Made to Shine

For most of us our comfort zone is in being the “helper” instead of the one needing to be helped. This is your reminder that the most important thing in a relationship is honesty, and to be honest you have to share your true self- *all* sides of it.

Have you ever felt less than? Non valuable? Timid? I’ve been there. This mindset shift has been the biggest catapult for generating authentic confidence in my value.

You’re not alone- I’ve felt this way a lot in my life. This is the beautiful reminder I was given and preach to myself when I feel distant from the standard the world calls “normal”.

The biggest thing holding people back from getting stuff done.

Bullying is taught, not born. Which means we have the power to teach a new, more powerful language- love.

The world will try and get you to buy the belief you can’t trust yourself. But your inner knowing? Is the most important voice to trust. That’s God in you- nudging you toward what He needs you to hear. Get quiet. Lean in. Trust it. You can trust yourself.

So many of us walk away from faith because we think it’s a list of rules to keep up with. God what’s your heart first. He wants a relationship with you first. Wanting to abide by his word is a byproduct of starting a relationship with Him.

If you’re overwhelmed- try this mindset shift.

Let’s talk time management. Prioritizing your day doesn’t have to be as crazy as you think.

Progress is probably one of the most ironic concepts we have. If you feel discouraged you’re not making progress in an area - give this a listen 🤍

One tip that has helped me. Something 100% within your control.

“Self love”- it’s become such a buzzword. We all want it, but how do you actually cultivate it? Here are three practical tips you can implement TODAY!

The longer you stand in a field, the easier it is to fixate on the dirt not the treasure. For those with a heavy heart- listen in 🤍

The fear of what other people think about us- it’s something we all deal with. Here’s a perceptive shift that helped me when “just stop caring” didn’t work.

I’ve never been a big believer in positive thinking. At least not the definition our world gives it- there’s a different kind of hope I believe we must cling on to. A more powerful one.

If you’ve got a new thing coming- job / relationship / position / partnership / leadership responsibility and you are nervous, remember- your nerves do not discount you from being qualified for the role.

Most people would prefer to stay in a comfortable yet miserable place, than reach for better yet unfamiliar place.

So many mixed signals about dating in the world right now. Biggest piece of advice to navigate what to lead with when meeting new people and determining if it’s worth pursuing.

If you fee like you don’t have a calling, or you’ve found yours but you’re struggling with not being able to do it full time- this is for you :)

You are what you value and prioritize. These are my top 5 values and priorities I hold myself to each day.

Do you feel this pressure to fit everyone else’s timeline for your life? To be settled down by a certain age. To see financial success by a certain life timeline….the world will always tell you where you are isn’t good enough. But there’s another answer.

Whether it’s from a job, a friend, family, or a partner- the world sells us an idea of closure differently than what it should be.

My biggest tip for when you’re in a season where you have no idea what to do.

Valentine’s Day is 10000% one of my favorite days. I think we often confuse what the world tells us love is vs what it actually is.

Ever wondered what the heck a vision board is? How to make one? WHY to make one? Such a powerful reminder in the action of proactive miracle seeking.