Love Anarchy

Send us Fan Mail Trauma and abuse can be overlooked as normal relationship issues, but there is serious damage that can stem from being involved with a Narcissist or an Addict. In this solo episode Andrea shares what she has learned from her client's who suffer from Post Traumatic Stress Disorder caused by parents or a significant other with a Personality Disorder or an addiction. Being in a...

Send us Fan Mail Join Andrea and her guest Chris Rice in sharing his story about his challenging upbringing, tumultuous relationships and physical challenges causing him to feel like he would never be worthy of love. Chris was a High School Football Star and a person that was well respected and loved. Like many of us, we knew little about the obstacles he faced, how that impacted his ability to fe...

Send us Fan Mail To Celebrate the Valentine's Day holiday this podcast will celebrate lasting love and the art of keeping passion alive. Sally Taylor joins Andrea in telling her story of the 35 year relationship with her husband. Although Sally and John married young, lost a teenage son to suicide and have vastly different personalities they've used these challenges to bring them closer....

Send us Fan Mail Chris Marhefka joins Andrea in talking about the importance of first cultivating a partnership with yourself prior to seeking one with another. Given the lack of healthy role models in our culture, it is necessary to look beyond what we've been taught and address the resistance to looking deeply at our inner world and processing emotions. Chris shares his own experience and t...

Send us Fan Mail The term Narcissist is being thrown around a great deal these days when someone does us wrong or hurts our feelings. We as humans can make mistakes that hurt others on occasion but what differentiates human error from pathological behavior. In this solo episode, Andrea will share some behaviors that are common with a person that suffers from Narcissistic Personality Disorder or NP...

Send us Fan Mail Join Andrea and Joe Christensen in a conversation about scientific developments that have enabled us to learn more about perceptual and behavioral differences between men and women. We once thought that mental and social problems were mainly informed by childhood trauma, but genetics and neurological developments suggest that it goes much deeper into our biology. This podcast will...

Send us Fan Mail Generation Love is a series where Andrea interviews a female and male from each generation to tell their story of love, heartbreak and personal growth. Our X Gen female guest, Jessica Vyvial has a Master Degree in Anthropology, is a single mom of two teen girls and a Sr. Director of Client Services in the company in which she works. Jessica, a Colorado Native shares her story of s...

Send us Fan Mail This week on the Rebellion, guest Roy Biancalana, relationship coach, Attracting Lasing Love Podcast Host and best selling author shares secrets that are in his newest book, "Relationship Bootcamp: Hardcore Training for Life, Love & the Persuit of Intamcy." Andrea and Roy discuss using the metaphor of physical training in building relationship skills. Learn how to ge...

Send us Fan Mail In this solo episode, Andrea Atherton reflects on the state of love, relationships and dating in 2021. Our culture has created obstacles to real love even though singles meet more people than ever online. We are feeling isolated and lonely and need to address the issues with having too many choices and our failure to really connect. Are we losing the ability to show up and be vuln...

Send us Fan Mail Attachment Theory from the 1950's has been resurrected as a mainstream popular framework to help people to understand childhood trauma and its impact on intimate relationships. Join Andrea and her guest, Toni Baldi as they talk about the importance of understanding attachment styles for yourself and your partner. Toni shares her personal story of one day "knowing" t...

Send us Fan Mail What are we needing to truly heal the deep attachment wounds that so many of us have since childhood? Ignoring them is no solution and manifests behaviors that cause us to play out these wounds again and again. Our guest, Sally Horrobin and Andrea discuss how a relationship container can allow acceptance of relationship wounds to be acknowledged, nurtured and healed. While our per...

Send us Fan Mail From the British Navy at age 16 to age 30, guest Craig Barlow shares his story of coming back into "real life" and taking that opportunity to break unhealthy models of being a man. Through Craigs personal healing and now the "Leading Man" workshop he shares the key to healing and integrating all the lost parts of the embodied masculine. Andrea and Craig explore...

Send us Fan Mail Generation Love is a series where Andrea interviews a female and male from each generation to tell their story of love, heartbreak and personal growth. Our Millennial female guest, Jenna Raymond shares her birth into the induction of electronics and online presence. Although this young Echo Boomer has been influenced by social media and online connections, she shares why she choos...

Send us Fan Mail This podcast is for those who have been confused by the newer expanded concepts of gender identity and sexual orientation. Andrea and special guest, Lilly Nollet will discuss how this very important movement that allows more flexible gender expression and sexual orientation. Learn about pronouns and how to make sense of the difference between gender and sexuality. Lilly shares how...

Send us Fan Mail This is the second podcast in a series where Andrea interviews a male and female from each generation to tell their story of love, heartbreak and personal growth. Guest Doug Duncan shares his life story of growing up in a family ranching business, being the baby of the family, learning about relationships through trial and error, and this male Xer's reflection about love and...

Send us Fan Mail We are not taught to speak so others are more open to listen and hear you clearly. This often causes us to avoid conflict or speak all together. Join Andrea Atherton in this episode to find the key to unlocking one of the most important skills that is essential to a healthy relationship. Verbal communication is much more than just talking, it also includes the use of tone and nonv...

Send us Fan Mail This is the first podcast in a series where Andrea interviews a male and female from each generation to tell their story of love, heartbreak and personal growth. Guest, George Bishop shares his life story of growing up in Canada, a near death experience, diverse ethic background, and this male boomer in finding himself and love. George openly shares how he went from bad boy to a s...

Send us Fan Mail Can deep sexual intimacy have the power to heal past trauma that is held in our subconscious and in our bodies? Sacred sexuality is one river to the source of higher consciousness healing. Paul Hanrieder joins Andrea for a discussion on a modality of sacred sexuality that involves contracting, communication and community. As our need for connection continues to grow, this practice...

Send us Fan Mail We think we are good listeners but we truly hear less than half of what people say. Join your host Andrea Atherton in talking about the importance of listening and how it impacts the quality of our relationships. Understand why we don't listen, especially to the people that are closest to us. Learn powerful tools to improve your ability to be an active listener and see your r...

Send us Fan Mail We all wear masks as a way to fit in and to be accepted socially but when does it become problematic? Masks can be so illusive in protecting us from hurt and hiding parts of ourselves from shame. Andrea and Carrie talk about how masks can harm us in the way of blocking our ability to love ourselves, accept love and truly love another. Carrie shares her story of the Golden Mask tha...

Send us Fan Mail Why do we fall in love with someone's potential as a partner rather than who they really are? What motivates us to try and change our partner and focus on the negative about them? Jacqueline Angel joins Andrea to discuss this pitfall of our ego to focus on our own needs and wants rather than truly loving our significant other. Find out what it takes to flow with the good and...

Send us Fan Mail How effective are your communication skills in intimate relationships? Do you feel frustrated when trying to talk about yourself or your feelings with your significant other? Andrea discusses how to assess your communication style and offers insight into if it needs adjustment, as well as suggestions on how to create healthy communication that resolves conflict and draws you close...

Send us Fan Mail How can the magic of creative expression expand your awareness of yourself and your world? Andrea and music healer, Jimmy Addison,  explore the concept of creative flow and the sacral chakra energy as a gateway to expanding the capacity to love. A fresh look at sexuality, artistic expression and authenticity through the lens of sacred creative expression.  30-minute Consultation w...

Send us Fan Mail Men, do you feel there is something missing in your life? Are you wanting to break free of the old patterns that you feel are on repeat in your life? Listen in with Andrea and Ryan as he shares his powerful story of how he went from emptiness to living a full, authentic life. Be inspired by Ryan's courageous path of The Hero's Journey to embody the Divine Masculine energ...

Send us Fan Mail You've heard, "You must love yourself first before you can love anyone else."  What exactly is self-love and how does one acquire it? It is not an easy task that involves releasing the brainwashing that is insidious in our culture. Join Andrea and Andra as they discuss the elusive task on the journey to self love through personal experience and in their work with ot...