Man On FIRE Podcast with David Mehler

Too often, men hold themselves back from many opportunities for fear of making the wrong decision! They lack a backbone and decide to stay in their comfort zone because, most likely, they think they'll look stupid and feel worthless if they make the wrong choice. Unfortunately, that can ultimately create a terrible, unhealthy cycle spinning a man into a place of feeling unhappy, unlovable, and lik...

David swears by love in romantic relationships. But even more important than that is the need for men to fully show up for your wife, girlfriend, partner, or whatever you call them. Because if you want to be at your best in that relationship, you need to maintain presence and stability to stay grounded. When you get in your head and lose yourselves to past hurts and traumas, all that crap bleeds i...

We all have expectations, it's true. But when you place those expectations on your various relationships, you're creating unnecessary pressure on yourself and the people around you. You risk disappointment at every turn, which will only become resentment and can ultimately destroy what you have. And for what? Because you have a ridiculous idea of what your partner, child, or colleague should be in...

Too many men go through the motions, doing what they think is expected of them by society — making money, getting an attractive partner, raising a family, buying flashy things — assuming that will fulfill them. And then they're shocked when it doesn't, and they're divorced or bankrupt or thinking about taking their own life despite all the "success" they've achieved. It's because they're not livin...

Forged from a man when he was at his worst, harnessing his trauma and learning that he could be better, Man On FIRE was created. So when a man considers joining the organization, what should he be prepared to do? At its root, Man On FIRE is for the man who wants to grow. It's for the person who wishes to evolve, learn from past mistakes, let go of their hurts, and move forward with courage. It's a...

Too often, men and women alike get it in their heads that sex is a byproduct and expectation in marriage. It's a duty tied to the vows you made between each other. But sex shouldn't be some transactional exchange; you both deserve passion and love in those intimate moments. So when couples struggle and their sex feels hollow, disconnected, and robotic, it's often indicative of bigger issues in the...

As the man in the house, society has told you that you need to provide: A roof overhead, food on the table, and security from danger. So, naturally, you want to make the most money you can. But too many of us fall into the trap of revolving our entire lives around how much money we do or don't have, which has a cost. When we start wrapping up our worth in our wealth, we get in our heads. Relations...

Infidelity in the relationship can be terrible. It causes hurt, anger, sadness, and a lot of fallout when it comes to light. But cheating isn't something you do to someone else: The cheater is only cheating themselves. Because it's indicative of more significant issues in a relationship, and people cheat themselves by not showing up fully to analyze and heal what's wrong or walk away with integrit...

When someone in a relationship resorts to cheating, both parties involved must take responsibility for the issue and make conscious efforts towards rebuilding trust. In this episode, we dive into ways of navigating through infidelity while maintaining respect and communication between partners. Click Below to Schedule Your FREE 90 Minute Discovery Call today: https://manonfirerising.com/discovery/...

In the latest Man On FIRE Rising Podcast with David Mehler, he's fired up and wants to share his thoughts on building better relationships. Sometimes we stumble or get stuck in ruts, and that's a natural part of life. But when you choose to exist there, refusing to acknowledge how you got there and your role to play, nothing will ever change. That's when marriages fail. That's when your family div...

In the latest Man On FIRE Rising Podcast with David Mehler, we get back to discussing how to master your sexual energy with Brother Kai van Bodhi. There's a lot of shame wrapped up in sexuality and the discussion around it. But if you want to be a true masculine leader, you need to have that difficult talk with yourself if you ever want to harness that sexual energy inside you healthily. It's vuln...

In the latest Man On FIRE Rising Podcast with David Mehler, Brother Kai Van Bodhi joins our host to discuss How to Harness Your Sexual Energy: Part #1. This is for you men who are suffering from brain fog and want to sharpen your focus and improve your mental clarity, are tired and want to have more energy, are in a passionless relationship and want to bring the spark back, or are addicted to soci...

In the latest Man On FIRE Rising Podcast with David Mehler, our wants to know: Where's your head at? So many men struggle to keep their minds focused on the present and what's in front of them. They get lost dwelling on the past, reliving or lamenting traumas, hurts, and regrets. Or they're fixated on a future where everything is magically better, which may never happen. In either case, you're not...

In the latest Man On FIRE Rising Podcast with David Mehler, he acknowledges that, sometimes, it's hard being around family and friends during the holidays, but if you can shift your mindset, you can handle it better. For many, this time of year can be an emotional minefield. Not all of us enjoy a healthy relationship with our family or with the holiday season in general, meaning we have a lot of t...

In the latest Man On FIRE Rising Podcast with David Mehler, our host wants to explore your relationship with your marriage. Because without looking inward, you can't fix what's outward. If you feel stuck in your relationship and don't know how to make things better, then there's only one thing you can do: Work on yourself. Whether it's a lack of intimacy or trust breached by you or your partner, y...

In the latest Man On FIRE Rising Podcast with David Mehler, he wants to get right into it, challenging you to figure out what you want from your life. Too many guys out there just don't know what they want in life. Think about when you were a kid and someone asked you what you wanted to be. Almost without hesitation, we busted out these huge, seemingly unattainable dreams: "I want to go to the Moo...

In the latest Man On FIRE Rising Podcast with David Mehler, our host talks about loneliness and how no man can do it alone. But you don't have to. But it's not just about finding a group of friends to hang with. When finding your community, you want to seek out a group that will encourage your growth by challenging you and supporting you as you rise. Does that mean you must abandon your friend gro...

In the latest Man On FIRE Rising Podcast with David Mehler, he wants to remind you, men, out there about your purpose in a woman's life. A man assumes he's doing his job by providing for his partner and his family: Getting a decent job, making money, putting food on the table, rinse, repeat. But if you want a fulfilling life and love, you have to show up with so much more in a woman's life, whethe...

In the latest Man On FIRE Rising Podcast with David Mehler, he's challenging you to take a hard look at your life: Are you living it to the best of your ability? If not, he'll help you find out how. Because living off purpose is a surefire way to bring yourself and everyone around you down. It pitches you into a state of low energy that hurts. No matter the cause, though, it's on you to put in the...

In the latest Man On FIRE Rising Podcast with David Mehler, our host wants to know why you're not pushing yourself for more. You deserve better, but there's a reason you're not achieving it. Men get stuck in complacency. They settle for good enough when they could be rising into their passion, power, and purpose to receive greatness. But it's hard. You need to drive and be driven because what stan...

In the latest Man On FIRE Rising Podcast with David Mehler, he takes a quick moment to stop in and share his insights from recently traveling with his Queen, his partner, his loving wife, Kathleen. On a basic level, it's nice to spoil those we love. Shower them with gifts, treat them to a great time out, and travel abroad. But what really happens when you go on vacation? You give the most precious...

In the latest Man On FIRE Rising Podcast with David Mehler, we're exploring relationships, and a man's desire to be the best they can be in their partnership. So how do you make that happen? Too many relationships are a hair's breadth from divorce. People feel they're cut off from one another. And many men can't figure out how to rebuild trust and love in their relationships. Well, first, you need...

In the latest Man On FIRE Rising Podcast with David Mehler, our host wants to help you understand why you were put on this Earth. At least from his perspective. For generations, most men have been fed an idea of their purpose: that it's been their duty to protect their families and provide a decent life for them. And that's it. But pursuing this narrow-focused mindset only leads to disappointment....

In the latest Man On FIRE Rising Podcast with David Mehler, he wants you to take stock of your relationship. If you're dissatisfied, the answer should be easy, right? Wrong. Sometimes, in a relationship, we know when something's wrong. We can just feel it in the primal fibers of our being. But other times, when things are off with your partner, the problem isn't necessarily with them: It's with yo...

In the latest Man On FIRE Rising Podcast with David Mehler, our host wants you to honor your commitments to yourself so that you can give your true self to those around you. When you make a promise to yourself, it will affect everyone around you. So if you're not sticking to what you said you're going to do, you let down yourself, your loved ones, friends, and co-workers. If you can't shut out tho...