Lunch With Sandy

Send us a text Intertwining personal and professional, we share our unique journey as an interracial couple. From the reactions of our traditional Portuguese family, to overcoming societal expectations and norms - we've seen it all. We also share the floor with two of our friends who bring their perspectives on interracial dating into the conversation. This opens up a wider discussion on the chall...

Send us a text Ready to unlock the secrets of successful online dating? As a couple with nearly two decades of marital bliss, we, Terrance and Sandy, are here to guide you through this digital love landscape. In this modern world where love is often found with a swipe or click, we delve into the rise of online dating, discuss its impact, and emphasize the importance of authenticity. We'll help you...

Send us a text Ready to transform your lifestyle and strengthen your relationship at the same time? Brace yourselves, because we're about to spill the beans on how to make that happen! Join us, Terrance and Sandy, as we share thrilling stories from our recent cycling adventures and rejuvenating massages, underscoring the power of prioritizing our bodies. We also spotlight the annual community even...

Send us a text Ever found yourself caught up in the tug-of-war between wants and needs, especially within relationships? Well, guess what? You're not alone! This episode unravels the art of balancing wants and needs, and most importantly, highlights the power of honest conversations in relationships. And speaking of power, we shine a spotlight on the Rhode Island Department of State for their stel...

Send us a text Ever wonder how to strike the right balance between wants and needs in a relationship? Craving some wisdom on how to merge love and finances without causing a rift? Join us on this journey of demystifying personal finance and discovering the secret recipe to making that perfect apple pie of life. We're featuring Danny Bullock from Dream Builders, the finance whiz behind the successf...

Send us a text Just when you thought you knew everything about love, we've got an episode that might just surprise you! Picture this: A serious, insightful conversation about honesty, love, and relationships, punctuated by a hilarious tale of a Guinness World Record pull-up attempt and some unexpected gym spiders. That's right, we're talking love and pull-ups with the insightful duo, Terrance and...

Send us a text What if the secret to healthy relationships was hidden within you? That's right, we promise that by the end of this heartfelt discussion on nurturing the relationship with oneself, you'll be equipped with the knowledge to enhance not only your relationship with self but others as well. We, your hosts Terrance and Sandy Jackson, guide you through the intricacies of balancing your wan...

Send us a text Do you ever pause to consider the impact of your expectations on your children? This episode puts the spotlight on the profound influence parental expectations, whether overt or subconscious, have on shaping a child's life. We kick off with a celebration of our personal triumphs and then course onto a thought-provoking discussion about how our aspirations for our kids can significan...

Send us a text Ready for an intimate exploration of marriage and commitment? We promise an enlightening discourse that's likely to enhance your understanding of relationships, whether you're tied in matrimonial knots or not. As a couple that's been together for over two decades, we offer our own perspective on navigating through tricky territories of honesty, communication, and expectations.  Dive...

Send us a text Ever been struck by the lightning bolt realization that inflation isn't just about the price of milk and gas, but also impacts the cost of love and dating? Well, strap in as we, your hosts, Sandy and Terrence, spill the tea on the changing landscape of modern dating and the escalating costs that come with it. While we discuss my latest romantic interest (spoiler alert: it's my bike)...

Send us a text Ever wondered how love actually works? What's the difference between being in love and simply loving someone? Strap in, because we are taking a deep dive into the multifaceted world of love. We unravel the complexities of love and the delicate balance of attraction, intimacy and consistency it requires. This heart-to-heart conversation promises to shed light on the nuances of love,...

Send us a text We've all heard about it, we've all thought about it. The infamous 'seven-year itch' is something that has been widely debated, and today we're here to question the validity of this concept. Is it really a ticking time bomb, a milestone that every relationship inevitably faces? Or is it just a societal construct, a myth that has been overhyped? Join us, Terrance and Sandy, as we tak...

Send us a text Is it possible to genuinely love without seeing the flaws in your significant other? Or is love, at its core, a careful balance between acceptance and critical reasoning? Immerse yourself in a deeply engaging debate on the complexities of relationships and love as we dissect the intriguing notion of 'love being blind.' We'll challenge conventional views on this age-old saying and qu...

Send us a text Is the concept of marriage becoming overrated? We are Sandy and Terrance, your guides through the complex world of relationships, and we're sparking a rather controversial conversation today. We're questioning the traditional expectations about relationships and shedding light on the overrated aspects that society has ingrained in us. We discuss everything from the pressure of findi...

Send us a text Have you ever found yourself walking a tightrope, balancing honesty and needs in your relationship? Could altering one small detail, one tiny decision, have changed your entire life? Join us as we delve into these questions and more in an enlightening conversation, comparing the complexities of relationships to a 'lunch' - a necessary and often overlooked event.  We couldn't stop at...

Send us a text Ever wonder how to keep all the balls in the air and not drop one? We've all been there, frantically juggling life's responsibilities, family, work, self-care, and the delicate art of maintaining relationships. Life is indeed a high-wire act, and in this episode of Lunch with Sandy, we're turning the spotlight on how to not just survive but thrive amidst the chaos.  Join us, Terranc...

Send us a text Ever wondered what it's like to navigate the world of pet ownership while balancing a family, work, and other responsibilities? Well, you're in for a treat this week as we take you on our personal journey of dog ownership. From the exciting day we brought our mischievous puppy, Jax, into our home to the challenges and blessings that came with his growth and development. Our youngest...

Send us a text Ever wondered how raising kids and maintaining a relationship often resembles walking a tightrope? How it requires a fine balance between personal needs, nurturing the relationship, and tending to the little ones? Well, that's the heart of the conversation we, Terrance and Sandy, dive into - sharing our personal stories, the trials, triumphs and insights from our journey of parentho...

Send us a text Ever wondered why your heartfelt, honest expressions to your spouse seem to miss the mark? Are you perplexed by the mystery of when honesty is not the best policy? Well, we've got you covered. In this episode, we, Terrance and Sandy Jackson, draw on nearly two decades of marriage to break down the complexities of couple communication. We explore the art of expressing feelings and th...

Send us a text Strap in, folks, because we're about to unlock the secrets of effective communication and conflict resolution in relationships! As your hosts, Terrance and Sandy, we promise to guide you through the labyrinth of emotional expression, from understanding the crucial 'Rules of Engagement' to maintaining a level head when the heat is on. We'll give you the tools to navigate arguments wi...

Send us a text Ever wondered how a couple manages their time together to ensure a harmonious relationship? Well, it's time for a humorous and insightful episode of Lunch with Sandy, where my better half, Sandy, and I, discuss a topic we've had nearly two decades to perfect - time management in relationships. We're letting you in on our fascinating journey and all the fun we had learning to work to...

Send us a text What if you and your significant other could build a roadmap to your shared dreams, a blueprint that could navigate you through life's unexpected twists and turns? That's right! Join us in a heartfelt conversation, where we delve into the under-appreciated concept of setting marriage goals and how it can be the secret to a harmonious relationship.  Ever wondered why your financial g...

Send us a text Are you ready to revolutionize your relationship? Join us, Terrance and Sandy, for a frank and honest discussion about the realities of marriage. We've been navigating the marital landscape for over two decades, and we're here to share the wisdom we've gained along the way. We promise you'll walk away with invaluable insights into effective communication and the art of relationship...

Send us a text What if we told you that planning for the unthinkable in marriage could actually strengthen your relationship and help you navigate life's challenges more effectively? Join us, Terrance and Sandy, as we dive fearlessly into discussing the importance of being prepared for unexpected situations, such as the loss of a loved one, potential divorce, or long-term illness, and how addressi...

Send us a text Are you settling into a cozy routine with your significant other? It's important to understand the pros and cons of comfort in long-term relationships, so join us in this eye-opening conversation! We'll discuss how trust, routines, and being yourself are crucial for a thriving partnership, alongside the joy of celebrating milestones like Father's Day. However, beware the pitfalls of...