Leverage with Rebecca Zung

Struck by her own 10-year-long experience with divorce, Laila was exhausted and thrown by the complexities and lack of consolidated information to help her close that chapter. She longed for a safe place to access emotional and organizational help, with professionals, resources, tools, and a warm community of those who already understand the situation. Over time, this sparked Laila to create Split...

Today's guest is Christian Gottlieb who was in the process of negotiating with his ex wife when he realized that he was a constant victim of gaslighting - that he was facing a narcissist. He completed the SLAY course as part of his preparation for legal separation and is now happily living on his own. At a time where society was not much aware about narcissism and how it has been negatively affect...

Kathryn Gordon is the bestselling author of Relationship GRIT and host of the Kathryn for Real podcast. Kathryn is a graduate of Old Dominion University and became a top producer in sales for several companies before deciding to follow her passion as an actress and model. After the birth of her children, she focused on raising them and helping operate her husband’s growing speaking and consulting...

Tracy Malone is the author of the best-selling book - DIVORCING YOUR NARCISSIST: You Can’t Make This Shit Up! She is also speaker, Educator, and International emotional resilience coach. Tracy is a surTHRIVER of abuse herself and the founder of NarcissistAbuseSupport.com. She has a popular YouTube channel and podcast that have reached millions of survivors. Grab Tracy's Book right here: DIVORCING...

Chikodi Chima is a writer and multimedia producer based in San Francisco. He has written about technology and entrepreneurship for Mashable, Gigaom, Shareable, and Venturebeat. He is the founder of MoonshotPR.com a successful PR agency owner based in San Francisco, that serves early stage technology founders.  In today's episode, he talks about the narcissists he had to deal with in his personal l...

Amberly Lago is a Peak Performance Coach, TEDx Speaker, Podcaster, and a leading expert in the field of resilience and transformation. She is the best-selling author of “True Grit and Grace” and the founder of “UNSTOPPABLE Life Mastermind.”    Through her book, coaching methods, and masterminds she has curated unique tools to teach others how to tap into their superpower of resilience and elevate...

Do you know someone with narcissistic personality disorder? If so, you're probably familiar with their favorite lines. Have you ever heard someone say these things: “What about your issues”, “You’re the only one who thinks that”? In this episode, Rebecca Zung will share with you the most common narcissist catch phrases and what they mean. She will walk you through the psychology behind each of the...

Lynsi Snyder-Ellingson, the owner of In N Out Burger has packed more than 9 lives into her one life. In this very rare interview, she will talk about her personal story of how she came to inherit the very popular restaurant chain, and how she has successfully continued to keep it going by assuming the helm at such a young age, after dealing with unbelievable personal tragedies and losses. Then she...

6 Ways to Deal with Narcissists’ False Accusations//If you're dealing with a narcissist, you know that they can be incredibly manipulative. They often make false accusations in order to control and dominate you. In this episode, Rebecca Zung, lawyer and narcissist negotiation expert, shares six ways to deal with narcissists' false accusations. Check out my FREE Live webinar, the 3 MUST HAVE Secret...

If you are going through a divorce with a narcissist, you may be feeling overwhelmed and alone. You may not know where to turn or what to do next. The good news is that there is help available. Rebecca Zung discusses the five stages of divorce and what you can do to get through them. Keep in mind that every situation is unique, so these stages may not apply to everyone. But if you are struggling,...

Narcissists are some of the most self-destructive people you can meet. They are so focused on getting what they want and feeling special that they often end up sabotaging their own lives. They routinely make poor decisions that lead to bad consequences, because they are too short-sighted to see how their actions will affect them in the long run. Rebecca Zung talks about how narcissists sabotage th...

When dealing with a narcissist, one of the key challenges is mastering their constant need for control. The narcissist requires an obedient and subservient partner, who will cater to their every whim and put their needs and desires ahead of their own. However, if you refuse to be controlled by the narcissist, you can expect them to start acting out in inappropriate and destructive ways. Rebecca Zu...

Narcissists are notoriously unreliable people. They make promises they never intend to keep, and they often fail to follow through on their commitments. But, there are some things that you can always count on a narcissist to do. For one thing, narcissists are always looking out for themselves. For today's episode, Rebecca talks about the other things that you can totally expect from a narcissist s...

Many people think of physical abuse when they think of domestic violence. While physical abuse is certainly a form of DV, it is not the only one. Emotional abuse can be just as damaging, if not more so. Emotional abusers are often narcissists who seek to control and manipulate their partners. What are the ways that narcissists can wound us emotionally? In today's episode, Rebecca lists down signs...

Whether you're dealing with a covert narcissist, a grandiose narcissist or a maligant narcissist wife, husband, boyfriend, girlfriend, business partner, family member, business partner or colleague, you always need ways to make it more manageable.  In this episode, Rebecca breaks down one of the most critical ways. What does it mean to go gray rock? And how can that help you in your every day life...

Covert narcissists are often difficult to spot because they appear humble and withdrawn. However, if you know what to look for, there are several key signs that can help you identify a covert narcissist. One of the most common indicators is a constant need for validation and approval. Covert narcissists are also often hypersensitive to criticism and will go to great lengths to avoid any perceived...

Sharon Scott and her husband were charmed into a business partnership with a narcissist by what seemed by a perfect guy. He was charismatic, had the perfect background and experience. But once they got into the partnership it all turned dark. He quickly showed his true colors.  The narcissistic true colors came out with a vengence and their lives became a living hell.  The narcissist playbook was...

Dominic Francis was a normal guy who was a very successful professional when his wife came along and swept him off his feet.  Just a few years after meeting her, he was literally homeless and living in a tent for a while and having to change his name while he was being chased by guys in the Australian mob. His wife was a malignant narcissist who took him for everything. Piece by piece he has rebui...

How to Outsmart a Narcissist//Want to know how to outsmart a narcissist boyfriend, girlfriend, wife, husband, co-worker, boss, colleague or family member? In this episode, you'll find out how to turn the tables on that narcissist by getting the key phrases to disarm the narcissist, and finding out how to ethically manipulate the manipulator so if you are an empath, you can finally outsmart that na...

Ways to Trick Narcissists//Ever have a narcissist in your life? Narcissists are tricky to deal with on their own, but there are some ways you can outsmart them and get what you want. In this episode, Rebecca Zung, lawyer and narcissist negotiation expert, offers ways for dealing with narcissists so they will do what you want, and give you what you need. THIS WEEK'S SPONSOR INFORMATION:   Soberlink...

How Narcissists Tell on Themselves All the Time (How Narcissists Confess Without Confessing)//Narcissists are all around us. They're in our families, in the workplace, and even as friends. Narcissists can be difficult to spot because they do a lot of their damage on the inside but there are clues that you can pick up if you know what to look for. Rebecca Zung, top lawyer and narcissist negotiation...

This is What Happens When You Break Up With a Narcissist// When you break up with a narcissist, there are some things you should know. In this video, I'm going to share with you what happens when you say goodbye to a narcissist. This episode explores some of the things you may go through in your head and in your life after breaking up with a narcissist.   THIS WEEK'S SPONSOR INFORMATION:   Soberli...

Narcissists often have a grandiose sense of self-importance, an intense need for admiration and a lack of empathy for others. What does this toxic personality hate most? People who don't play by their rules. In this episode, Rebecca Zung, lawyer and narcissist negotiation expert, will share 10 things you can do that will drive a narcissist crazy.   THIS WEEK'S SPONSOR INFORMATION:   Soberlink is a...

5 Ways to Manipulate a Narcissist (Keep Peace With a Narcissist)//Narcissists are masters of manipulation. And if you have one in your life, you know how difficult it can be to keep peace. But there are some tricks that they don't expect that will help you maintain a good relationship with them. Rebecca Zung, author, lawyer, and narcissist negotiation expert, shares five tips on how to manipulate...

6 Ways Narcissists Build a Case Against You//Narcissists are masters of manipulating and they use their words to get what they want. These toxic people know how to twist everything you say and know how to make you look bad. They can also do it over and over again, with a different approach each time. Rebecca Zung, narcissist negotiation expert and top lawyer, gives six examples how narcissists can...