Love Strategies: Dating and Love Advice for Successful Women

Discover a smarter approach to love by rethinking your understanding of attachment. This episode reveals why common views are flawed, explaining the crucial shift from rigid "attachment styles" to fluid "attachment tendencies." Learn how to identify your true attachment patterns and gain actionable strategies to cultivate a more secure and fulfilling love life. NEXT STEP: Book...

Struggling to get the affection you desire from men? The good news is, you can have the love you desire, without chasing it. In this video, you'll discover 5 powerful (and subtle) ways to inspire more affection from men, without losing yourself or playing mind games. From celebrating his masculinity to creating emotional safety, you’ll learn how to foster the connection and warmth you deserve...

Breaking up can feel like an end to your world as you know it. Everything around you – from the music you hear to the shows you watch – reminds you of your ex. It's a challenge even to recognize who you are without them. But what if there's a better way to heal and move on? Originally Aired: Jan. 16, 2024 NEXT STEP: Book a complimentary Love Strategy Session and let us help you attract l...

Do you prefer real-life sparks but find dating apps have tainted your approach? This episode unpacks the hidden ways online dating creates bad habits, from superficial evaluations to the 'What's In It For Me?' mindset. Learn how to break free and embrace a more authentic, fulfilling way to date NEXT STEP: Book a complimentary Love Strategy Session and let us help you attract love th...

Ever felt like your age or confidence was scaring men off, but couldn’t quite put your finger on why? In this new video, I’m revealing the five real reasons some men avoid dating older women. Once you understand them, you’ll be in the driver’s seat of your love life. NEXT STEP: Book a complimentary Love Strategy Session and let us help you attract love this year: https://go.lovestrategies.com/sess...

In this podcast, Dr. Lewandowski and I will share the game-changer: the "3 P's" - Potential, Process, and Progress. These concepts can make dating clearer and brighter for you. And here's a tip: the word "YET." This tiny word can change how you view everything, emphasizing growth and change. So, don't give up on love just yet. Join us as we delve into this easy b...

Tired of dating games and men who constantly disappoint? This episode reveals why true masculinity is so elusive and how to spot the problematic "alpha assholes." Learn to identify the S.T.R.O.N.G. qualities of genuinely good men and finally find the healthy relationship you deserve. NEXT STEP: Book a complimentary Love Strategy Session and let us help you attract love this year: https:/...

Think you know the dating scene? Think again. In this episode, we're joined by Macy Matarazzo, a Senior Love Advisor with Love Strategies, to break down five modern dating trends and what they reveal about modern love. Learn how to decode the trends, avoid the traps, and date with more clarity (and fun) than ever before. Ask ChatGPT NEXT STEP: Book a complimentary Love Strategy Session and le...

Ever wonder why dating feels so hard? This week, we're uncovering the hidden ways you're unintentionally making your romantic life miserable. Get ready to identify your own blind spots and finally break free from these frustrating patterns. NEXT STEP: Book a complimentary Love Strategy Session and let us help you attract love this year: https://go.lovestrategies.com/session

Whether you’re dealing with a one-time ghoster or a guy who’s suddenly MIA mid-connection, here’s what his behavior is actually telling you—and how to respond without losing your sanity (or your standards). NEXT STEP: Book a complimentary Love Strategy Session and let us help you attract love this year: https://go.lovestrategies.com/session

Dr. Lewandowski and Adam uncover the importance of authenticity and how being provocative can lead you to the right match. Learn why your quirks are actually your advantage in the dating world and how embracing your uniqueness is your ultimate superpower. Get ready to change your dating game and waste less time as you find the love you deserve. Originally Aired: Aug. 13, 2023 NEXT STEP: Book a com...

That "hey" text from your ex just popped up – now what? We're tackling the tricky return of the "zombie ex," helping you decode their motivations and navigate your own mixed emotions. Before you fall back into old patterns, learn our strategic approach and the crucial questions you need to answer to decide if this blast from the past deserves a second chance, or a firm blo...

Your time is precious, especially when it comes to finding love. And if you've been burned by flaky texters, charming narcissists, or emotionally unavailable men, you're probably tired of wasting it on guys who drain your energy and leave you wondering if love is even worth it. The truth? It is, but only if you're protecting your time and heart. Let’s dive into five ways to quickly...

In this follow-up to the wildly popular Year of Deb , we’re diving into her “little black book” method for dating with clarity, confidence, and zero BS. Discover why calm is the new chemistry, how outcome independence makes you magnetic, and the secret power of being still. NEXT STEP: Book a complimentary Love Strategy Session and let us help you attract love this year: https://go.lovestrategies.c...

Tired of feeling like finding a high-character man is an impossible solo mission? We're changing the script on traditional dating advice. Discover the surprising power of community and how your "tribe" can become your greatest asset in attracting the love you deserve. NEXT STEP: Book a complimentary Love Strategy Session and let us help you attract love this year: https://go.lovestr...

When a man is ready to commit, it’s not about your résumé, your looks, or even how perfectly you check his boxes. It’s about how you make him feel—and there are five specific emotions that tip the scales from “she’s great” to “she’s the one.” Let’s break them down—and show you how to tap into the emotional blueprint that makes a man fall deeply (and lastingly) in love. NEXT STEP: Book a compliment...

In this spicy episode, we’re joined by Love Strategies’ very own Macy Matarazzo—Senior Love Advisor and resident truth-teller—to unpack why so many women find themselves drawn to criminals, bad boys, and rule breakers. From dreamy mugshots to emotional mayhem, we explore the surprising psychology behind “bad boy” attraction and what it might reveal about your own dating patterns. NEXT STEP: Book a...

Ever been swept off your feet, only to realize it was a red flag parade in disguise? We're diving into the seemingly sweet behaviors that actually scream toxic. Learn to spot the subtle signs of manipulation and control before you fall for a fantasy, and discover how to find genuine connection instead. NEXT STEP: Book a complimentary Love Strategy Session and let us help you attract love this...

In this video, I’ll uncover the hidden “mind viruses” that could be sabotaging your chances at real connection. These are common, contagious beliefs that quietly sabotage your dating life—without you even realizing it. And the worst part? They often sound like empowerment… but end up closing you off to the very thing you want most: real, lasting love. NEXT STEP: Book a complimentary Love Strategy...

Ever wonder what emotionally mature, relationship-ready men are really looking for? In this special pod, I peel back the curtain on what men (not boys) find irresistible—and how it’s completely different from what younger guys value (and why that’s a very good thing). A Gift From Me (On My Birthday): To help you get there, I created a free training just for women over 40+: 👉 LonelyToLove.com Insi...

Tired of swiping left based on political affiliation? We're diving into the surprisingly complex world of dating across the aisle, challenging the notion that red and blue can't find common ground. Forget the simple advice – we'll equip you with a strategic mindset to navigate differing views and discover if love can truly conquer political divides. NEXT STEP: Book a complimentary L...

Are you tired of feeling cursed when it comes to first dates? Does it seem like no matter what you do, you just can't seem to make a connection with someone new? It's a common feeling, but the good news is that there are proven ways to be a charming first date, and have men begging for that second date, and many more. Many people believe that charm is something you either have or don&apo...

Unlock the secrets to effortless attraction with our 7 research-backed body language techniques that will have men drawn to you from across the room. Learn how to project confidence, spark intrigue, and master the art of nonverbal communication to captivate the right guy. NEXT STEP: Book a complimentary Love Strategy Session and let us help you attract love this year: https://go.lovestrategies.com...

Have you ever gone on a first date, clicked with someone, and started planning your future together before you even finished dessert? If so, you're not alone. Many women overinvest in a man before seeing if he's worth it. Unfortunately, this can lead to heartbreak and disappointment when things don't work out. However, there are ways to break this cycle and find lasting love. Origin...

Think he's being honest? Think again. This week's podcast cracks the code on the sneaky linguistic tactics guys use to bend the truth while dating, without technically lying. Learn to identify the subtle red flags and protect yourself from being misled in the confusing world of modern romance. NEXT STEP: Book a complimentary Love Strategy Session and let us help you attract love this yea...