Let's Unpack That

Lyall and Ariele unpack archetypes of manhood, talk about the difference between a “nice guy” and a “good guy”, and share stories of run-ins with players, scumbags, and losers. https://linktr.ee/LyallBehrens

Lyall unpacks why so many people have a hard time treating men like full individuals, shares a few stories, and brings Ariele on to explain why so many women don't seem to genuinely care about men. 

Esteemed guest Trevor Joyner unpacks 2000's hip-hop with Lyall. They talk best and worst of the decade, theories about what Tupac and Biggie would have been doing if they'd lived, and how the South took over.  Follow Lyall Behrens on Instagram: @lyallbehrens Follow Lyall Behrens on Twitter: @lyallbehrens Follow Trevor on instagram: @loltrev

Lyall talks about the distinction between having high standards and being rude and picky. He unpacks dating standards, restaurant service, and haircuts -- and how to hold your standards without being disrespectful. Follow Lyall Behrens on Instagram: @lyallbehrens Follow Lyall Behrens on Twitter: @lyallbehrens

On this special Valentine’s episode, we unpack how to tell your woman to step up her gift game, the perfect Valentine’s Day menu that ensures a sexy evening, Lyall’s dislike of cards, and past V-day fails. Follow Lyall Behrens on Instagram: @lyallbehrens Follow Lyall Behrens on Twitter: @lyallbehrens

Lyall unpacks when ghosting is justified, when it's wack, and how to be a man and have the hard conversations that you're trying to avoid with ghosting. Ariele joins for a brand new segment called, "She has a fat ass, but... " where we learn what lines Lyall would cross in order to to get with a girl with his favorite body part.

Lyall unpacks the choices you have to make as you approach 30: what you are willing to compromise on, who you really want to be, and what behaviors you should leave to the youngsters. He talks about classy and classless ways to move that set you up for success or failure. Follow Lyall Behrens on Instagram: @lyallbehrens Follow Lyall Behrens on Twitter: @lyallbehrens

Lyall talks about “travel” vs. “vacation”, couples trips, and how to avoid catastrophe when you travel with others. He unpacks all types of sex that may be pursued while on vacation. Follow Lyall Behrens on Instagram: @lyallbehrens Follow Lyall Behrens on Twitter: @lyallbehrens

Lyall is joined by Dirty Sports Podcast's Joe Praino to unpack cheating, Joe's issues with Tiger Woods' infidelity, and cheating pre-social media days. Lyall reveals more than he intended to but won't edit it out. Follow Lyall Behrens on Instagram: @lyallbehrens   Follow Lyall Behrens on Twitter: @lyallbehrens   Follow Joe Praino on IG - @joepraino Follow Joe Praino on Twitter: @FixYourL...

Lyall kicks off the episode with some cheating stories. Lyall unpacks why men should and shouldn't cheat, why men shouldn't go into a relationship if they haven't sampled enough, and what makes men creepy or normal. Follow Lyall on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lyallbehrens/?hl=en Follow Lyall on Twitter: https://twitter.com/LyallBehrens

Lyall unpacks G.O.A.T. criteria for the NBA, Hip-Hop and Stand Up Comedy. As well as why Eddie Murphy and Biggie Smalls are counterparts. This is a nice light barbershop episode.  Follow Lyall on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lyallbehrens/?hl=en

Lyall unpacks what's wrong with techie culture, why these people don't know how to talk to Black people, and his general disgust for gentrifiers who move to the Bay Area in order to live out their wildest fantasies. 

Lyall talks about what he does to maintain sanity during the pandemic and the importance of social media breaks. He and Ariele discuss the line between believing science and being a dirtbag.

Lyall talks about what it will take to get these white people to act like they might have consequences, unpacks what's wrong with "pat yourself on the back" woke social media culture, and may or may not call Chris Dorner an American hero.

Lyall unpacks community hoes not having a high body count, barter-system hoes, sociopathic hoes and why sex workers are exempt from being hoes. Ariele comes on to explain why men can't be hoes after Lyall gave examples of why men can be hoes.

Lyall unpacks moving in with your girlfriend, not being able to live with your partner until you see how they fight, how not to resent your significant other over rent, conflict with the thermometer in an interracial household and more. 

Lyall unpacks things he believed when he was younger and was wrong about. Hard work always wins, having sex with a lot of Women makes you feel good and money habits. Ariele joins us later in the episode to unpack being wrong about AIDS, friendship and how easy it is to be famous.  Join us for a NYE Comedy Show on Zoom: https://laughcitynye.eventbrite.com

Very "Quincy Jones"-type episode. Lyall unpacks things Comedians do that annoy him. Old Black Comedians not downloading Venmo and taking a picture with every celebrity they meet. White Comedians being fake "wOkE" and comedy culture being rooted in weirdo white guy culture. Indian Comedians talking about their parents too much and jacking Black swag on stage. Lyall is very annoyed by first generati...

As a follow up to the "Holding L's & Getting Your Swag Back" episode, Lyall unpack's protecting your energy. We unpack hater remarks disguised as jokes, zero tolerance policy with white friends, media consumption altering your mood and of course throwing some people under the bus. First time we break out the BLEEP button.  No new episode on Friday. New episode next Monday.  https://l...

Lyall is joined by Comedian Rudy Ortiz to unpack Christmas, the pandemic gift budget, buying gifts for somebody kids, holiday binge drinking, protocol in a Mexican household and more. If you're in the Bay Area listen to Rudy on KBLX with The Dream Team. FOLLOW ON INSTAGRAM: Guest: @itsrudyortiz Host: @lyallbehrens

Lyall unpacks Vlad TV, boycotts for the show, Black & Jewish relations in this country and more.

On this episode Lyall is joined by Comedian Trenton Davis to unpack losing your swag, getting cheated on, not being happy at home, the universe gifting you and more. Trenton tries to get Lyall to say he can't be monogamous for the rest of his life.   Stream his special on Amazon Prime: AtTrentonComedy Follow on Instagram:  Guest: @trentoncomedy Host: @ lyallbehrens on Instagram & Twi...

Lyall is joined by DJ Illanoise to unpack the butterfly effects of social media, hate following people, corny screenshots, sliding in DM’s, getting unfollowed by people you know, white folk doing tone policing and revisiting the impact of the viral cat calling video.  Lyall unpacks why people born in the 90s have significantly less sex than people born in the 80s. This episode was sponsored b...

Lyall is joined by the lovely Ariele to unpack birthdays with your significant other, pressure on men that are broke at the moment, Lyall learns why women nag about their birthday, what it takes to have your born day crown slapped off, birthday red flags and more.

Lyall is joined with the lovely Ariele to unpack California vacations. Lyall's hate for Lake Tahoe, the proper way to do Wine country, why San Francisco is the only place you need to visit in the Bay Area, San Diego tricking people, LA expectations and Santa Barbara's versatility.