Lifegasm

We're back with part 2 of fucked up shit people do to annoy us- everyone's favorite topic! So let's get into it... Do you hate when people talk on speaker phone in public? Bad text etiquette? Just breaking the pre-agreed societal norms that the rest of us follow without issue? Well then this is the episode for you! Is there something that grinds your gears that we didn't mention?? Let us know in t...

Former Walking Dead actor turned advocate, Vanessa Cloke, joins Elle to examine what narcissism actually is. Vanessa shares powerful insights on how the cycle perpetuates toxic behaviors and why it's crucial to stop it in its tracks. Elle and Vanessa also swap their personal experiences with narcissists and reveal the best ways to protect yourself from being targeted. Tune in now for the full epis...

Hey gang, we're back with a fun new ep!  This week Elle, Lili Lightning, Andrew, and G discuss whether or not it is possible for men and women to have purely platonic relationships.  We decided to go round table on this one because we had the advantage of having four people with four different relationship statuses to weigh in.  Plus, it's a topic everyone seems to have an opinion on.  So join in...

This week on Lifegasm Elle sits down with our favorite returning guest and expert, psychotherapist Liz Lerner!  The ladies discuss ego and how that effects our daily lives.  From day to day interactions, our opinions on ourselves and others, and when it can become unhealthy!  It's our first episode in the post JP era, so you do not want to miss it! Full video available on Youtube!

We're back with another hot episode and a surprise update! This week Elle and JP discuss whether or not chivalry still exists in our society. As the times change lines seem to become more and more blurred as far as what is considered polite versus sexist or misogynist. It's all very confusing but luckily your hosts are willing to wade into these deep and murky waters. Be sure to listen all the way...

Everything that we see, watch, and do has a sexual ineundo of some kind...and why is that?  Because it sells!  So this week Elle and JP discuss the many different avenues sex takes into media, advertising, and our day to day lives.  The hosts also chat about how this has impacted our lives and how this new landscape may effect kids growing up in these wild times.  Listen in and be sure to let us k...

This week on Lifegasm Elle and JP are joined by very special guests Joey and Magda from season 7 of the hit TLC show "90 Day Fiance: Before The 90 Days"!!  We are so excited to bring you this super fun episode where our guests give Elle and JP a behind the scenes look at all things 90 day!  From what the tell all was like, to how they did or did not get along with other couples on the show, and ma...

Hey gang, this week Elle and JP dive into the always intriguing topic of...CHEATING.  Both hosts share their stories of affairs, deceit, gas lighting, and all things slimy.  Most of us have been in a situation where we've either cheated, or been cheated on...but JP has a story to top all other infidelity stories.  So strap in and join us on this wild ride of deceit and intrigue.   Full video episo...

On this week's episode we have our favorite returning guest- psychotherapist Liz Lerner! Elle, JP, and Liz discuss how pornography effects the minds of young people, its weight on relationships, and the controversy around the new identity verification orders in Florida and a few other states! It's a packed show so make sure to tune in and watch the full video version on Youtube!

Hey gang! Happy 2025! We're starting off the new year by discussing the timely topic of change. Big, dramatic resolutions are easy to break, so how about making a few changes that could lead to a larger impact? Elle and JP discuss confidence, the power of lists, addressing anxiety, and a whole gamut of other odds and ends that could lead to a happier and healthier 2025. We're so excited to be back...

Hey gang! As we wrap up the holiday season we thought it would be fun to take the time machine back to 2023. We're bringing you back to the early days of the podcast, in our old studio, when we were first hitting our stride! We hope you enjoy this blast from the past as much as you've enjoyed this holiday break! Full episodes available on Youtube!

Happy holidays everybody!  This week we're talking all things holiday related, the good, the bad, and the stressful.  We cover all your favorite holiday topics such as; overcrowded malls, the pressure of getting the "right gift", and of course- dealing with family.  It's a jam packed Christmas extravaganza, so listen in and let us know your favorite (or least favorite) parts of the holiday season!...

Hey gang, we're trying something new this week and going back to our old format!   Elle and JP are discussing perception, and how that shapes our world view.   It's something that seems glaringly obvious, but is seldom considered in the moment.   What forms our perceptions?   Is it important to consider all possible angles when taking in information?   Give it a listen and let us know what you thi...

This week we have a very exciting episode with a very special guest!   Psychotherapist Liz Lerner joins Elle and JP to answer their questions about toxic behavior.   They discuss how to spot it, treat it, and ways to get back to being the best version of yourself after (hopefully) exiting a toxic relationship.   A few topics, a few tangents, all and all a fun episode.   Give it a listen and if you...

Alright everybody, we have an interesting topic this week that you may have seen in your feed(s) recently- withholding sex out of spite.   While the idea that two grown adults in an intimate relationship could not simply discuss their differences and move on in a healthy way seems insane, we invite you to take the ride with us.   Elle and JP give their thoughts on how this effects both partners, w...

Holy. Smokes. Gang. What a fun episode we have today!   So, we laid the groundwork last week in preparation for this episode.   Today we have two experienced swingers giving Elle and JP the scoop on what the lifestyle is really like.   They cover anything and everything you might want to know about swinging, from the parties to the lingo, even about the vetting process that some couples might have...

Alright, we got a fun one this week!   This is part one to what may become a small series of episodes on a super fun topic- swingers!   We've all heard about swinging…the parties, the clubs, and the stigma that comes along with it.   So, this week Elle and JP are going to dive into it headfirst and provide us with a foundation of knowledge, so in part two we will all be on the same page as our gue...

It's election day.   In these wildly uncertain times, your hosts will try to bring some levity and light into your life.     We all know it's hard to talk about politics these days, as party affiliation has become such a big part of so many peoples' personalities, it seems.   So, let's discuss if and how that has affected relationships with significant others, family, and friends.   Whatever happe...

Great expectations and we aren't talking about Charles Dickens.   We all have expectations, and the key to becoming a well-adjusted adult is learning how to manage them, but that's way easier said than done.   This week Elle and JP discuss their own hangups with expectations.   Ranging from a hypothetical vacation scenario to a very real and heartwarming example of how becoming a parent was a grea...

Coming off an interesting conversation with a friend, Elle presents us with a topic we've probably all considered at least once…does our partner satisfy us?   There's a lot to unpack here as both hosts share their own personal experiences and try to prove or dispel some of the generalizations we see amongst men and women nowadays when it comes to partner satisfaction.   We're going all over the ro...

This week Elle and JP are discussing the growing trend of situationships and what sets them apart from the more traditional relationship archetypes.   What makes a situationship different from a friend with benefits?   Are either of those any different from a regular relationship that just doesn't have the legs to go the distance?   Your hosts will tackle that and more in our usual format- Elle pr...

This week, Elle and JP dive into a topic we've all considered: the state of today's youth. The contrast in upbringing between Gen Xers and Gen Z is stark, and as a millennial writing this description, I'm just glad we're no longer in the hotseat. Join them as they address their grievances, reminisce on their own childhoods, and speculate wildly on where the next generation is headed.  Full Video o...

Are you addicted to scrolling? Has society lost the human connection?   This week, Elle and JP will explore the pros and cons of this aspect of life to which we've all grown so accustomed.   Our phones have undoubtedly made our lives easier, but we should still be able to have a conversation over dinner, right?   Let us know what you think in the comments! Also- we're excited to announce that full...

Do you find that you have a lot in common with the people you date? Maybe not just hobbies, but views and personality traits as well? JP has a theory that "we attract who we are" and, this may surprise you, but Elle might not necessarily agree. It's a fun one, so give it a listen and just us know what you think! 

What is the definition of love addiction? Elle & JP give their opinions and personal experiences with love addiction and discuss the hows and whys of the complexity of love addicts! Do you agree?