Love Sex and Tarot

What’s this year’s theme? It’s important to lighten your emotional load. This means limiting visual clutter, stopping negative self-talk, and getting quality rest! It’s the Year of the Horse! We need to be rested to ride! This is a year of forward momentum. Stay positive! I’m going with the flow, and this week’s tarot reading carries a message for you! (00:09:48) They may be putting on a happy fac...

'Tis the season of forced rest. It’s time to find your granny hobby, heating blanket, fuzzy socks, and chill. It’s a time for planning—a time to visualize the summer you wish to have! In this week’s tarot reading, the gears (00:05:41) are moving. If you’re waiting for a relationship to fail, it's in the cards. There’s lots of chemistry, but emotionally it’s not the right time for them. Move on for...

Happy New Year! It’s time to rest after the holiday finale that is Christmas. This year, rest is our priority, and with that, we will have the energy to achieve our goals. This is the perfect time of year to start planning the framework to climb toward your goals from the comfort of your favorite chair and blanket. I’ll start my “flow state” adventure as it’s my goal this year to let the show flow...

Merry Christmas! Enjoy these past Christmas love notes while I take a much needed rest from podcasting. I’ll be back over New Year's with a fresh tarot reading and Capricorn horoscopes. I wish you all a happy and healthy holiday season. See you on the other side! If you miss me, check out my TikTok for quick little love notes: @Lovesexandtarot. ⚠️ These are performances and for entertainment purpo...

Everyone is afraid of rejection. Attraction equals attention. Do they pay attention to you? That’s a big sign to begin the process of gauging interest in friendship. "Gaslighting" has gotten a bad reputation, but in the context of finding out if they like you back, it’s a safer way to speed things up. If you get ghosted, then that’s your sign it’s a no-go, but it also ends the longing for somethin...

Is it really embarrassing to have a boyfriend? We discuss this trending topic in the sex segment this week. Happy birthday to me! I’d love to see birthday wishes in my reviews. I’m also sharing my favorite Amazon products on my Facebook page—check it out to get some of the self-care items I love! It helps the show at no additional cost to you! If you watch TikTok’s make sure you’re following my pa...

With the stresses of the holiday season, we must be thrifty. We need to prioritize our future financial state and avoid paying interest on items that end up in the goodwill pile. There is no shame in picking out the perfect gift of goodies that will be enjoyed. This week’s reading features a mermaid charm dealing with an ex’s retaliation. (00:05:45) The proof you need is coming to you in the form...

You climbed a mountain to get out of a hole. Why would you think success is out of your reach? We begin the show with a little pep talk, and it’s the truest thing I know: we got this all day long. The love note this week was "Two Kids on a Bike" (00:07:20). Their hearts were frozen, and you thawed them. You provided such comfort and clarity. They feel like you were heaven-sent, and they can hardly...

Self-care is important, but self-talk is even more crucial. You must learn to become your own best friend. Would you talk to your friend the way you talk to yourself? No, absolutely not. This issue was brought up in the singles love reading this week, where the symbol was the Tree (00:05:10). You need to leave your current environment. How do we do that? We make a plan and start taking the steps t...

In this episode, I talk about fitness. How do you achieve a coregasm? (00:42:36) This is my 2026 fitness goal, and I invite you to join me in this challenge. Even if we can’t fully achieve it, we’ll be better off for trying. This week’s reading’s charm was the Anchor (00:03:09), this definitely is your soulmate. Compromises are necessary, though. I use some sailing references to explain the need t...

I just don’t understand the Scorpio hate. Personally, I’ve seen Leos do more damage. Marriage is not just a piece of paper; it’s a very expensive legal document, and getting out of this partnership costs even more. This week's reading was for a nurse (00:08:33) looking to get out of her marriage. If you knew that your partner had been hung up on their ex this whole time, would you still feel so se...

I do this every year near Halloween: a love letter from the dead. The veil is thin, as they say, and I do my best to convey their love for you. These messages surprise me every year with how the cards fall into place, leaving such meaningful insights behind. It’s always an honor to read these notes, and I hope they carry significance for listeners. Just knowing they still love and care about you d...

It’s Halloween time, and you have permission to have fun and get silly. It’s in moments of play that flirting and opportunities for real connections occur. Take advantage of this silly holiday and push the boundaries around you. You just might be surprised at who is down for fun. This week’s reading (00:09:25) was about a situationship where you saw that they were into someone else, which made you...

What does sexual wellness mean? It's fundamentally about communication. It involves discussing your sexual health, including the disclosure of STDs, your flexibility and comfort with different sexual positions, your kinks, your birth control methods, and your libido or the frequency of your desire for sex. I also delve into the frequency of your orgasms. The health benefits of frequent orgasms hav...

Hello, Fall! It’s such a cozy time to enjoy warm comfort food. If you haven’t been feeling the readings lately, I want to set the intention that this week's love reading is for you! It was confusing from my perspective, but I forge ahead. In the ladies' room, we are all friends, and hopefully, you can relate. I’ll end with the Libra Season Horoscopes. I love fall! Time to dig out our favorite hood...

What’s your purpose in life? Does it even matter? You only have so much time. None of us wants to come undone, but in those moments, that purpose shines through clear as day. It’s the blurring of vision that brings it to the forefront—the focal point. The love note this week was "Two Dolphins" (00:07:36). Are you a creative writer? This love note is for you. It’s your time to shine! They really ne...

Embarrassment is short-lived if you learn to get over it. It takes many failures to achieve one success. It’s time to get over yourself and learn to laugh about it. (Moon 00:08:20) I share some embarrassing stories. Look, family is always an obstacle to relationships, but you can find balance. What’s the worst that can happen? You don’t hear back? Oh no! I end with sexy messages (00:30:11). Have a...

When he’s meaner when you’re alone, it can be even scarier to break the cycle. It’s difficult when people see the facade and don’t know your reality. Men can pose the greatest risk to women’s safety, and it’s not your fault. It can take years to see a man for who he really is—an angry, unstable individual. There are resources available: https://www.thehotline.org You are not alone, and it’s possib...

It's breakup season on love, sex, and tarot for the whole month. Seriously, the cards are forecasting breakup/ divorces for the next couple weeks. It feels riskier but it’s going to worth it The leaf reading focuses on the divorce (Leaf 00:09:57). We also talk a lot about STDs this week. All important information for struggling women. It's hard to instigate a breakup when you have so many memories...

Getting through the doldrums of summer, the love still grows in this week’s love note. There’s still hope. They were intimidated, just like you were, by the mountain that had to be ascended. But it was actually a fear of love. Though they feel like the time to act has passed, this relationship still grows. You still need to move on. You are strong enough to do so, and it might be just what you nee...

How has your obsession actually helped you overcome deep depression? It’s time to be thankful for the obsession that protected you. Only so much sunshine is left this year, so it’s time to focus on the good things. You have overcome so much; be proud of yourself! That was the message for my singles this week! I end with sexy messages from your future soulmate. Get outside and get your dose of vita...

Our sex segment this month is all about the trending topic of Sensory Sex (00:29:18) What is this new trending kink? We called it lovemaking in the 1900s or just classic couples therapy. Regardless of what we call it now, it’s about indulging in intimacy. Taking time to feel it, see it, smell it, touch it, and taste it! It’s just that easy. It’s time to plan your sensory sex session like you plan...

So, tell me about yourself. The most dreaded question ever. We rarely take the time to think through our narratives. Our focus should be on how they make us feel and how they make others feel. Being a good storyteller means learning to edit out the details that bog down the story. Think light and sweet, with a hint of mystery—aka omission. This week, we talk about turning down the floodlight so yo...

We don’t defend ourselves anymore against people who are looking for a reason to screw us over. Justifying our decisions alone tells them they are right and, therefore, that they don’t have to treat us correctly. Stand in silence and let them wonder if they are the idiot here. Let them speculate about the powerful reason you chose not to reply to their negativity. The first love note is so sweet!...

There’s a saying in Cleveland: “If you make it in Cleveland, you can make it anywhere.” That’s how hard it is to grow here. Sometimes I feel like a weed struggling to grow between two slabs of concrete, being trampled now and then. When people say that everything in Cleveland is earned, they mean their basic respect and kindness doesn’t come free. But what can you do for me? Yet we persist. I’m st...