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Join Heather Solomon on ‘Listen Up, Younger Self’ as she explores the dynamics of modern relationships through a marriage-themed road trip metaphor. In this episode, Heather presents a marriage tune-up quiz, encouraging couples to assess their relationship's current state, whether they're cruising happily, coasting in neutral, or stuck on the side of the road. Through insightful questions and prac...

In this episode of Listen Up Younger Self, host Heather Solomon delves into the complex language of love, emphasizing why both words and actions are essential in expressing affection. Through personal anecdotes and insightful guidance, she explores how different upbringings can influence our understanding of love and why relying solely on words or actions can lead to miscommunication. The discussi...

Join Heather Solomon, the host of Listen Up Younger Self, as she shares her powerful journey of self-discovery and transformation. In this engaging episode, recorded live with AJ on the KJ Masterclass, Heather dives into the vital theme of rewriting your story. She emphasizes the importance of breaking free from old patterns and choosing happiness over being right. Heather passionately discusses o...

Welcome to Listen Up, Younger Self with Heather Solomon! In this eye-opening episode, Heather candidly explores the challenges of apologizing and taking accountability, drawing from personal experiences and years of marriage insight. She unpacks why saying 'I'm sorry' can feel so daunting and the role of ego in our reluctance to admit mistakes. Dive deep into the nuances of apology and forgiveness...

In this compelling episode of Listen Up, Younger Self, host Heather Solomon sits down with Susan Gold, a psychic empath and author, to discuss her incredible journey of resilience and transformation. Susan shares her experience of breaking free from an alleged narcissistic marriage, battling addiction and depression, and ultimately finding a fulfilling life beyond her dreams. This episode delves i...

In this episode of Listen Up, Younger Self, host Heather Solomon addresses the complexities that arise when one partner in a relationship embarks on a new personal journey without prior discussion. Whether it's pursuing fitness, cutting back on drinking, or striving towards a new goal, Heather highlights the importance of communication and inclusion to prevent feelings of judgment and abandonment....

In this episode of "Listen Up, Younger Self," Heather Solomon explores the importance of teamwork and unconditional support in marriage. She delves into how couples can navigate life's challenges together, sharing personal stories of picking up the slack for each other in times of need. From family responsibilities to personal aspirations, Heather highlights the power of being a reliable partner w...

Welcome to "Listen Up, Younger Self," where host Heather Solomon shares a heartfelt conversation with her dear friend Shannon Blas, an inspiring entrepreneur and wellness advocate. This episode delves into the roller coasters of marriage, the journey of self-discovery, and the importance of prioritizing self-care in midlife. Shannon, the author of Thriving to 50 and Beyond: A Gratitude and Goals J...

Have you ever felt like you're paying for someone else's mistakes in a relationship? Or caught yourself mistrusting your partner because of past experiences? In this episode of Listen Up Younger Self, Heather Solomon dives into the complex topic of relationship baggage, exploring why we blame our partners for past hurts and how we can break this cycle to heal. Join Heather as she candidly shares h...

Welcome to this episode of Listen Up, Younger Self, where Heather Solomon delves into the quirks that shift from adorable to irksome after marriage. Together, we explore why these changes happen, sharing laughter and insights along the way. Heather recalls her premarital counseling, reflecting on how the small annoyances of her husband's habits, like coffee slurping, magnified over time. She empha...

In this inspiring episode, Heather Solomon sits down with her dear friend Shannon Wenzel to explore a journey of grit, grace, and relentless growth. Shannon shares her incredible journey of creating a healthy marriage and nurturing home, despite having no roadmap or example to follow. Growing up without a clear picture of a loving household, Shannon decided to courageously build the life she alway...

In this episode, Heather Solomon, host of Listen Up Younger Self, delves into the unrealistic expectations set by Hollywood romances and how they impact our real-life relationships. She explores the fun yet unfair nature of comparing our partners to movie heroes and emphasizes the importance of appreciating the real, imperfect love in our lives. Join Heather as she dishes out wisdom and humor, enc...

In this episode of "Listen Up, Younger Self," host Heather Solomon delves into the impact of unresolved childhood traumas on adult relationships. Joined by transformational coach Tammy Cox, they explore how inner child work can help individuals heal from past wounds and improve their current relationships. Tammy shares her journey of overcoming a traumatic past and how it influenced her marriage a...

In this episode of "Listen Up, Younger Self," host Heather Solomon dives into the often tricky realm of toxic relationships and environments. With the holiday season upon us, Heather offers insight and strategies to maintain your peace amidst the chaos and drama that can arise. Learn how to effectively deal with toxic individuals, whether they are colleagues, family members, or casual acquaintance...

Welcome to "Listen Up, Younger Self," where host Heather Solomon dives into the chaotic world of holiday preparations. In this episode, Heather explores how women often take on the "holiday CEO" role, turning the festive season into a stress-filled struggle for perfection. She reflects on her own experiences and offers guidance for avoiding the common pitfalls of holiday expectations. Join Heather...

This week, join host Heather Solomon on "Listen Up, Younger Self" as she sits down with her dear friend, Pam Fischer-Dale, a high-performance coach with a knack for elevating lives, not just in business but in everyday living. Dive into the importance of dreaming together as a couple and why having those big conversations might just be the secret to strengthening your relationship. Pam shares her...

In this episode of "Listen Up, Younger Self," host Heather Solomon delves into the common struggle of overcommitting and seeking external validation, especially among women. Heather shares her personal journey of realizing the importance of prioritizing family and self-care over external obligations that don't truly serve her. Heather explores the societal pressures that drive us to fill our calen...

Welcome to "Listen Up Younger Self," where Heather Solomon dives into the real talk about the roller coasters of marriage and relationships. In this episode, Heather interviews her dear friend, Tory Brandt, who shares insights from nearly 28 years of a successful marriage. Together, they explore the secrets to making a marriage work, the importance of choosing happiness over being right, and the l...

Welcome to another episode of "Listen Up, Younger Self" with your host, Heather Solomon. Today, we delve into the fascinating dynamics of yin and yang relationships, where opposites not only attract but occasionally drive each other a little crazy. Discover how these differences can become the secret weapon in your relationship, bringing balance, keeping the spark alive, and transforming quirks in...

Welcome to another episode of "Listen Up, Younger Self" with your host Heather Solomon. In this episode, Heather dives into the all-too-common habit of making excuses for poor behavior, both in ourselves and others. She explores why it's crucial to stop accepting unacceptable behavior and the importance of raising our standards. Heather candidly shares her personal journey of learning to set bound...

Join host Heather Solomon in this eye-opening episode of "Listen Up, Younger Self," where she delves into the nuances of keeping relationships strong amidst the temptations of other people. With 42% of Tinder users already in relationships, the stakes are high for ensuring your partner feels cherished and prioritized. Heather shares her personal journey and practical advice on maintaining a vibran...

In this episode of "Listen Up Younger Self," host Heather Solomon dives into the common yet destructive habit of keeping score in relationships. Whether it's tallying up chores or emotional support, Heather explores the different levels of scorekeeping from light to chronic, revealing how it can silently erode the foundation of a marriage. Heather shares personal insights and practical advice on r...

Ever notice how the advice you didn't ask for always seems to come at the worst time? Welcome to this episode of Listen Up Younger Self, where host Heather Solomon explores the five types of unsolicited advice givers, sharing relatable examples and offering insights on when to speak up and when to simply listen. Learn how to navigate well-intentioned advice that often misses the mark and discover...

Welcome back to another episode of Listen Up Younger Self. This week, host Heather Solomon delves into the challenges of stubbornness in marriage and parenting. Reflecting on personal experiences, Heather explores how the need to be right can create conflict and affect relationships with spouses and children. Join Heather as she discusses the definition of stubbornness, its roots, and its impact o...

Welcome back to another episode of Listen Up Younger Self. I am your host, Heather Solomon, and today we dive into the importance of making time for each other in a relationship. Fresh from a rejuvenating trip to Maine with my husband, I want to share why these little getaways are crucial for reconnecting and keeping your relationship dynamic. In this episode, I discuss the significance of steppin...