Man vs Marriage

Welcome back to another episode of Man vs Marriage! You cant always get what you want...You cant always get what you want.... But you can get what you need. Ever heard that song? It's an American classic, Jeanne and I believe you cant get what you wanting or needing something isn't enough, you need a map! We have things we want and need, they aren't going to get themselves done. How, with the busy...

Join us for this listener email edition of the podcast! In this episode of Man vs Marriage we take a look at listener email in regards to Triggers and communication in marriage. I will give my personal take on triggers and how they can affect a marriage. Healthy communication is crucial for a meaningful relationship, how can we face situations and hard conversations in order to reconcile ? In this...

You've identified your needs as an individual Great! Now how can you take that framework and ensure your needs are met as a marriage? I Quincy Moran had NO idea... Don't you love when a question comes to you and you have no answer....Yes of course you don't. Never fear your fearless and faithful servant Quincy Moran to the rescue... Or is it to my own rescue? Meh either way the rescue is in motion...

In this episode of Man vs Marriage Jeanne and I have an open discussion as we discover what our current needs are we are proud to share this part of our journey with you all. This is raw and unrehearsed, it gives you a framework for how you and your spouse can have this discovery about your needs. Coach Rita taught us about the love tank, we take that illustration and expand it into our needs disc...

What do you need ? Do you even know? it’s recently become a difficult question for me to answer. Ive spent a substantial snout of time rolling forward In order accomplish my goals, life career and health. We all know life always affords us opportunities to grow and a mirror to view that very progress. In those times we grow and change we can loose sight of what our needs are as we are living and s...

Check out this weeks show! So you want to be the best you, You want to take your marriage from ok to good, good to great, Great to AMAZING? How do you let your spouse know you are in the motion to grow?

Anybody a fan of the Righteous brothers? How about Top Gun? ( Both movies are SOOOO good!) What do these two famous battalions of talent have in common? That's right! The famed song about that loving feeling! How can we revitalize that loving feeling in our relationships? You guessed it, Communication AND THEN...Connection! These two are hand in glove, peanut butter and jelly, Steak and butter, al...

Welcome back to another episode of Man vs Marriage! My mother always taught me life was hills and valleys, It's like the ocean in a sense now that i think about it the waves roll in not matter how large they are, and they always roll out. Life is full of seasons, sometimes winter lasts a bit longer than expected. It is during those time of change or extended seasons that gaining a new perspective...

It's time for another episode of Man vs Marriage! This weeks show is a listener email episode! Props to one of our new listeners as he takes us inside some of his current struggles. When we decide to get married, there is some type of picture we paint in our minds of what this relationship and its future is gong to look like! What happens, when that picture and reality don't line up? Do we deal an...

Over the past 5 years, we have provided you with life changing stories and tools that give you the means to redefine your path in this life. Be a better ( insert your desire here ). The crazy part is it took over 10 years to get myself on a path in order to produce the goods to give you these stories and tools, it didn't happen over night! In the same respect although these tools are constructed i...

Guy talk provided an interesting conversation not long ago. I wouldn't say I live under a rock any any means I can say however, I am not hype on the latest lingo haha! I am not the guru for recent music and some of the culture has passed me by some of which is speeding down the road on the wrong side of the lines anyway. Todays story struck me quite hilariously and i wanted to share this little ge...

What do you notice about your relationship? Jeanne and I have noticed that life is living us, we aren't living life. We identified this during the course of recording the podcast and I knew right away that we ceded ground once taken in victory to some of our biggest foes: being busy and complacency. Once you have lost connection, how do you devise a plan and execute it in order to recapture territ...

Welcome back to another episode of Man Vs Marriage the podcast! Today we proudly engage our audience with another episode of LISTENER EMAIL! The struggle is real Y'all! Jeanne and I are certainly NO stranger to the difficulties and pitfalls that can be created in marriage. In todays episode we read an email from a Jack that has made some mistakes in his relationship, those mistakes and misundersta...

The finally of this 2 part series Who decides when we have sex. For many couples this question looms in the back of your mind ( both men and women ). In this 2nd unscripted installment we follow up on episode one and what it looks like after listening to ourselves and our differing points of view. Interestingly enough we both had the idea that the other decides. What is your story? Have you had th...

Husbands and Wife's I have a question! Have you ever asked yourself the question; Who decides when we have sex? In this episode I propose the question to Jeanne in an open unrehearsed discussion! Here is a bit of a teaser, WE DONT AGREE on who decides! While that probably comes to a shock to absolutely NO ONE :) It was important for me to let you hear us work through the challenges in a live and u...

Is your marriage suffering due to mistrust? How can that be overcome? What does a way forward look like? After episode 1 our Jack answered some outstanding questions Jeanne and I had. This Great feedback from our Jack in his quest to overcome mistrust in his relationship truly helped bring context to some of the missing questions Jeanne and I had to help him! If you haven't listened to Ep 1 check...

Do you have a dream for your marriage? Maybe you had one early on and now...It has gone cold. In this episode Jeanne and I have a "Cloud Talk" about the podcast, WE all need to do this for our marriage as well. Before Coach Rita taught us the value in cloud talks, Jeanne and I really had serious trouble communicating about what our joys and frustrations were in our relationship. This exercise will...

Marriage is a wonderful thing! Marriage can also be complicated, really anything involving human beings can be complicated AND that is ok! There is a certain beauty to the human experience even when it's messy. I am here to tell you, You are one decision away from being on the path to becoming the Rocky Balboa in your own story, conversely you are one decision away from being on the Tommy Gun path...

Over 23 years of marriage! Over 22 years of parenting! Over 250 episodes of Marriage podcasting AND.... We are struggling. In this episode we give you a "look" behind the curtain to show you we still struggle with aspects of our relationship and how we navigate when we fail. How does a relationship reconcile the residue of disappointment, anger, harsh words, negative self-talk, the fear of failure...

Life is happening FOR you not TO you - ED Mylett. (Check his show out! #MAXOUT) Since learning this life lesson I have sought to take my life experiences and transform them into opportunities for growth. Today is a very special life lesson Jeanne and I have firsthand knowledge of. Taking a step back and looking at your life and relationship AND who is providing influence may surprise you. Do you a...

Recently, one of our listeners found himself in a place of frustration. His question, "How do you keep everything going, how do You get it all right"(Paraphrased). I am sure my answer to him wasn't exactly what he was looking for. The fact of the matter is we aren't robots. The beauty of being a human being is simply this: we aren't perfect. That should be refreshingly frustrating... Truth be told...

There are times in life when things and people change. How do you handle that? Join us for this episode today for the framework of that process. There are many times I struggled with the guilt of resetting my relationships. Thankfully we learned a very valuable lesson about boundaries and the philosophy I call 50 & 5 rule. This is a necessary part of your process as relationships experience th...

Do you have the perfect marriage? What is the perfect marriage and is it even possible? Join us for this Epiphany ah ha moment that may catch you by surprise!!! Your feedback is welcomed! quincy@mvsmpodcaqst.com

We have so many downloads on where to start and how to begin improving your marriage. You can enhance your relationship no matter your current experience. The question is, where do I begin, for that matter the question sometimes is also why? Why don't I leave well enough alone? Heck, that sort of makes sense. I would submit this concept; Life is a gift, life is short, the memories and connections...

Frustrations. Arguments. Disappointed. You love your spouse, however there’s an underlying hurt that just needs to be addressed. Do you just want to clear the air and embrace the peace in your relationship again? Uh.. Yes! Yes Is the easy answer, but how and where are we supposed to start ? Enter “RULES OF ENGAGEMENT “ This episode will make all your dreams come true or at least try real real hard...