Life Happens

“Hoe phase“ is a term used to described sexual liberation in the dating scene, which is usually all about having fun with zero permanent ties. Often times women are described as having a “hoe phase“ as if it's a season that we snap in and out of, unlike men, whose “hoe phase“ is filled with culturally accepted behavior for their gender. Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/...

Last week we discussed Potential vs Reality in dating or in picking a partner. This week we will focus on the reality. The reality is the present moment. The difference is your mindset at that moment. Please join Deborah Drake, Felicia Love Washington, and Brian Jones as we continue the discussion. Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/life-happens--5203513/support .

Are you falling for someone's potential or reality? Dating potential generally means you fall in love with the person they could be, not who they are. You fall in love with the self-development and success you see in the horizon for them — thing that should come true as soon as they realize their full potential. Can you be in love with someone's potential? Become a supporter of this podcast: https...

What is an open marriage? It is a form of non-monogamy in which the partners agree that each may engage in extramarital sexual relationships without this being regarded as infidelity. Are they emotionally healthy? Are there rules? And what's the point?? 92% of open marriages end in divorce and yet, it is becoming more common. There are many celebrities that practice open marriages and it has been...

Is there a difference between discipline and punishment? Are they one and the same? The Bible says in Proverbs 13:24, "Whoever spares the rod hates their children, but the one who loves their children is careful to discipline them". Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/life-happens--5203513/support .

Love bombing is an attempt to influence a person by demonstrations of attention and affection. Psychologists have identified love bombing as a possible part of a cycle of abuse and have warned against it. Most often love bombing is done by a narcissist. Please join Felicia Love Washington, Deborah Drake and I as we delve deeper into this topic. Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.sprea...

Great relationships don't just drop into people's laps. Relationships take work, but they also can be fun and easy too. Although, there is a beautiful rhythm you feel when you meet your match, there is also heavy lifting. Great relationships are curated; carefully chosen and thoughtfully orchestrated. Please join Kim Drake, Felicia Love Washington and I as we discuss the topic of divorce. Become a...

Emotional intelligence is imperative in relationships. What is emotional maturity? How can one develop emotional intelligence/maturity? How does emotional intelligence/maturity enhance relationship experience? Please join Felicia Love Washington and Deborah Drake as we delve into this topic. Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/life-happens--5203513/support .

Our relationships are the gateway to our greatest growth. Thriving relationships are created by mutual commitment. Each person is committed to growing in their OWN capacity to love. Please join Felicia Love Washington, Deborah Drake and I as we discuss compromise in relationships. Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/life-happens--5203513/support .

Mixed signals in relationships are when a person is expressing interest while simultaneously expressing lack of interest. This creates internal wars. How do we handle this? Do mixed signals mean no? What happens when one is married and is receiving mix signals from their spouse? Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/life-happens--5203513/support .

Polygamy is a type of relationship that typically involves a person marrying more than one partner. When a woman marries more than one man, it's called polyandry. Polygamy is the opposite of monogamy, where one person marries one spouse. Polygamy is getting common in the US. In countries like the Middle East, Asia and West Africa, this is common practice. Please join Kim Drake, Felicia Love Washin...

Committing means growing up. Some men do not want to grow up or delay the process of growing up. Are these men immature? Are titles important? If so, why? Please join Kim Drake, Brian Jones and Felicia Love Washington as we discuss this topic: Why won't he commit?? Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/life-happens--5203513/support .

"Why are men taught how to treat women, but women aren't taught how to treat men?" Is this a true statement? Let's discuss. Please join Kim Drake, Felicia Love Washington and I as we discuss. Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/life-happens--5203513/support .

Why is dating so hard? And why does consistency seem like a chore? Data shows that nearly half of Americans think that dating is harder now than 10 years ago. Vulnerability is hard. The fear of rejection lurks in the minds and hearts of people, and this makes dating even more sensitive. Please join Kim Drake, Felicia Love Washington and I as we discuss the rollercoaster events of dating. Become a...

"We always long for the forbidden things, and desire what is denied us."- Francois Rabelai. Love is a theme that holds fascination for people - the excitement, danger and passion of forbidden love. Please join Felicia Love Washington and Deborah Drake as we discuss- "Tangled Webs" . Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/life-happens--5203513/support .

Sexual double standards in which men and women are judged differently for the same sexual behavior- will probably sound familiar to most people. Hypocrisy at its finest! Please join Kim Drake, Felicia Love Washington and I as we discuss this topic. Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/life-happens--5203513/support .

When IS enough, enough in a relationship? It could mean that both parties have had genuine feelings for each other at some point, but things have changed. Maybe both parties have grown apart or now have different values. When do you KNOW that enough is enough in a relationship? Special guests Felicia Love Washington, Brian Jones, and King Dawk. Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.sprea...

There comes a point in our lives when we are IN so deep that we cannot see just how TOXIC AND DAMAGING our romantic relationships are. No matter how much we love someone, its so important to draw the line between a healthy relationship and an unhealthy co-dependency. How do you know when to leave a relationship? Please join Kim Drake, Felicia Love Washington and I as we discuss this topic. Become...

Is cheating objective or subjective? MYTH: cheating is only physical! Cheating is subjective and everyone has their own idea of what it means to be unfaithful. While one may associate cheating with sex, your partner might define infidelity as developing an intimate bond with someone. Please join Deborah Drake and I with special guests Brian Jones and Felicia Love Washington as we discuss the topic...

They ghosted. Should I reach out? Should I confront who ghosted me? What is ghosting? And why do people ghost? People ghost to avoid uncomfortable situations. Is this the best solution? How does one get closure after being ghosted? Please join us w/ special guest John Lewis from the podcast Man Talk Mondays as we further discuss this topic. Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker....

Do men approach women anymore? Some women are taking more initiative (most aren't). It is believed that dating apps and other forms of communication play more of a factor in reducing in-person contact. Is dating dead? Please join us with Special Guest Eric Butler Sr. as we discuss this topic. Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/life-happens--5203513/support .

Why do some men not state their intentions when entering into situations? Would women welcome brutal honesty? When people say: "Just tell me the truth" Do they mean that? Can people really handle the truth? Please join Miika Baldwin of Queen 3 and King podcast and Cj Boyd of the Elev8 podcast as we discuss this topic. Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/life-happen...

What are mixed signals in a relationship? In the context of relationships, mixed signals are when a person is expressing interest in someone while also simultaneously expressing a lack of interest or a desire to keep their distance, causing confusion for the other person. What are signs of mixed signals? How do you deal with mixed signals? Please Join Deborah Drake and I with special guest Brian J...

According to new research, there may be truth to this possibility. Research suggests that we are capable of being “just friends“ with members of the opposite sex, but the opportunity (or perceived opportunity) for “romance“ is lurking just around the corner, waiting to pounce at the most inopportune moment. Please join me with guests Miika Baldwin as well as Derrick Smith and John Lewis of the pod...

What is self-awareness? "Self-awareness is the ability to focus on yourself and how your actions, thoughts, or emotions do or don't align with your internal standards.” Knowledge breeds awareness. This leads to a collection of wisdom nuggets that, when properly construed, can raise awareness. Awareness is the ability of the individual to make sense of oneself and of the world around him/her. Pleas...