L.W. HAWKSBY THE NARCISSIST HUNTER, SURVIVOR AND AUTHOR

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Low self esteem is NOT simply disliking yourself or feeling crap. It is MANY things & manifests in many ways, allowing a Narc in & for as long as it takes to destroy you. This podcast explains what low self esteem really is & how Narcs use it to use you.

Narcissistic Personality Disorder abuse behaviours are all about supply & agenda. And "normal" people hurt, cheat, lie, commit crimes too. But not with the same AGENDA. This podcast explains a little more.....

Headsup on new releases. Info on content of these books. Sneaky peeks at new dark characters coming. Explanation of motivation to write such dark, different, controversial books.

If you think you will be triggered or offended by my insights on NarcMom's, this is NOT the podcast to listen to!

Using my own experiences, I take you through red flags & behaviours of the Covert/Vulnerable Narcissist Mother. This podcast is not limiting the list of behaviours but I didnt want to make it too long! WARNING: Don't listen to this if you think it will upset you.

Narcissists in particular LOVE The Hunt. The Chase. Why? Because at that stage, you (the fresh meat) are PERFECT. The Narc will idolise/idealize you. And to them it is a sort of love.......

Rambling dog-walk musings but perhaps worth a listen anyway

Copycatting. Mirroring you (even when your an ex!). Pettyness. Sneakyness. And no one seeing it but you....

Examples of a Narc parent shaping a child & emotionally neglecting a child in that process. In time the child will usually resist and boom they are scapegoated and moved down the family ranks....

Oh ho ho...... beware the users online who take take take then abuse you when you spot the inevitable Narc in their midst...

NARCS always have flying monkeys! But how and why do they choose certain people & does the gang of Flying Monkeys have different roles? What skills & traits must they have?

Narcs need fuel. Human fuel. They do not leave relationships with fuel on offer, for nothing......

Understanding the "Go Away Nutter Group" of your Narcs victims and your "Ok. Lets Get Closure Together Group" of your Narcs victims. Why some want to talk and some don't.

I am often asked if a Narc (male) will ever meet & be NPD abused by another Narc (female). As "the mind fog" has lifted from my own abuse situation but further incidents have happened, I have realised the only time my 1 of my Narcs told me the truth, was when he was describing the warfare that an ex supply of his caused. This is a fascinating area and one which I am exploring (without realising it...

A brief introduction & some examples to look out for....

Do you beg your cheater or abuser back? Listen to this.....

Your attachment style forms in childhood. It is this that dictates how you bond with others. Narcissists (for example) like people with unhealthy attachment. These people are easy to spot, are unaware of their vulnerabilities, can even NEED the Narc for comfort and validation. Your nightmare but a Narcs dream!

The Basics: can narcs be fixed, what is NPD, How does it happen, can I get? Can my kids get it? Etc

Spiritual Narcissism & Abuse is rife. I myself have seen it first hand. A dark tetrad personality, using their vulnerability then their pathos to groom and use people in churches, AA/The Fellowship, Relationships, Families, small communities and even support groups.

Stonewalling. Social media blocking. Unanswered calls & texts. Ignoring you. Refusing to speak to you. Discarding you. Slamming the phone down. Enjoying your pain and "reverse hoovering" and "fawning"? How & why is covered here. Remember to subscribe to my YT channel (The Narcissist Hunter L.W Hawksby) and buy "Dangerous Normal People" by L.W Hawksby for vast details and clarity on these abuses an...

Ok, so you already know (from my YT vids & other podcasts) that Narcs want to hoover you and feck up your no contact to stop you healing & dating. And that they like to try keep you as a supply & cheat on the new victim WITH YOU. But this podcast offers up more detail on the different ways the NarcEx will breach no contact, how & why. As sometimes its hoovering sometimes its to make YOU break it d...

This checklist regularly goes viral. People buy "Dangerous Normal People" just FOR IT! This podcast is me asking you (reading through) this incredible NPD Abuse assessment tool, will make your life in the last days of the relationship & early days of ending it INFINATELY clearer and easier!!! Try it. What score did you get out of 22?

This (very frank) podcast explores how important it is to not be an armchair-enabler on social media (and the outside world) when a victim of a repeat cheater (and other abuses) is repeatedly cryimg out for validation and help with their decisions to repeatedly take the abuser back.

Triangulation is a toxic or Dark Tetrads favourite game between themselves and 2 other people. This podcast gives you personal examples & explanations of how it happens.