Loving Relationships for Women of Color

Have you ever experienced the disappointment of a breakup after having fallen in love with someone’s potential? Today's show is about discerning between nonsustainable potential and sustainable potential in a prospective partner. #potential #relationships #relationshipgoals #dating #heartbreak #wholehearted #unconditional

So many varieties of breakups, slow and torturous, fast and unexpected, mutually agreed upon. No matter what kind of breakup you've been through, today I'm offering 5 steps to make breaking up as high-value in your life as it can possibly be. #breakup #relationships #relationshipgoals #dating #heartbreak #depression

In this week's episode, I share a frank discussion of why I’m no longer a matchmaker but still very committed to making sure that clients find love. #relationships #lovecoach #matchmaker #matchmakers

I'm about to give you the most powerful 5-steps for regaining the trust of someone you love, EVER! Mainly, because they don’t require love-bombing, empty apologies, or deception in order to re-ignite another person’s belief in you. #relationships #makingup #breakingup #relationshipgoals #empowerment #communication

Our chances of having what we want in love aren’t guaranteed to be any better by following someone else’s rules. In fact, we can often sabotage by behaving in ways that other people tell us to. Remember that book “The Rules”? Who's your love leader? #singleover40 #relationships #singlewomen #dating #relationshipgoals #selflove #datingadvice

Jaida Pervis is back and we've got a new venture! This week's show we're making a big announcement and sharing "war" stories. Have you ever thought about what it would be like to work with a matchmaker? 

The dreaded question. It can be almost as annoying as "What do you bring to the table?" or "Is that your real hair?" This week I'm going to give you 5 amazing answers to that question that you can use in ANY social situation and take back your equilibrium.

If you've ever learned how to process your anger, yay!!! You're doing better than most. What about going so far as to turn it into opportunity? You have a chance to transform anything you want to in your life's experience just by listening to what your anger has to say. #relationship #relationships #relationshipgoals #lovecoach #lovecoaching #anger #depressionandanxiety #mentalwellness #wellness #...

On this episode, we talk about why "swipe left" culture affects grown folks differently. It's not for the reasons you might think. #datingover40 #soulmates #fallinginlove #swiperight #swipeleft #datingapps

Jaida Pervis is back after our long hiatus! We're talking about all things matchmaking for middle-aged women. If you're thinking about getting a matchmaker, have a matchmaker, or used to have a matchmaker and ended up unhappy listen in. #datingover40 #datingover50 #middleagedwomen #findingyourflow

You're going to want to be in this conversation. Find out how being single for a long time can truly make you a prize in a relationship. Also, how you are becoming way more valuable in your aloneness. #single #relationshipgoals #relationshipadvice #dating

What are the signs that our hearts need healing? Tune in to find out how symptoms of a broken heart go way beyond failed relationships and the pain of rejection.

So if pick-up lines and flashing cash won't work, what will? This is the follow-up to last week's discussion about attracting a great woman. If you ever wonder what you should say when you really want her, listen in. Master this approach and get that great woman!   #relationshipgoals #monogamy #relationshipquotes #relationship #couplesgoals #hug #relationshipadvice #couples #pickuplines

This one is going out to the guys. The ones who actually want a great woman. I know you're out there because you invest in matchmaking, self-improvement, dating sites, learning about how women think. In this show, I'm going to offer some insights into the mind of a great woman. How to attract her and be irresistible to her.  #dating #datingsites #singlemen #matchdating #relationshipgoals #rel...

Have you ever Googled "Celebs who date shorter men."? I did and it inspired me to wonder... what is it that these guys are bringing that have these gorgeous, statuesque, successful women draped around them from the top of their head to the tip of their toes? If you said "riches" you are not even close, by my research. Listen in as Jaida Pervis, my fellow matchmaker, and I chop it up. #relationship...

Still thinking Mr. Right needs to be lust at first sight? Is handsome and hot at the top of your requirement list for a perfect partner? Tune in to find out why you're not wrong you just gotta know where to look first. 

Join me and special guest, Ask for Candy listener Michelle, as we talk about the origins of our emotional baggage and how even the best of parents could have f*cked you up. #love #relationships #podcasts #healing #emotionalintelligence

Think it won't work out unless you control it? Fighting with your urge to take over? Identifying yourself as an "Alpha" female and still not creating the love life you want? Listen in. 

If you're having a hard time distinguishing between your trust issues and a potential partner's trustworthiness, here is a surefire way to get to the heart of whether someone can be trusted. There is one question you can ask that will tell you everything you need to know. Tune in. 

Emotional baggage! Let's talk about what it is and what it ain't! Most importantly, let's check it somewhere so we don't have to bring it on our next relationship journey. Wanna be free to move about the cabin? I know I do. #relationships #dating #emotionalbaggage #healing

This week we're going to taco 'bout the uselessness of "strategic navigation" in our love lives. Also, what I'm going to say to the lovely gentleman who messaged me on a dating site as he types himself into the friend zone. Here's a hint: Compassionate truth, no clever games. 

If you’ve ever wondered how to stop the scale and your self-love from fluctuating listen in. This week’s topic must be burning calories cuz' it's el fuego. #weightrollercoaster #selflove #selfacceptance 

Just like back when everyone discovered their ex was a narcissist (myself included), here we are after years of noticing all the red flags in other people and still single. Tune in and hear another perspective on red flags. No, I'm not telling you to date Trump supporters, if you're liberal. #dating #relationships #healthepast #redflags

There is one secret thing we can all do the moment we realize that a relationship needs improvement. I can tell you that it's radical. Almost unheard of and most people will try everything else before even considering this solution. Want to unleash your magical connection-enhancing powers? Listen in. #relationships #relationshipgoals #couples #siblings #friends

It could be. Could be not. This week I break down some questions you can ask yourself and answer in your journal to get real honest and be able to listen to your gut with confidence. Especially, if you're keeping that ex close but at a distance. #reunited #rekindled #relationshipgoals