Little by Little

Have you been hurt by a false image of God? Many of us carry distorted views of who He is—distant, angry, disappointed. In this episode, we explore how these false images form and how they can be healed. Discover the truth of God's loving nature, how to rebuild trust with Him, and why your image of God shapes everything about your spiritual life. 🔴  THIS SERIES Little by Little | Episode #23...

We all want to understand ourselves — and the people we love. But can a personality test really tell you who you are? Or who someone else is? They can help, sure. But be careful they don’t become boxes. Real love means seeing beyond type, mood, or instinct — and asking: what’s really going on in this person’s heart? 🔴  THIS SERIES Little by Little | Episode #230 Little by Little is a weekly video...

Is it possible to love someone — and still have them feel unloved? In this episode, we explore the power of the five love languages and how miscommunication can keep us from truly connecting. Whether in marriage, friendship, or family, learning how someone receives love can transform your relationships. This isn’t manipulation — it’s intentional love, the kind Jesus calls us to. 🔴  THIS SERIES Li...

How often do we go straight from emotion to decision—and regret it? In this episode, Fr Columba explores how feelings, while real, aren’t the full truth. He shares how rushing to judgment—about others or ourselves—can cement false beliefs and break relationships. Discover how to pause, involve your intellect, and make decisions rooted in truth and freedom, not just feeling. 🔴  THIS SERIES Little...

How do you keep going when faith feels like a struggle? In this episode, Fr Columba shares a simple but life-changing shift: doing everything for the love of God. From prayer to penance, from everyday chores to major decisions, discover how love transforms even the hardest tasks. 🔴  THIS SERIES Little by Little | Episode #227 Little by Little is a weekly video series by Called to More in collabor...

Do you ever feel discouraged when others succeed—like there’s not enough goodness left for you? In this episode, Fr Columba breaks open the difference between jealousy and envy, and how envy poisons our joy, blocks gratitude, and distances us from God. Discover how to move from envy to freedom by learning to rejoice in the good, trust in God’s generosity, and receive His personal love for you. 🔴 ...

Why do we chase love that hurts us? Why is it so hard to receive real love? Many of us carry unmet childhood needs into adulthood, leaving us stuck in unhealthy patterns. In this episode, Fr Columba helps us recognise our emotional wounds, stop self-sabotaging relationships, and open ourselves to authentic love—from God, from others and for ourselves. 🔴  THIS SERIES Little by Little | Episode #22...

Why Do We Choose Unhealthy Relationships? In this vulnerable and powerful reflection, Fr. Columba explores why we’re often drawn to relationships that don’t serve us—and how our deepest wounds can shape who we’re attracted to. He challenges us to confront the lies we believe about ourselves, uncover patterns of shame and self-hate, and invite Jesus into the healing process. God has more for you—fr...

What should you do when someone really gets under your skin? What if God is using that person to change you? In this episode, Fr Columba explores how annoying people can become instruments of grace. Drawing from Scripture, the saints, and real-life experience, he unpacks how God uses friction to purify us, humble us and teach us love. 🔴  THIS SERIES Little by Little | Episode #223 Little by Littl...

Why do we avoid fasting so easily? What are we afraid might surface? In this episode, Fr Columba explores how fasting exposes the hidden parts of our hearts—not to shame us, but to bring healing. Drawing on personal experience and spiritual wisdom, he shows how hunger can reveal buried anger, self-reliance and wounds, offering us a chance to bring it all to Jesus and be transformed. 🔴  THIS SERIE...

Do you feel too busy to pray? Do you struggle to be real with God? In this episode, Fr Columba invites us to rethink our approach to prayer. Drawing wisdom from St Francis de Sales, St Paul and von Balthasar, he challenges the idea that prayer is a luxury for when we have time. 🔴  THIS SERIES Little by Little | Episode #221 Little by Little is a weekly video series by Called to More in collaborat...

Do you feel spiritually unfed at Mass? Is it really the preaching—or how you’re listening? Father Columba challenges us to approach the homily not just with open ears, but with an open heart. Drawing from Scripture and personal experience, he shares how to receive more from every sermon — no matter the priest — by expecting Jesus to speak. 🔴  THIS SERIES Little by Little | Episode #220 Little by...

What does it take to truly encounter God? In this episode, Fr Columba offers a practical guide to encountering God, drawing from the experience of pilgrimage. He shares how slowing down, being honest in prayer and walking with intention can open your heart to God’s presence. 🔴  THIS SERIES Little by Little | Episode #219 Little by Little is a weekly video series by Called to More in collaboration...

By dying on the cross, Jesus took all of Hell's rage upon Himself — and then taunts Satan with, "Is that all you've got?" The way God used Satan against himself, like a dog who bites his own tail, is a testament to God's greatness, goodness and justice. 🔴  THIS SERIES Little by Little | Episode #218 Little by Little is a weekly video series by Called to More in collaborat...

What if God’s love wasn’t enough—unless you responded to it? What if you could reject it without even realising? In this episode, Fr Columba challenges the idea that God’s love demands nothing of us. He unpacks the truth about sin, freedom, consequences and repentance—showing us how real love calls us to change. 🔴  THIS SERIES Little by Little | Episode #217 Little by Little is a weekly video ser...

What if God’s love wasn’t enough—unless you responded to it? What if you could reject it without even realising? In this episode, Fr Columba challenges the idea that God’s love demands nothing of us. He unpacks the truth about sin, freedom, consequences and repentance—showing us how real love calls us to change. 🔴  THIS SERIES Little by Little | Episode #216 Little by Little is a weekly video ser...

How do we actually live the Catholic faith with our families? What does holiness look like in daily life? In this episode, Fr. Columba shares wisdom from Kendra Tierney’s Catholic All Year Compendium, offering simple, practical, and surprisingly joyful ways to make Lent—and every season—meaningful. 🔴  THIS SERIES Little by Little | Episode #215 Little by Little is a weekly video series by Called...

What if your comfort is killing your calling? What if it’s not laziness, but sloth holding you back? Fr Columba unpacks the spiritual struggle of sloth—not mere idleness, but a resistance to God’s love and action. God invites us to wake up, live with purpose and embrace the grace to act with love and courage. 🔴  THIS SERIES Little by Little | Episode #214 Little by Little is a weekly video series...

Why do we stay stuck in sin? Why does real change feel impossible? Father Columba dives into the spiritual battle we all face, revealing that true freedom doesn’t come from trying harder but from surrendering to God. Through the wisdom of the saints, he challenges us to stop relying on our own strength and trust in God’s power.  🔴  THIS SERIES Little by Little | Episode #213 Little by Little is a...

Is taking care of yourself selfish? Or is it necessary for loving others? Fr. Columba explores the fine line between self-care and self-indulgence, challenging the idea that neglecting yourself is somehow holy. From daily habits to deeper spiritual well-being, he shares how true love for others starts with properly valuing yourself as a child of God. 🔴  THIS SERIES Little by Little | Episode #212...

Why does prayer feel dry or distant? Are we just going through the motions? Fr Columba shares his method of prayer—one that moves beyond words into deep intimacy with God. Learn how mental prayer can shift your heart, making space for real connection. Give it a try and experience the difference. 🔴  THIS SERIES Little by Little | Episode #211 Little by Little is a weekly video series by Called to...

Why do we resist doing hard things? Why does Lent challenge us so much? Father Columba unpacks the power of sacrifice, discipline and trust in God. He reveals why fasting, prayer and almsgiving aren’t just obligations but pathways to freedom. Are you ready to push past comfort and step into real transformation? 🔴  THIS SERIES Little by Little | Episode #210 Little by Little is a weekly video seri...

Why do we struggle to accept what we can’t change? Why do we waste time trying to control others? Father Columba breaks down the wisdom of the Serenity Prayer, showing how true freedom comes from surrendering to God. Learn how to let go, forgive and embrace the peace that only trust in God can bring. 🔴  THIS SERIES Little by Little | Episode #209 Little by Little is a weekly video series by Calle...

Why do we crave approval so much? Why does rejection feel unbearable? Father Columba unpacks the struggle for validation and reveals how true freedom comes from anchoring our identity in God. Let go of the fear of others’ opinions—God’s love is enough. 🔴  THIS SERIES Little by Little | Episode #208 Little by Little is a weekly video series by Called to More in collaboration with the Franciscan Fr...

Why do we stay stuck in sin? Why does real change feel impossible? Father Columba unpacks the spiritual battle we all face, revealing that freedom doesn’t come from trying harder but from surrendering to God. Through the wisdom of the saints, he challenges us to stop relying on ourselves and trust in God. 🔴  THIS SERIES Little by Little | Episode #207 Little by Little is a weekly video series by...