Love, Laughs, and Lessons

In today's episode: Celebrity matchmaker Alessandra Conti, co-founder of  Matchmakers in the City , joins Dr. Frankie and Denise Rai for an unfiltered, heart-centered conversation on dating in the modern world. They unpack the emotional toll of dating app burnout, the rise of intentional dating, and why setting boundaries isn't just helpful—it’s essential. Alessandra shares insights from 1...

In today's episode: Dr. Frankie and Denise Rai sit down with relationship coach  Roy Biancalana , who shares how heartbreak led him down a path of deep introspection and transformation. Roy opens up about his own mistakes in love—and how self-awareness became the key to breaking painful patterns and attracting authentic, lasting connection. Together, they explore what it really means to “get i...

In today's episode:Dr. Frankie and Denise Rai sit down with Nina Jarnum, author of  Fuck Kissing Frogs , to explore the intersections of online dating, psychedelics, and sexuality. Nina shares her personal journey of self-discovery, revealing how psilocybin has transformed her sexual experiences, deepened her connections, and enhanced her ability to surrender in relationships. The conversation...

Description:  Are you curious about how relationships can thrive outside traditional boundaries? Dive into a candid conversation with Dr. Frankie and Denise Rai as they explore the intricate world of diverse relationship dynamics with Jamin Patel and Eri Kardos. This episode of Love, Laughs, and Lessons sheds light on polysaturation, open relationships, and the ongoing commitment to growth in pers...

Are you curious about how relationships can thrive outside traditional boundaries? Dive into a candid conversation with Dr. Frankie and Denise Rai as they explore the intricate world of diverse relationship dynamics with Jamin Patel and Eri Kardos. This episode of Love, Laughs, and Lessons sheds light on polysaturation, open relationships, and the ongoing commitment to growth in personal and share...

In today's episode: Step into the world of "Love, Laughs, and Lessons" where Annie Temple, a seasoned life coach and intimacy consultant, unveils the often-hidden emotional layers of the sex work industry. With over two decades of experience, Annie sheds light on the genuine human connections formed in her line of work, challenging common misconceptions and societal stigmas. This epi...

Description: In this episode of Love, Laughs and Lessons, Dr. Frankie and Denise Rai welcome Dr. Robin Buckley, a clinical psychologist specializing in cognitive behavioral therapy and couples coaching. The conversation explores the intricate connections between personal and professional relationships, the importance of addressing intimacy and sexual wellness, and the need for effective communicat...

Description:  Dive into the intriguing world of emotional intimacy where the challenges of self-regulation meet the mysteries of desire. Join us on "Love, Laughs & Lessons" as we explore how effectively managing our emotions can enhance relationship dynamics and fuel the flames of desire. In this episode, our special guest, Valerie Greene, shares expert insights on the delicate balan...

Description: Heartbreak is never just about losing someone—it’s about losing the version of yourself you imagined in that relationship. In this episode, heartbreak resilience coach Sarah Thornhill, known as  Sarah Webb Says , joins Dr. Frankie and Denise Rai to explore the emotional impact of breakups, attachment patterns, and how we can truly heal. With certifications in LNLP trauma release and m...

Episode description: In this episode, Dr. Frankie and Denise Rai engage in a profound conversation with Joshua Caraballo, an industrial organizational psychologist, about his journey through adversity, personal transformation, and the importance of psychology in finding one's true self. Joshua shares his experiences growing up in a Jehovah's Witness household, facing identity struggles, an...

Description:  In this episode of "Love, Laughs, and Lessons," Dr. Frankie and Denise Rai explore the deeper facets of relationships with renowned matchmaker Louie Felix. Louie, a veteran in the matchmaking industry, shares his unique perspectives on the critical roles of values and upbringing in relationship dynamics, the often-misunderstood elements of conflict resolution, and his provo...

Description:  In this episode of "Love, Laughs, and Lessons," part of the Let's Talk About Sex series, we explore the transformative journey of vulnerability and authenticity in relationships with the insightful Sally Holden, a transformational mindset coach and professional kinesiology practitioner. Sal shares her profound experiences with personal loss, divorce, and self-recovery, revealing how...

Description:  In this edition of our "Let's Talk About Sex" series, Mary Beth, an expert in transformational life coaching, addiction recovery, and the law of attraction, shares her insights on overcoming people-pleasing behaviors, the power of sobriety in dating, and the profound impact of energetic exchanges in relationships. With a rich background in guiding others through personal challenges t...

Description: Join us for a flavorful episode of "Love, Laughs, and Lessons" with Dr. Frankie and Denise Rai, featuring renowned aphrodisiac food expert Amy Reiley. In our "Let's Talk About Sex" series, Amy delves into the sensual world of aphrodisiac foods, offering insights on how certain foods can enhance sexual health and spice up your love life. From historical beliefs to the nutritional scien...

Description: In this enlightening episode of  Love, Laughs, and Lessons , we dive deep into the transformative world of hypnotherapy with our guest, Kerie Logan. Kerie, a master hypnotherapist and visionary healer, explores the potent intersection of intimacy and healing, shedding light on how hypnotherapy can unlock profound connections and rejuvenate the most private aspects of our lives. From o...

Description:  Explore a world where pleasure meets empowerment in this insightful episode of "Love, Laughs, and Lessons." Our special guest, Jenn Wodtke, an orgasm and pleasure coach, shares her pioneering Touchless Orgasm Method, a transformative approach that empowers women to access limitless pleasure independently. Jen delves into how this method not only enhances intimacy but also fosters pro...

Description: In this episode of  Love, Laughs, and Lessons , co-hosts Dr. Frankie Bashan and Denise Rai sit down with Judith Costa, an esteemed coach in self-love and spirituality, for an eye-opening discussion on love’s deeper dimensions. From overcoming self-doubt to embracing self-acceptance, Judith shares transformative insights that touch on the universal longing for connection. With her uniq...

Description: Join Dr. Frankie and Denise Rai in this insightful episode of "Love, Laughs, and Lessons" as they delve into the transformative concepts of self-alignment and personal empowerment with guest Jamie Lerner, co-author of "The Ever-Loving Essence of You." Explore the profound connection between self-knowledge and intimacy, and learn how personal alignment can reshape our experiences and r...

After an amazing first episode, Bev Mitelman returns to Love, Laughs, and Lessons to continue our exploration of emotional connections and attachment styles. Join Dr. Frankie and Denise Rai as they dive deeper with Bev, a certified attachment theory practitioner, discussing the transformative power of self-awareness in relationships. This episode unpacks the complexities of modern dating and the e...

Description: Join Dr. Frankie and Denise Rai for an enlightening episode of Love, Laughs & Lessons, featuring Bev Mitelman, founder of Securely Loved. Dive into the complexities of attachment styles and discover how early life interactions can influence our capacity for love and connection throughout adulthood. Bev shares both personal experiences and professional insights, highlighting how un...

Episode Description: Dr. Frankie and Denise Rai delve into the profound intersection of sex and trauma. They're joined by Dr. Michelle Maidenberg, who shares her extensive experience and insights on handling emotional trauma and its impact on our sex lives. Dr. Maidenberg, a therapist and author, discusses how our past traumas, whether minor or significant, shape our intimate relationships and sel...

Join us on Love, Laughs, and Lessons for an inspiring episode with Eri Kardos, whose transformative journey in love and relationships is featured in Chicken Soup for the Soul. As she prepares to take the TEDx stage in 2025, Eri shares the captivating story of building a life and love filled with passion alongside her husband. Founding Relearn Love, LLC, Eri draws on a unique blend of scientific an...

Welcome to another engaging episode of "Love, Laughs, and Lessons," where we delve into the complexities of relationships and the self, fostering a space for honest dialogue and personal growth. In this episode, hosts Dr. Frankie Bashan and Denise Rai invite April Hirschman, a multifaceted sex and relationship coach, to explore the nuances of sexual communication within relationships. April brings...

Description:  In this episode of "Love, Laughs, and Lessons," Dr. Frankie and Denise Rai delve into the emotional landscape of dating after significant life changes like losing a spouse or enduring a difficult divorce. Join us as we explore the heart of resilience and rejuvenation in love with our guest, Deb Dutcher, a Boomer dating coach and best-selling author. Deb shares insightful st...

Description:  In this engaging episode of Love, Laughs, and Lessons, Dr. Frankie and Denise welcome licensed clinical social worker and certified sex therapist, Julia Simone Fogelson, to unpack the complexities of desire in relationships. They explore the differences between spontaneous and responsive desire, highlighting how each influences intimacy and connection. The discussion addresses the so...