L.W. HAWKSBY THE NARCISSIST HUNTER, SURVIVOR AND AUTHOR

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#NoContact can be very very tough & #Narcissists will hoover anyone who they think has potential to be hoovered. If they hate you, there is a lot less chance of you being vulnerable to #Hoovering and let's face it if you hate the Narcissist, that's still not enough to put them off. As its #narcissisticsupply for you to rant, rave and be bitter to or at or about them in any way. Making a Narcissist...

A good way to define a normal from a Narc is looking at if they NEED admiration or just "like" it. Does it bother them losing an admirer or failing to gain one? #Narcissists

Bit of a flex on how to USE #BreakUps #Discards #Breaks in your #NarcissisticAbuse relationship to your advantage. I hope this podcast helps anyone who's "dying" in NC or a discard, and who's tried to leave a few times already. #Narcissists #Narcissism

Why (maybe) #FemaleNarcissists attack other normal women's appearances. The pathology & #psychology of #Projection attack mode.

You are being smeared & harassed by a suspected Narc ex. But they have a (apparently) wonderful life & new partner? Why won't they just shut up & let you "go". Because you disappointed them. #Narcissists #NarcissisticAbuse #SmearCampaign #PostSeparationAbuse #Grooming #Lovebombing #Idealisation #NPD

Noticed how your PwNPD can't problem solve issues with or for you when a "normal" person easily could? #ShameAvoidance #WordSalad #Neglect #Stonewalling #Discards #NarcissisticAbuse #CoParenting

Diff Narcs need diff #NarcissisticSupply. And #bodyimage #fitness #bodyshape and looks MATTER to every #Narcissist

Powerful message for anyone experiencing #stalking #harassment #cyberbullying or #SmearCampaign shit.

When a #stalker #Narcissist gets carried away with their "narrative" and desperate for your #narcissisticsupply they will go past certain boundaries of JUST affecting you. Even years into the #SmearCampaign a Narc will want to destroy any calm in your life & won't hesitate to go for your ex partner & their new family. They will either impersonate them online or involve them and create a massive #F...

"I think my Narc is happy now, living a good normal relationship!" No love, they aren't. If the new supply HATES you & you've never met, then it's not a happy normal relationship. It's riddled with bitching, gossip & talk about YOU. The ex! Classic Narc turns people you've never met against you. And it's NOT NORMAL. #Narcissists #Dating #NarcissisticAbuse #NPD #SmearCampaign #Triangulation #Dating...

NO CONFIDENTIALITY WAS BROKEN IN THIS PODCAST. NO NAME, AGE, STATE, RACE, OR JOB WAS DISCLOSED Soooooooo #PinkClouding is when a person is in denial about how weak to #Hoovering they really are. This podcast explains **note. I continued working with the case study/client in this podcast & 2 more sessions after her relapse, she changed UP jobs again, moved away & to date as never spoken to her #Nar...

When a smear campaigner has lost all their accounts for smearing, they will smear you for losing or leaving a couple. This is deflection, projection, bullying, and #gaslighting. #SmearCampaign #stalking #harassment #falseallegations #narcissists #Jealousy #FemaleNarcissists

It's not abnormal to "act out" in really mental/crazy/toxic/immoral ways late stage #Devaluation or #FinalDiscard or #SmearCampaign stages re #Narcissists & #NarcissisticAbuse OK?! Let it go. Let your shame go. This podcast takes you to a place of relief. You are not a Narc if you act like one after being abused by one. Full stop. If you need #coaching I'm here. Yes I charge. But it's around 1/3 c...

If a person you nurture & care for cannot support you in good or bad events, and even start fights or discard you at those times, chances are not only are they a toxic fk, they could be someone with #narcissisticpersonalitydisorder

The Law around what you can & can't persist in doing on social media is something every #Narcissist & #Troll believes is not RELEVANT TO THEM. They honestly convince themselves that Harassment is "telling the truth". Smearing & Stalking is a "right to reply". That abusive content isn't harmful its funny & it's OK. That sexually explicit, abusive and slanderous content is "sharing news". A sure sig...

More insights on how to tell if you are REALLY dealing with #narcissists #ghosting #discards #stonewalling #fakeaccounts no #closure and nit allowed to heal

This podcast unpacks the REAL reason a #Narcissist #Stalker claims you DESERVE abuse, and yet its you out of thousands of others that they've chosen? Nor all #victims of Narcissists have had a relationship with the Narc. Some of us are being stalked and smeared by people we never harmed or upset or abandoned. At the root of pathological #stalking are two things. This podcast ends with motivational...

Ways to learn about me, and why I've made myself so visible. No amount of #gaslighting #false afalseaccusations or #smearcampaign by a #FakeLola cretin, can dull the shine of success. Ever.

Look for the #greenflags of manners in #dating after #narcissisticabuse & did your #Narcissist have #Manners or do small gestures of #respect or #kindness when you met? Nope. I betcha not! Could a lack of manners be a first most discreet #redflag of an #abuser #domesticabuser #Narcissist?

#TraumaBond versus actual #Feelings about my #Narcissist. Short podcast explaining the difference. You ARE moving on! I promise! #NoContact #NarcissisticAbuse

#narcissists and the "flip" between nasty and nice. Wait to the end.

When a #fakeexpert spouts their vile opinions & victim Shane's victims of #Narcissists & compares a Narcissists Discard act to an immature or victimised person's Ghosting act. She's absolutely thick. #Narcissists #Narcissism #SmearCampaign #ReverseHoovering #ReactiveAbuse #ConArtists

#DogWhistling is a subtle attack on your peace & esteem in a given place or situation. It is so subtle and covert no one knows its happening to you, yet they are there "in the room" with you & your abuser. This podcast gives 3 examples of it. 2 personal to me. #Stalking #Narcissists #Narcissism #Abuse #DomesticAbuse #smearcampaign

Interesting way to live life during and after the horror of a #Narcissist in your life. #BigLifeQuietMind #Recovery #Domesticabuse #narcissists #narcissisticabuse #cycleofabuse #healing #therapy