Love Life With Matthew Hussey

It’s that time again… We’re giving appreciation to someone who deserves credit for the little things they do that make a big difference in others’ lives. In today’s episode of Love Life we’re celebrating Justin, the waiter at a fish restaurant in Seattle, for his warm and welcoming one-liner that I’ll remember forever. Try this one yourself to make anyone in your business - or your life - feel lik...

In today’s episode of LOVE Life I take a great call from a listener named Sarah who wants to know if certain types of men are attracted to introverted women, or if being introverted is something that she needs to overcome. I turn this question on its head and challenge Sarah: Is she really JUST an introvert? Or might there be more to her than just that label? If you consider yourself shy or not a...

Uh-oh. Here it comes. You’ve been dating a man for a while now and everything is going great until you mention a guy “friend” of yours. Suddenly, he’s obsessing about this “friend” and wants to know exactly how “friendly” you’ve been in the past. Before he hooks you into this conversation trap, listen to today’s episode of LOVE Life for my 3 tips on exactly what to say to diffuse his jealousy, eas...

I have a challenge for you today… It’s something that you think about doing almost daily, yet you probably never make the time to do it. It’s something that would make another person in your life very happy, and yet would make you even happier. It won’t cost you a cent, and will only take a few moments out of your day. You’ll feel better afterwards than before you did it. Are you up for the challe...

When you’re having sex with someone, one of the least sexy things to talk about is STDs. But it could be the most important conversation you’ll ever have in a relationship. So when is the best time to bring it up? And what should you say to make sure you’re comfortable enough to trust your partner? In today’s episode, I help our caller, Jasmine, navigate this tricky situation and give her a script...

Do you cram for dates like you used to cram for exams? Pulling all-nighters beforehand, stressing about where to go, what to do, and what to say? Well no wonder you’re overwhelmed! Today I’m going to get you to stop this counterproductive behavior and give you 5 tips you can use now to bring real (not superficial) change that will make sure you ace any date. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy...

If you think that people with charisma are just “born with it”… If you think people who influence others or tell captivating stories are spontaneous and it just “comes naturally” to them, then you are going to want to listen to today’s episode of LOVE Life. Not only am I going to dispel this myth once and for all based on my own experience, I am going to give you a set of free, downloadable tools...

When you think of “heroes,” what comes to mind? Superman leaping tall buildings in a single bound? Well, it’s not always feats of strength that make someone a hero. In fact, there are everyday superstars all around us if we only take the time to notice. That’s why I’ve created a segment I’m calling “Boring Heroes,” and in example #1, I’m sharing with you the 4 words a pool boy – yes, a pool boy at...

Is there anything worse than going to dinner on a first date and realizing that you’re not a match before your appetizer even hits the table? Now you have to sit through another two courses, make excruciating small talk, AND do the “I’ve got this,” “No, really, I’ve got it” dance around the check before you can make your escape. Do yourself a favor and listen to today’s episode, because I’m going...

You know you’re awesome, and any man would be lucky to date you. But how do you get that across in a paragraph (without the use of the dreaded humble-brag)? Well you’re in luck, because today I’m going to break down, line-by-line, what I consider to be THE most perfect online dating profile I’ve ever seen. In subtle, witty, playful ways, this woman communicates who she is, what she has to offer, a...

Let’s face it: Some conversations are way more difficult than others. But sometimes we have to be grownups and face these tricky conversations head-on. Today, I’m giving you my 3 simple tips to quit your job gracefully, so you say the things that need to be said (and not the ones that cause hard feelings). Both you and your superior will feel good about the experience, and you’ll walk away knowing...

What’s the big deal about a little gossip? Well we all know that talking trash about someone else can hurt their feelings if (when!) they find out, but you may not realize just how much this behavior is hurting YOU in the process. I uncover the ugly truth about gossiping in today’s episode of LOVE Life, and explain why the real recipe to building yourself up is not tearing others down. Hosted on A...

First dates are awkward… but meeting a blind date for the first time ever can be positively terrifying! Before you freak out, listen to today’s episode, because I’m going to hand you 6 adorably unique lines you can use to ease the pressure, have some fun, and – if you’re into him – lay the groundwork for a great second date. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

As a strong woman, you may think, “I don’t want to make myself vulnerable in love. It will make me seem weak.”  But is that really true? In today’s LOVE Life, I explain the difference between vulnerability and weakness, and show you why being open to getting hurt is actually the most courageous thing you can do. If you want true love, let down your guard and listen to this episode… Hosted on Acast...

You’re dating a fantastic new guy and things are going great. It’s time to take the next step and introduce him to your crew. There’s just ONE problem: Your super-hot friend. What if your guy meets her and thinks, “Wow – she’s gorgeous. I picked the wrong one?” In today’s episode of LOVE Life I’m going to break down two important things to consider in this tricky situation, and the #1 way you can...

Arguments in relationships are unavoidable. But if the guy you’re dating is more interested in winning them than solving the underlying problem together, chances are good he’s a toxic person. In this episode of LOVE Life, I’m laying out 5 distinct signs that the man you’re dating is toxic, so you can identify the behaviors and get out now before you get in too deep. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/...

I actually hate today’s topic, if I’m being honest. But sadly, it happens far too often: Married men (or men with girlfriends) take women on dates and masquerade as single. Let’s not let them get away with it, ladies! Today I’m revealing 3 subtle clues that give away your date’s secret status so you can kick his sorry cheating butt to the curb. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more infor...

There’s really no such thing as a “good” breakup, but that doesn’t mean there aren’t ways to make it a little smoother and less painful for both of you. I’m going to give you my 3 Do’s and 3 Don’ts to help you make your case, prevent an argument, and keep you from losing your nerve and going back to a relationship that isn’t right for you. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more informatio...

Waiters make their tips based on good service. But regardless of what we do for a living, we all serve others in one way or another. So the question becomes: When presented with a complication, do you use it as license to complain, or an opportunity to show your value to others? In other words, do you “earn your tip?” The right approach can create incredible opportunities, and we’ll explore how to...

For any woman, it’s extremely tricky to answer a guy’s question, “So…how many men have you slept with?” But what if you’re a virgin? How do you tell a guy you like without making it weird or freaking him out? I get asked this question a lot, and today I’m going to tell you just what to say, how to say it, and – most importantly – how to respond to his reaction. Oh, and by the way, we’re also going...

What happens when you hurt your man and he loses trust in you? Can you ever what you had together? My answer is yes, but it can’t happen overnight. In today’s episode, I share my 3-step process to help you hit “reset” on your relationship and prove that you’re worthy of his forgiveness and, once again, his trust.  Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

How should you communicate with a guy you like in between dates? If you think texting is the only answer, then this episode is for you. I’m going to reveal a surprisingly simple – yet incredibly sexy – way to keep in touch that builds way more connection than sending emojis. Do this and he’ll be dying to take you out again! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

There are a lot of ways men show affection through chivalry – holding doors and bringing you flowers are a couple of the classics. But what are some gestures women can do to show love in return? That’s what our caller, Angela, wants to know today. Listen in as I give 5 simple yet surprising ways to show your guy you care, and how to strike the right balance so you keep it authentic and don’t go ov...

You may relate to today’s caller, Diana. She doesn’t have much trouble dating, but then she can’t seem to get past the first few months where she officially becomes the “girlfriend.”  I reveal the ONE thing that keeps relationships moving forward (hint: it ISN’T love), and two quick tips anyone can use to keep men coming back for more.  Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this week’s episode of LOVE Life I’m sharing a quick tip that ensures you’ll stay top-of-mind when you meet someone new. It’s an old-school networking tool, but even in today’s mobile world, it still works… Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.