Love Life With Matthew Hussey

I recently received this comment from one of my Love Life Club members, and I’m curious if you can relate:“I’m starting to feel really uncomfortable with the fact that I’m still single. I can’t help but wonder what’s wrong with me that I haven’t found something lasting yet . . .”This mindset is dangerous. Why? Because our anxiety about being single can lead us to make some really poor and damaging...

We’ve all done it. We start to like someone and suddenly we’ve built a whole narrative around what our future could look like with them. They feel like a rare antidote we’ve stumbled across that will take us out of being single and into the relationship we so badly want. The issue is, in the process of doing this, we rob ourselves of the ability to enjoy the experience—too stuck in our heads to be...

It's normal for us to date someone with a different attachment style from our own. But how do we know if someone is compatible with us longterm? And are there certain behaviours that tell us the relationship is ultimately doomed? In this episode, Matt, Stephen and Audrey discuss attachment styles, how we can communicate with someone who shows a behaviour that makes us unsure about them, and if you...

When it comes to dating, does the fear of rejection stop you from being yourself? Whether it’s approaching someone at a coffee shop, reaching out first on an app, or allowing yourself to “let go” whilst on a date, this fear is the very thing that will have you looking back wistfully and saying “What if?” years from now rather than saying “Why not?” in the moment. Of course, in a world where people...

If you’ve got someone in your life who’s either treated you carelessly or simply not investing, check this episode out because I’ll tell you what to do. May my voice of reason forever haunt you in your dreams. I don’t want to spend more time giving energy to these terms and phenomena that aren’t what you want in the first place, I’d rather give time to finding people who are serious in your life....

Sometimes you're dating someone who gives you mixed signals. You feel you have amazing chemistry and he pays you lots of attention in person, but in between your dates it's like he's disappeared. Matt, Stephen and Audrey talk about what this could mean and how you can respond when there's a mismatch so you don't get stuck in limbo. --- ►► Join our next Virtual Retreat! Claim Your Limited Time Earl...

Today's episode will help you cut through all of the anxiety, uncertainty, and stress. I go deep on three very specific questions you can ask yourself to determine whether staying or leaving is the right decision for you. I also break down a new model that will help you identify what to watch out for and the dangerous cocktail of certain traits we must avoid in someone . . . these are the traits t...

Tired of being trapped in limbo when someone doesn't know what they really want? It's easy for people to not want to commit while STILL craving the comfort of keeping you around. If you're stuck in this trap, listen to this NOW . . . --- ►► Join our next Virtual Retreat! Claim Your Limited Time Early Bird Discount ($200 OFF the usual price!) for The Virtual Retreat at MHVirtualRetreat.com . Offer...

You may have been dating a guy that seemed promising, until he said that ONE thing, or you saw ONE behaviour, and it totally turned you off. Or you've been together for 6 months, and your attraction has now turned to repulsion. This is "the ick", and in this episode, Matt, Stephen, and Audrey sit down to look at how this strange phenomenon occurs and what it says about attraction. --- ►► Join our...

In this episode, I talk about some of the top questions I’ve been asked on the topic of keeping someone's interest and when to sleep together—the ones that cause people to reach out to me in SOS mode—including: • When to have sex with someone you’re dating.• How to have the conversation about sex before you sleep together (and as a bonus, I even provide a sample script you can adapt).• How to hand...

If you've ever expressed your needs to someone, or tried to tell them about something they did that hurt you, and you were made to feel crazy, this video is for you. It's a horrible feeling when we are upset or anxious and we don't even know if what we are saying is reasonable or whether we are overreacting . . . That's why I'm so excited for you to see this - it's going to show you how to get you...

“Where can I meet quality men?”I’ve probably been asked this question every day for the last 15 years. Between endless swiping on apps and being in the same friendship circles, many people struggle to even meet people they feel attracted to. But is there actually an untapped magical place teeming with single guys? Should you go to a Tough Mudder to find your (slightly-dirt-stained) person? In toda...

What’s the #1 sexiest thing a woman can do on a first date? Play footsie under the table? Wear a low-cut V-neck sweater? Whisper, “Hey handsome” in his ear when he gives you a hug? Nope. While those things won’t by any means hurt your chances, what really makes a guy want you depends on how you make him feel in your company. He needs to feel intrigued. He needs to feel attractive. He needs to feel...

Do you worry about attracting the wrong people? Feel like you struggle to trust that a partner won’t betray you or turn out to be different than you predicted? In this episode, Matt talks about how you can overcome your fear of choosing the wrong person and build self-trust. --- ►► Design Your North Star With Men & Be Confident in Every Decision. Claim Your Early Bird Discount for The Virtual...

One of the biggest frustrations about red flags is that they can be filtered out by our rose-colored glasses, only allowing us to see them clearly in hindsight. But there are ways to appropriately respond to red flags in early dating (if you can spot them), and in this episode, I show you one way to “crack the code” . . .That is, of course, to always have a North Star. This week, I walk through wh...

Don't "jump the gun" and get ahead of yourself just because you meet someone you like. If you fall hard for people too early, this message from Matt is for you . . . --- ►► FREE guide to download: “3 Secrets To Love”: 3SecretsToLove.com ►► Join our Love Life Club and become a VIP member where you'll get access to live coaching sessions and our community of thousands of amazing women. Go to ASKMH.c...

Want to know what he's really thinking on a first date? What do men worry about when looking for love? Matt and Stephen asked thousands of men in our audience about their BIGGEST insecurities and the answers were pretty amazing. If you want a real eye-opening window into male fears and his psychology in dating, you're going to love this.  ---  ►► Join our Love Life Club and become a VIP member whe...

So, this wasn't the episode we planned to release this week. But an online conversation turned into something so unexpected that we scrapped the original plan and recorded something new, because I couldn't wait to talk about it. I asked men about their specific insecurities when it comes to early dating. And what we got back was more vulnerable and real than anyone expected. Not only that, but the...

Ever felt let down from someone who promised to call but never did? Listen to this clip of Matt live coaching on how to move on when you feel disappointed from ghosting and build your confidence back today. --- ►► Email us! You can get in touch with the show and give your feedback at podcast@matthewhussey.com ►► Join our Love Life Club and become a VIP member where you'll get access to live coachi...

Is it too picky to want to date who shares similar qualities to you? And when should you be more open-minded about who you choose a relationship with? Join Matt and Stephen to talk about pickiness, standards, and mindsets that can make finding love harder. --- ►► Download your FREE guide: 9Texts.com   ►► Follow Matt on Insta: @thematthewhussey   ►► Follow Stephen on Insta: @stephenhhussey ►► Email...

When you’re dating in 2022, you can almost be sure that the person in front of you on that first date is dating multiple people at the same time. This omnipresent truth can make you nervous as you so desperately want to stand out from the crowd. The truth is, we all want so badly to be unforgettable on a date . . . but actually making that happen can feel tricky. In the pursuit of “making someone...

Do you ever find yourself getting attracted to people who are unavailable (emotionally or otherwise)?Treat you poorly? Or simply aren’t interested in you? Why does this happen? Why do we conveniently keep getting attracted to the least convenient people? It can be deeply frustrating, especially when there might be someone who does like us but who we just don’t want. In this video, I explain two fu...

It’s very common that we hear from women who say “men are intimidated by me!”But what causes this? Is it male insecurity? Do men instinctively get turned off by a woman’s success, income, or assertiveness? In this episode, Matt and Stephen sit down to talk about how this happens, what it means for our dating lives, and the dating dynamics between men and women. --- ►► Email us! You can get in touc...

Do you get nervous that you’re not good enough? Feel a deep inner worry that you’re a “fraud” waiting to get found out? This is called “Imposter Syndrome”, and it’s a common trap that can make us live with SO much unnecessary anxiety and it holds us back from opportunities. In this clip, Matt explains how to defeat imposter syndrome with a simple mindset reframe. --- ►► Let's Create Magic in Your...

When it comes to sex, some of us have very specific ideas about what it should be like in a relationship. There’s the “sexual destiny” mindset, which says that sex should be amazing from the start and is entirely about natural chemistry. Then there’s the “sexual growth” mindset, which says that sex can improve over time and couples can work out sexual differences. In this episode, Matt and Stephen...