Love and Money Podcast

When you hire a divorce attorney, you expect them to handle the legal side of your case. But what does that actually mean? And just as importantly—what isn't your lawyer responsible for? This week, Tracy Coenen is joined by Raiford Palmer, a top Chicago family law attorney, managing shareholder of STG Divorce Law, and author of the Amazon bestselling book I Just Want This Done: How Smart Successfu...

When you're going through a divorce, choosing the right professionals—attorneys, financial experts, and coaches—can make or break your experience. But how do you know who's truly qualified to help you? This week, Tracy Coenen sits down with Liz Becker, president and founder of the National Association of Divorce Professionals (NADP) and senior trainer for the Certified Divorce Specialist (CDS) pro...

Feeling down and doubting yourself? It's time to unleash your inner superhero! Life's challenges, especially something as tough as divorce, can leave you feeling like your confidence has taken a hit. In this episode, Tracy Coenen and top confidence coach Trish Blackwell dive deep into why confidence is the ultimate superpower to help you rise above self-doubt and take control of your narrative. Tr...

Feeling a little "crazy" during your divorce? You're not alone. In this heartfelt episode, Tracy sits down with Erica Bennett—global training guru, coach, and host of The Crazy Ex-Wives Club podcast. Erica shares her inspiring journey from heartbreak to healing and gives us tools to help redefine the word "crazy" into something positive and powerful.  This episode dives deep into the emotional rol...

Are you a single mom juggling life, kids, and finances? Feeling overwhelmed by teaching your kids about money when you're barely keeping up yourself? This episode is for YOU! Tracy Coenen sits down with the dynamic Yanely Espinal to discuss financial literacy for single moms and their kids. Yanely is a Brooklyn-born ball of energy who shares her inspiring journey from a debt-ridden teacher to a fi...

In this empowering episode, Tracy Coenen is joined by Michelle Smith, a renowned wealth manager and founder of Wife2CFO, to discuss how women can take control of their financial futures during and after divorce. With 30 years of experience in personal finance, Michelle has worked with thousands of women to demystify money management and equip them with the tools to become the CFOs of their lives....

In this eye-opening episode, we dive deep into the art of budgeting with the incredible Allison Baggerly, author of Money Made Easy: How to Budget Pay Off Debt, and Save Money. A former teacher turned personal finance guru, Allison shares her inspiring journey of paying off over $111,000 in debt—on two teacher salaries—all while growing her family. Her insights have been featured in major media, a...

Are you ready to transform your relationship with money? In this episode, Tracy Coenen is joined by Shannah Game, Certified Financial Planner (CFP), Trauma of Money specialist, and host of the New York Times top-four podcast Everyone's Talkin' Money—a show with over 26 million downloads! Shannah is here to talk about her new book, Unraveling Your Relationship with Money: Discover and Ditch Your Mo...

This week, we're joined by the insightful Seth Nelson, a Tampa-based family lawyer and host of the popular podcast  How to Split a Toaster . Known for his creative solutions to tough divorce dilemmas, Seth brings his unique perspective to help you navigate the financial side of splitting up. While advice from forensic accountants and financial planners is crucial, hearing from someone in the legal...

Bankruptcy can feel overwhelming and even shameful, but it doesn't have to be. In this episode of  Find Me The Money , Tracy sits down with bankruptcy attorney Adrienne Hines to break down the stigma and show how bankruptcy can be a powerful financial tool—especially for women navigating divorce. What You'll Learn: Bankruptcy & Divorce: How these two challenging life events intersect and why under...

Divorce can be tough—emotionally, mentally, and especially financially. That's why we're thrilled to have divorce attorney Lauren Hunt on the show to share her expert advice on navigating the often overwhelming process of financial discovery. Whether you're just starting or deep in the divorce process, Lauren's tips will help you stay ahead and save money. In this episode, you'll discover: How to...

In this episode, we dive deep into the complexities of infidelity with Andrea Giles, a certified life coach who helps women reclaim their lives after betrayal. Andrea shares her personal story of infidelity and divorce, how she navigated a whirlwind of loss, and why it inspired her to help other women rebuild their lives. Andrea explores the challenging decisions that follow infidelity—whether to...

In this episode, we welcome back Jackie Pilossoph, founder of Divorced Girl Smiling, a trusted platform that connects people navigating divorce with vetted professionals and resources. Jackie shares her personal divorce story and explains how the challenges she faced led her to create a community and resource hub for others. Jackie reveals that during her divorce 17 years ago, the support systems...

What keeps us going when life gets tough? In today's episode, we're joined by the inspiring Dr. Jordan Grumet, also known as Doc G, to explore the powerful role purpose plays in navigating life's challenges, especially during times like divorce. Purpose isn't a treasure waiting to be found; it's something we create through the actions that bring us joy. Doc G breaks down the difference between "Bi...

Divorce is more than just an emotional journey, it's a financial one too. This week, we're joined by Lauren Bringle, an accredited financial counselor and Customer Experience Manager at Self Financial, to discuss how to navigate debt, protect your credit, and take control of your financial future during divorce. Lauren brings a wealth of expertise, but what makes her story stand out is her persona...

Ever wonder how billionaires handle their divorces? Spoiler: It's not all about yachts and private islands! In this episode, we're joined by the incredibly accomplished Susan Guthrie , a top family law attorney and mediator with over 32 years of experience. Susan's here to share insider tips from the world of high-net-worth divorces—and how YOU can apply these strategies to save money, reduce stre...

The creator of Advanced Adulting, Bradley Richardson, is here to talk about how to date after divorce. Dating after divorce is especially tricky if you're in midlife and haven't been in the dating world for decades. First and foremost, Bradley says it is important to find YOURSELF before you jump into a new relationship. Look at improving yourself, figure out your role in the breakdown of your mar...

Wendy Valentine helps midlife women find happiness and transform their lives. She shares her personal divorce story of going from broke, miserable, and crying on the bathroom floor to debt-free, happy, and laughing in her brand-new motorhome. The first step to finding your happiness is being willing to make a change. Wendy says that negative thoughts are damaging to our progress. A positive mindse...

Alicia Robertson of Lemonade Life is here to talk about the concept of divorcing well and empowering women through significant life changes like divorce. She knows how important it is to maintain a positive mindset and focus on healing and growth during the divorce process, but it takes work and guidance. Alicia's own personal experience with divorce inspired her to help other women navigate the j...

Veronica Cisneros, a licensed marriage and family therapist, is here to talk about high-achieving women who are trying to balance their careers and marriages. It can be challenging to manage both the professional life and the family life, and it can lead to emotional disconnection and insecurities. And even though high achievers are generally thought of as financially successful, there are money i...

Rhonda Noordyk is a divorce financial strategist who helps women with their money strategies in their divorces. She is the host of the popular podcast Disrupting Divorce: Conversations for Women. We're talking about the challenges women face in divorce and the role of a financial advocate in helping them get the best financial settlements. Many attorneys fall short in handling the complexities of...

Kimberly Cook, a family law attorney and CEO of Dovetail Conflict Resolution, is here to talk about getting a divorce attorney that fits within your budget. With the average cost of divorce legal fees between $15,000 and $30,000, it is important to know how you can find a cost-effective attorney without sacrificing quality. We talk about the need to understand billing rates and retainers, and why...

Tracy Coenen is here for a solo session about the financial challenges women face after divorce, and she provides steps to regain their financial stability. She's got a five-step action plan for "getting your money mojo back" after divorce that includes: Plan your income Make a spending plan Save for future needs and wants Save for retirement Create financial security It is important to think abou...

Karen Covy, attorney and divorce coach, joins us to talk about retirement accounts in divorce, an incredibly important topic that often gets overlooked. Her experience comes from decades as a divorce attorney, and she now works as a mediator, divorce coach, and life strategist.   The ownership of retirement accounts is not solely determined by whose name is on the account. If the retirement funds...

Alex Beattie, creator of the Divorce Planner, shares her expertise on planning and preparing for divorce. Today we're talking about the importance of separating your emotions from the business side of your divorce, and having a strategic approach to getting what you want in your divorce. Our discussion hits on hiring the right divorce attorney, prioritizing your goals in your divorce, and the bene...