the other day was: If I could help someone build only ONE habit, what would it be? Based upon all my experience, the answer jumped out at me: centered self-talk. This is basically the practice of bringing the best OF yourself, TO yourself. In other words, it's the act of showing up as a leader a...

No doubt you've heard about what Onlyfans is. But in case you haven't it's basically like Patreon but for porn. The idea is that people can pay to subscribe to you and then you share lewd pictures and videos with them. There have been a number of high profile celebrities who have gotten on the platform and apparently there are now over one million "creators" on there. Basically, the platform is ju...

Today I'm going to be trying something a little different. Instead of my normal video, I've recorded a coaching call that I recently had with a Vanguard member , Jun. In it we talk about how to shift from a vacuous and insecurity based mentality where you are primarily motivated by fear and self-resentment into a radiant dignity based mentality where you motivate yourself through gift, play, and u...

There are two main camps when it comes to talking about your goals: One camp says you should shout your goals from the rooftops for all to hear. The other side says you should keep them private and to yourself - letting your results speak for you. Arguments as to why you shouldn't share your personal goals with others: If you talk about your goals all the time, you can get the "high" of success wi...

I've been a hardcore videogame player most of my life. Recently though, I've had to come to terms with this choice: I could either unleash my potential... OR I could give up gaming. I don't believe it is possible for me to have both. Now I don't think this holds true for every person all of the time, (check the video version of this post to hear my more nuanced take) but in general I believe that...

What if you could gain a full hour of extra time per day that you could devote to anything you wanted that was free from distractions and full of energy? Well you can get that hour, or even more, by simply getting up earlier! You can use this time for a workout, writing, prayer, or some important side-project that you don't have the energy for later in the evening. As someone who has chronically s...

It's no secret that the dopamine industrial complex (Facebook, Google, Twitter, Netflix, Reddit, MSM etc.) want to hack your brain to extract your resources. If you let them do this then you'll lose time, money, and a significant amount of happiness. It's only natural to think that walking away entirely might not be a bad idea. However, I think very few people actually do this though because they...