Melissa
Making Bets in a Burning House
Join us in conversations about the ways that gambling addiction affects family and friends of compulsive gamblers. We share personal experiences and insights, speak with professional counselors and leaders of 12-step programs, and gather resources to help Affected Others find hope and healing in their lives despite the many fires individuals affected by gambling set.
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Melissa
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Jun 28, 2026
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Episodes
18 When Your Wife Is The Compulsive Gambler Part 1 28.07.2025 44:49
Join Kat and Mouse in a conversation with Chad: musician, business owner, father, husband, and fellow 12-stepper. He shares with us his journey to recovery from alcohol addiction, to navigating his wife’s problem gambling. Trigger Warning: Language
17 Surprises From Our Gamblers 14.07.2025 57:19
In this episode, Kat and Mouse explore some of the experiences that caught them off guard in as they discovered their ex-husbands’ gambling addiction. In discussing these unwelcome surprises they hope you’ll be prepared. Trigger Warning: Suicide, Language
16 The Untangle Project for Women Affected by Problem Gambling 30.06.2025 44:15
We’re talking with Anna Martin, lawyer and Founder of The Untangle Project, an innovative healing community in Australia dedicated to supporting women through recovery in their own ways. She’s also a compulsive gambler in long-time recovery who speaks candidly about her experiences and the ways that society can make necessary changes to fight this horrific disease. Trigger Warning: Language
15 Supporting Kids Who Love A Compulsive Gambler 15.06.2025 39:22
Join Kat and Mouse in conversation about how we can better support kiddos who have a compulsive gambler in their life. Kat will talk through her children’s workbook and adult facilitators guide as she shows us the importance of bringing kids into recovery not just for them, but for their trust adults, too. Trigger Warning: Language
14 Addiction Recovery Coaching 02.06.2025 1:06:42
Kat and Mouse talk with Amanda Lockyer, Addiction Recovery Coach, podcaster, and founder of Addiction Makes 3, a coaching program all about supporting loved ones doing the heavy lifting of loving someone battling addiction. Trigger Warning: Language.
13 Debunking the Myth of “I’m Fine” 18.05.2025 37:46
After a lengthy side conversation, Kat and Mouse invite us to consider what that phrase “I’m Fine!” actually means, and why it’s such a detriment to our recovery when navigating life with a compulsive gambler. Whether protective or silencing, “Fine” is never this simple. Trigger Warning: Language, Suicide
12 The Importance of Storytelling: Ted Hartwell 05.05.2025 1:00:35
Join Kat and Mouse in their conversation with Ted Hartwell, former Executive Director, now Director of Storytelling for the Nevada Council on Problem Gambling, and learn more about the importance of speaking our stories to our healing and recovery process. Trigger Warning: Suicide, Language
11 The Big T: Trust 21.04.2025 40:19
We tackle a common question family and friends of compulsive gamblers ask at the start of and throughout their recovery: When does the trust come back? This topic is a big one and Kat and Mouse are here to talk through their experience of it. Trigger Warning: Language, Abuse
10 The Neurobiology of Gambling Addiction 06.04.2025 41:42
Join Mouse in her conversation with Rick Smith, co-founder of Mental Health Counseling and Consultants. He’ll help us understand the neurobiology of gambling addiction and how loved ones can protect themselves and help their compulsive gamblers in the recovery process. Trigger Warning: Suicide, Language
9 Don't 101: Enabling 24.03.2025 34:03
Kat and Mouse tackle the frustrations and complications that come with the first directive for friends and families of compulsive gamblers: stop enabling. But, what is enabling, really? What does it look like? And, how can loved one’s support their gambling addicts without doing this? Trigger Warning: Language
8 Dr. Michelle Malkin, JD & PhD PART 2 16.03.2025 26:24
This episode is the second half of Mouse’s conversations with Dr. Malkin about gambling-related harms & gambling-motivated crime and risk of historically oppressed, marginalized, and under-researched populations. Trigger Warning: Language
7 Dr. Michelle Malkin, JD & PhD, Part 1 09.03.2025 50:03
In this episode, Part 1, Mouse is joined by Dr. Michelle Malkin, Assistant Professor of Criminal Justice and Criminology and the Director of the Gambling Research and Policy Initiative (GRPI) at East Carolina University. Trigger Warning: Language
6 Stay or Go 23.02.2025 38:44
Kat and Mouse discuss the options presented to loved ones with a compulsive gambler in their life: work through the house fires, or run? Trigger Warning: Language
5 The Beginning 10.02.2025 33:58
Kat and Mouse discuss their initial confrontation with gambling with the hope that their experiences and knowledge can help you navigate your own. Trigger Warning: Language
4 What Do You Do When Kids Are Involved? 25.01.2025 42:21
Kat and Mouse discuss something that makes living life with gambling addiction more complicated than ever: kiddos. Kat shares her experiences of trying to hold for her then-9 and -11 year olds. Trigger Warning: Language
3 Surfacing Hope 25.01.2025 35:23
Kat and Mouse tackle one of the hardest topics when it comes to living with a compulsive gambler: hope. Each shares how they found hope from within and outside of the flames consuming their lives, and finding peace. Trigger Warning: Language
2 Kat's Story 24.01.2025 52:56
Kat shares her story of discovering her husband’s gambling addiction. Trigger Warning: child abuse, emotional abuse, suicidal ideation; language.
1 Melissa's Story 24.01.2025 20:43
Mouse shares her journey through her 1st & 2nd husbands’ gambling addictions. Trigger Warning: intimate partner abuse, domestic violence, suicide; language.
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