Love Life With Matthew Hussey

Matt talks about what gets someone hooked in the first few dates, the 3 texts that get a guy to pursue you, and how to handle the day after you sleep with someone . . . Join us on our virtual retreat on March 18th-20th! Go to MHVirtualRetreat.com and spend a magical 3 days with us transforming your confidence and relationships . . . --- ►► FREE download: “9 Texts No Man Can Resist”: 9texts.com ►►...

You may have told yourself 100 times you’re ready to finally meet someone. Maybe you even read a few dating tips and decided to go try them out. But then, you see that cute guy you like at work, in your social circle, or at a party. You want to flirt. You want to get him to notice you. Then at the crucial moment, you shrink. “H--hey”, you say, trying to play it cool. You make small talk. Chit-chat...

What does it really mean to be high-value? Matt and Steve talk about the top 5 traits that make you attractive for a relationship to *anyone*.Instead of focusing on short-term attention, focus on these in the long-term and you won't find yourself playing games to keep someone interested.  --- ►► Join us on our virtual retreat on March 18th-20th! Go to MHVirtualRetreat.com and spend a magical 3 day...

Does "The One" exist? Maybe there's someone you can't imagine your life without. Or maybe you have someone who seems SO amazing but you have a couple of doubts. There may not be one quick formula for knowing if someone is right for a long-lasting relationship, but here are four questions that you should definitely ask yourself before you dive in deeper . . . --- ►► Join us on our virtual retreat o...

It's recently been shown that young people are having less sex than previous generations. This got us thinking: Is Casual Sex Losing Its Appeal? Matt and Stephen sit down to talk: How men and women think about casual sex in 2022. What needs are met by casual sex (and what can cause it to become destructive). How the desire for casual sex can conflict with a desire for real connection. --- ►► Book...

Matt and Stephen talk about an email from a listener who feels like he dates women who self-sabotage the relationship with their insecurity. We discuss what really kills attraction, who is at fault when someone gets insecure, and what it means to feel safe to bring up your fears and vulnerability in a relationship. Also, someone changed Jameson's Netflix username to "Lord Fart" . . . --- ►► Book y...

What makes a guy hooked on you from Day 1? In this episode, Matt shows you how to communicate in a way that makes him feel special, brings out the most attractive sides of your personality, and show your attraction from a place of confidence. These tools will help you remain high value in his eyes and if done right will even make you irreplaceable. --- ►► Join us on our virtual retreat on March 18...

"When I decide I really like someone, they suddenly lose interest?" Has this ever happened to you? Join Matt and Stephen as they explain the psychology behind someone backing off after you reveal your feelings and what types of people typically show this behaviour. --- Book your spot on our virtual retreat on March 18th-20th! Go to MHVirtualRetreat.com and spend a magical 3 days with us transformi...

It's all too common in modern dating to label someone a "narcissist". But what are the actual signs you're dating a narcissist vs. just dating a flawed person? What behaviours should you look for in the early dating stage?  Join Matt and Stephen as they discuss all things narcissism and how to heal after a relationship with someone who damages your self-esteem... --- Join us on our virtual retreat...

A recent article asked: "Is Your Partner The Most Annoying Person In The World?" Matt and Steve look at this question and discuss: - Top most annoying habits in relationships - The mindset shift that increases our love with our partner - What really destroys relationships ---  Join us on our virtual retreat on March 18th-20th! Go to MHVirtualRetreat.com and spend a magical 3 days with us transform...

Matt and Steve discuss the why people love bomb, cat dating apps, and whether you should date someone based on ONE big common interest... --- Join us on our virtual retreat on March 18th-20th! Go to MHVirtualRetreat.com and spend a magical 3 days with us transforming your confidence and relationships... --- Follow Matt  @thematthewhussey Follow Stephen  @stephenhhussey Hosted on Acast. See acast.c...

It's RED FLAG season! The dating world is crazy for red flags, so we decided to sit down and talk through some of the internet's favourite red flag memes and see which ones we agree vs. disagree with! Also, we talk about our biggest AMBER FLAGS - behaviours that make you cautious even if they aren't deal-breakers... --- Join us on our virtual retreat on March 18th-20th! Go to MHVirtualRetreat.com ...

Matt and Steve talk about: - Breakups and how long it takes to move on - Getting over heartbreak: men vs. women  - The Metaverse and what it means for dating: will it make it easier to meet "The One" or kill physical intimacy? --- Join us on our virtual retreat on March 18th-20th! Go to MHVirtualRetreat.com and spend a magical 3 days with us transforming your confidence and relationships... (EARLY...

Your old pals Matt and Stephen talk about: - Whether you should have regrets - What kind of mistakes we regret the most - Getting over your screw ups - Online vs. Real life (and which causes more divorce!) --- Join us on our virtual retreat on March 18th-20th! Go to MHVirtualRetreat.com and spend a magical 3 days with us transforming your confidence and relationships... (EARLY BIRD SPECIAL OFFER -...

Matt and Stephen sit down to talk about: - Why comparing yourself to your partner's ex's is such a losing game - How to escape the trap of comparison - The value vs. the danger of talking about your insecurities (and why many men struggle with this) - How to be attractive without needing to be perfect -- Join us on our virtual retreat on March 18th-20th! Go to MHVirtualRetreat.com and spend a magi...

Matt and Stephen get into the topic of LOYALTY in a relationship. We discuss: Is it okay for a guy you’re dating to like a models photo? Is it okay for a guy you’re dating to like an Ex’s Photo?  What counts as micro-cheating? Do you have to be over someone before you can date? The importance of loyalty The difference between values and standards --- Follow Matt  @thematthewhussey Follow Stephen ...

Matt and Steve sit down to talk about why so many men are now accused of being "simps". We discuss: - What ACTUALLY makes a guy a "simp" - How we should feel about men who do it - What causes unhealthy fandom and hero worship --- Follow Matt  @thematthewhussey Follow Stephen  @stephenhhussey --- Email us your thoughts at podcast@matthewhussey.com --- Don’t waste time & energy. Find love Faster...

Matt and Steve talk about how ghosting happens, and why we all can not only be victims of it, but also unknowing perpetrators... *SPOILER alert for The Sixth Sense (I mean, it's over 20 years old, but ya know...here's your warning).  --- Follow Matt  @thematthewhussey Follow Stephen  @stephenhhussey --- Email us your thoughts at podcast@matthewhussey.com --- Don’t waste time & energy. Find lov...

Matt and Steve sit down to talk: Where trauma and bad beliefs come from The effect of trauma on romantic relationships Getting over pain and changing emotional associations Boomer, Gen Z, Millenials + the failure of empathy --- Follow Matt  @thematthewhussey Follow Stephen  @stephenhhussey Email us your thoughts at podcast@matthewhussey.com --- Don’t waste time & energy. Find love Faster: Down...

It's one thing to leave the wrong person, but some people worry: "What if he becomes the RIGHT person for someone else? What if he changes and fixes his flaws and I missed out on the "better" version of him? Matt and Steve talk about where this fear comes from and why it can be so dangerous to live worrying about someone's future potential. --- Follow Matt  @thematthewhussey Follow Stephen  @steph...

Some recent research claimed that over 50% of people in committed partnerships have a "backburner relationship". In this episode Matt and Steve talk about: - What defines a backburner relationship? - Why in 2021 has this grown in modern dating culture? - What is the cost of having a backburner relationship? --- Follow Matt  @thematthewhussey Follow Stephen  @stephenhhussey --- Email us your though...

Ever found yourself slipping into the therapist role with a guy when what you really want is to create deep attraction with him? Instead of being in a fun, flirtatious situation with someone who’s trying to get to know more about you, you find yourself sitting patiently while someone unloads all of their problems onto you. You’re not alone. But there is a way out. In this brand-new clip from a sma...

Matt and Steve talk about the art of flirting and the REAL difference between chemistry and connection... --- Follow Matt  @thematthewhussey Follow Stephen  @stephenhhussey --- If you haven't locked in your place for the next Virtual Retreat this September 24-26, then now is the time.   Claiming your place this month will enter you into an exclusive drawing for the chance to receive one of three f...

Matt did a big, scary, difficult challenge. It was humbling. It was brutal. And it taught him a lot about friendship, confidence and doing things that scare you... --- Follow Matt  @thematthewhussey Follow Stephen  @stephenhhussey --- If you haven't locked in your place for the next Virtual Retreat this September 24-26, then now is the time.   Claiming your place this month will enter you into an...

Get on the first to know list for Impact & secure your spot on my Art of Speaking Masterclass → http://www. GetImpactFirst.com --- I’m about to share a recent public moment that bothered me . . .    While watching a video clip from my recent appearance on the Pretty Intense podcast with Danica Patrick—an experience I thoroughly enjoyed—I couldn’t help but notice something: I kept saying a part...