Machona Podcast

1.   Keep expectations realistic. No one can be everything we might want them to be. Healthy relationships mean accepting people as they are and not trying to change them. 2.   Talk with each other. It can't be said enough: communication is essential to healthy relationships. · Take the time. Really be there. · Genuinely listen.   Do not interrupt or plan what you’re going...

1. DO Turn up on time. Imagine that for every minute you are delayed your date will be thinking about how the possibility of them being stood up.  You’ll have left them in the restaurant or bar looking at their watch feeling self-conscious about everyone watching them sitting there alone. 2. Don’t talk about how great you are. How off-putting! Your date does not, I repeat NOT want to hear all...

So you have met the love of your life, and want to go out on your first date? In this episode we discuss some of the ideas and things to take note of on your first date! Affordable. Spending a lot signals a big commitment  and high expectations, which can actually be off-putting to your date.  Keeping things more affordable and casual not only sets the right vibe  for her, but benef...

We are discussing places where love can be found. Love can be in literally in all places! What matters however, is the connection built after the meeting.  This connection is what will develop into a friendship, as the base for a long lasting relationship. It still has to be said that everybody needs to be security and safety conscious as you meet new people! Don't be too quick to trust stran...

Just some random thoughts on how we treat people we interact with daily. Do not be quick to judge, but always give chance to people so that they can prove their worth to you. Videos on Youtube: Machona Podcast

1. Choose a girl you like to be around Relationships should bring happiness to both partners. Your girlfriend should be someone that you know can bring out positive emotions in you. Someone you can not wait to be with, when away from them! 2. Choose a girlfriend who demonstrates self-respect You can't love someone else if you don't love yourself. So, pick a girlfriend who loves herself and sees he...

This is an introduction to a new series called Boy meets girl , which will be trying to look at the journey that males go through when trying to find a life partner. This episode discusses some of the reasons why someone should think about finding a girlfriend. Share your thoughts with me machona.com , Facebook , Twitter , Instagram , etc . Notes used: Having a healthy relationship offers you cons...

A discussion on the effects of social media on relationships. Social media has proven to be a great tool in terms of communication and entertainment in the last decade. However, this wonderful tool also comes with some unwanted consequences for relationships if not handled well. In this episode, we discuss some of the situations which can lead to breakdowns of relationships due to the misuse of so...

If you’re planning to start a side hustle, here are 10 steps that'll help you get more traction, while you keep your day job and only source of dependable income. 1. Prepare for the Long Haul 2. Identify Your Skills and Areas of Interest 3. Validate Your Side Hustle With One Paying Customer 4. Differentiate Yourself From Competitors 5. Define Clear Goals 6. Set Milestones That'll Force You to Laun...

Being in a successful interracial relationship requires much compromise and flexibility from both partners. Here are the pointers that i got from Brinel , a good friend of mine from Kitwe, Zambia; 1. Do not expect your relationship to be supported by everyone on either side. 2. Respect your Partner's culture 3. Defend your partner when he/she faces racial hostilities in the best possible way. 4. B...

This episode discusses my list of some of the attributes of the perfect partner in a relationship. There is no such a thing as a perfect partner, but there are traits that would make someone more bearable to live with or spend time with. The list of bearable traits would differ from person to person. My list: Good sense of humor - Someone with a good sense of humor will always light up the room an...

Whether you're trying to save money or just trying to get out of the same old rut, it can be fun to find new and interesting ways to enjoy your downtime. The first step to getting out of the same boring routine is exploring all of the options available. The process of trying out some hobbies you might not otherwise have considered can be an enjoyable experience by itself. Say goodbye to watching T...

The 15 friendship signs 1. They only call when they want something All friendships should be equal – which means that you should receive as much as you put in, it’s all based on reciprocation and mutuality. If you’re putting in more than you’re getting out, you should think twice about what they are asking from you. 2. The conversation is never equal Do you find that you just spend your whole&nbsp...

Discussing relationships and finances with Natasha Cholwe from Kitwe, Zambia. We tried to agree on how people can be able to work together in their relationships regarding divisions of earnings, savings and investments. The recording quality is a bit poor because the episode was recorded over the phone.

Sometimes life comes at you in the strangest ways. Sometimes you can't go forward or backwards. But always remember even sideways is a direction. You can make compromises to suit the situation. Think outside the box is what my daddy said. All the rules that exist are man made. So you can chart your own path, make some footprints.  You a king, you a queen bow to nobody. Offer respect to every...

Signs of a good friend  Friends will come and go in your life. No matter how long your friendships last, the most important thing is your friends’ acceptance of you for who you are. A good friend walks the talk and shows that they care by their actions – big and small.  A good friend:   - is there for you, no matter what  - doesn’t judge you  - doesn’t put you do...

A discussion about some of the differences between the “dating relationships” of the older generations and the current. Previous generations in Zambia have been keen on following the local traditional values, while the current generation is more free to choose or shape their own destinies. Both setups may have Pros and Cons. So, let us discuss and see what we can come up with! 🙂

As the entire world is panicking and fighting to end the Corona Virus (COVID 19) pandemic. I thought i should take time to share my views on the situation. Stay safe! Wash your hands frequently Regularly and thoroughly clean your hands with an alcohol-based hand rub or wash them with soap and water. Why?  Washing your hands with soap and water or using alcohol-based hand rub kills viruses tha...

A life that is greater, is a life spent around people who support, build and make you laugh. Those short, unimportant and silly conversations that leave you with a smile on your face. Those are the foundations of true friendship, and as we know, all good relationships are built on friendship. Always watch your temper and only get offended on second thoughts. This means that when someone speaks str...

I always believe if it is not my responsibility to say NO then that is a burden I will not take. Do not say No to yourself. Ask God, ask the Universe, ask the girl, ask the boy, ask the mentor. Let them say No. Let the people whose burden it is to say No say No. Do not say No on their behalf. Have the courage to ask for what you want. Have the courage to seek out what your heart desires. The bigge...

This is an introduction to the Machona Podcast. The podcast will be discussing various issues, mainly from the personal views of the presenter. However, the listeners are also welcome to contribute their thoughts by leaving comments on our Facebook page , or via email . The aim is to have fun whilst making this world a better place for every soul. Lets us share ideas and put smiles on our neighbor...