Love Life With Matthew Hussey

When you’re deep in a relationship, it can be hard to tell if you’re fighting for something worth saving—or holding on to something that’s slowly breaking you down. In this episode, Matthew shares 3 powerful questions that will help you see your relationship more clearly and know whether it’s time to stay or walk away. You’ll also learn the “dark pairing” traits that quietly erode your confidence...

What if tiny habits could completely change your love life? In this week’s Love Life Podcast, we break down the small, everyday actions that quietly create more confidence, more connection, and way more opportunity. You’ll learn about “micro missions” that can lead to new friendships, relationships, or simply a more fulfilling day, plus other simple shifts that make dating feel lighter and more in...

This week’s episode looks at why even highly intuitive people can miss the signs of a partner living a double life. I share the story of a woman who spent 17 years in a marriage without suspecting a thing—not because she wasn’t perceptive, but because love can dull the very instincts meant to protect us. I also break down the psychological trapdoors that make us overlook what’s right in front of u...

Ever feel like you’re stuck dating people who never fully show up? Maybe they’re avoidant, inconsistent, or just not ready for real commitment—yet somehow, you keep holding on, hoping things will change. In this episode, Matthew unpacks why we get attached to people who can’t give us what we need and how to break free from that pattern for good. You’ll learn how to reconnect with your self-worth,...

Is love really easier to find in Chicago than in Los Angeles? Or is it all in how you show up? In this week’s all-new Love Life episode, we unpack the myths and realities of dating in different cities—and what your zip code might (or might not) have to do with your love life. Plus, we tackle a Love Life Line question from a listener in her 50s who’s navigating the tricky waters of dating men who p...

This episode tackles a topic that’s as raw as it is real: “I no longer want to hear dating advice from conventionally attractive people.” That line, from a recent British Vogue article, struck a chord with many people, and for good reason. So much dating advice comes from people who’ve never had to face what it’s like to be overlooked or rejected again and again. When you’ve never had to climb fro...

Why do we get so in our heads when we start dating someone new? In this episode, we dive deep into the most common fears people face in early dating — from getting too invested too soon, to navigating intimacy and exclusivity when someone’s seeing multiple people. With over 1,300 comments from listeners sharing their biggest dating anxieties, we unpack the most relatable ones and offer real, pract...

Long-distance love can be beautiful . . . or it can slowly drive you insane. In this week’s Love Life Podcast episode, we talk about how to know the difference. Are you in something real, or just filling a void? We’ll unpack what makes distance work: from actually planning to see each other to noticing when communication starts feeling one-sided. You’ll learn the signs your relationship is moving...

Here’s a really tricky part about dating: The moment you realize you like someone, it can feel like everything’s riding on winning them over. But what really makes you magnetic isn’t trying harder . . . it’s showing up as your confident, authentic self, and bringing your own value to the table without overthinking. In this episode, I break down how to shift your mindset so you stay grounded and re...

Few things hurt more than watching someone you love move on. When the person you thought was “the one” starts building a new life without you, it can feel impossible to breathe, let alone imagine loving again. In this episode, Matthew shares a powerful step-by-step approach to healing after heartbreak—especially when your ex has found someone new. You’ll learn how to stop comparing, regain your co...

This week on the Love Life Podcast, Matthew Hussey and Producer David dive into some of the most-asked questions about modern relationships. Should you ever chase someone in love, or does persistence risk crossing the line?  The conversation also takes a personal turn as Matthew reflects on the strong women in his family who shaped his perspective on relationships and life. This episode is a must-...

In the aftermath of a toxic or narcissistic relationship, we can lose all sense of self. Whether our partner tried to steal our joy at every opportunity, or they wore down our self-esteem with endless arguments and cold-shoulder treatments . . . the end of a relationship like this will leave us feeling disoriented and lost, and it can be hard to rewire our brains and resume normal life once we’re...

In this week’s episode of the Love Life Podcast, we’re exploring how Gen Z is rewriting the playbook on love and relationships. Is romance really taking a back seat to mental health and ambition, or is the story more complicated than that? We talk about: • Why Gen Z might be stepping away from traditional dating norms, and whether it’s a pushback against toxic dating culture or something deeper. •...

This week’s episode with bestselling author and entrepreneur Marie Forleo is about one of the toughest parts of relationships: those hard conversations you’d rather avoid. You know the ones—where you’re afraid to say the wrong thing, or you’re worried it’ll turn into an argument.  In this episode, you’ll learn how to face those conversations with more confidence and care . . . so you can speak you...

Dating apps can feel like their own toxic relationship. We swear them off, only to come back because life is busy and meeting strangers in the real world feels nearly impossible. A Pew Research survey even found that more than a third of app users walk away feeling more pessimistic about dating than before. So why do we still cling to them, even when the experience leaves us drained? In this episo...

Do you attract emotionally unavailable people? Or maybe you have a pattern of meeting good people and pushing them away because “something doesn’t feel right.” If this sounds familiar, you may struggle to trust your own decisions when it comes to love. This often leads to us looking to others to validate our choices and tell us we’re doing the right thing (which can be dangerous for many reasons)....

Join the Love Life Podcast crew for this new episode as they examine the tricky link between money and self-worth in dating, answering questions like: • Do most men feel their value is connected to their income?• How big of a role does money actually play when choosing a partner?• In what ways do money expectations affect our relationships?• How has social media distorted our sense of what’s “enou...

Marriage is one of the most important decisions you’ll ever make—but it’s also one of the riskiest if you’re not careful. In this week’s episode, I’m sharing the lessons I’ve learned about what makes a marriage work, why rushing into it can lead to heartbreak, and how to know if you’re choosing the right person for the right reasons. (Plus, I share the one question you must ask yourself before say...

Whether your breakup was two days or two decades ago, you find yourself looking back and wondering how things could’ve turned out had you acted differently. Had you known then what you know today. Pretty soon, you’re living in the timeline where you didn’t “ruin everything” with that person . . . ultimately punishing yourself over a parallel universe you’ve created in your mind. In this episode, m...

Confidence touches every part of our lives. When it’s lacking, it can hold us back in ways we don’t even realize. If you’ve ever: • Caught yourself thinking, “I’m not attractive enough”• Felt stuck in a cycle of self-doubt• Or can’t seem to overcome your fear of rejection . . . this episode is for you. Whether you’ve lost your confidence because of something that happened in the past, or you feel...

If dating apps have left you feeling drained, you’re not alone. Nearly half of U.S. adults say dating is harder now than it was a decade ago, and for good reason: ghosting, endless swiping, and dead-end chats can make anyone feel cynical. Even though it may not feel like it, more than half of us still meet our future partner the old-fashioned way: crossing paths in everyday life. In this week’s ep...

What do you do when someone is great on dates but goes radio silent in between? With only three dates in, it’s easy to feel confused and crave clarity, but early dating rarely provides the closure we seek. Instead of getting stuck in overanalyzing their behavior, we explore how to take control of the dynamic by modeling the kind of communication and connection you want to see. If you’ve ever felt...

From the rise of financial independence to the rejection of outdated gender roles, we discuss why many women are redefining what fulfillment looks like and why some men are struggling to adapt to these changes.  In this week’s episode, we dive into a topic that’s sparked heated debates and fascinating insights in our community: Why are so many women choosing to stay single? With stats predicting t...

What if the reason your relationships haven’t worked isn’t about who you’ve been with, but about what’s been missing? In this episode with journalist and author Liz Moody, we explore why finding someone who truly understands you is far more important than a checklist of traits. We also talk about why we’re drawn to the wrong people, and how to break free from those patterns. If you’ve ever felt st...

Whether you’re getting over a fresh breakup or are still having a hard time moving on from a past one, I hope today’s episode will give you what you need to finally feel like yourself again. --- ►► Limited-time bonus: Get 90 days of free Love Life Coaching when you purchase an in-person or virtual Retreat ticket before midnight Pacific time on September 30: RetreatAccess.com ►► Talk to Matthew AI...