Let’s Make Sense of It

The team is back as we discuss the topic of knowing your value and worth. "A high value woman cares about what's inside your heart and a low value woman care about what's in your wallet" do you agree? We discuss the "90 Day Rule" and whether that's really still a thing?  Do you believe all long-term relationships happen from an immediate connection? We discuss th...

It's been a few weeks, but the team is back, and we got an array of topics. We discuss the topic of adults chasing the popularity they missed out on as teenagers.  We also discuss a person telling a child to keep a secret between them young and how that can be a slippery slope later in life?  Taking dating advice from women who hate men instead of women who enjoy the men they date could actua...

In this episode the team is back as we get into an array of topics. We get into the topics of relationship preferences. Is this quote true "most women are single because they want to be paid to be in a relationship nowadays"?  We break down whether the "Hot Girl" and "City Girl" wave is over.  How do men grow up with single moms and don't have respect for women?...

In this episode the team is back as we discuss an array of topics. We discuss the topics of are all red flags deal breakers. Is playing hard to get wise or unwise? Is love a feeling or a decision? Are weight preferences fair? Providing vs Spoiling when it comes to children? Does someone cheating make them a bad person? We get into this and much more. So, sit back and listen as we make sense of it...

In this episode the team is back as we discuss the topic of facing different situations head on. We discuss men or women trapping their partner just because they want kids, but the other person doesn't. We discuss why no one wants to talk about evolving as a person. "They make it seem like men vs women when its actually you vs your unresolved trauma" we discuss these quotes as well...

In this episode the team is back as we are joined by C. Stylez(@cstylezll) and Ski(@presadent_nixon) as we get into an array of topics. We discuss their start into rapping, their My Side Rules Multi-Media, and much more. We get into the topics of who has more dating options deadbeat fathers or single mothers? Who determines a "sorry" needs to be said? Is "forgiveness" for you o...

In this episode the team is back as we discuss an array of topics including one sided friendships and relationships. We discuss why some women hate to see another woman bring the best out a man she failed with.  We also discuss the difference between liking and loving your partner. We explain the "im him" guy and why some women try to pull their cards. We get into this and much more so s...

Happy New Year, the team is back at it as we discuss an array of topics. We ask is a women's value only as good as here past. We also break down the signs that you might be breeding a bum as a spouse. "Your ego will have you thinking a man can't leave you alone, whole time you just his favorite dummy" we break down what exactly that means. You missed my birthday and the girl&ap...

In the episode the team is back and it's our one-year anniversary episode! We get into the topics of women's intuition and how sometimes it can be wrong when it comes to picking men. Would you cut your friends off if they cheat on their significant other? Should you get into a relationship if you not financially stable? Why are black women told and taught to deal with struggle love while...

In this episode the team is back as we are joined by @pettywednesday as we get into her life and how she started her petty Wednesday brand which includes her card game "how petty are you"? We also talk about the dos and don'ts when it comes to thanksgiving. We ask the question what's the pettiest thing someone has done during a breakup? We get into this and much more. So, sit b...

In this episode the team is back as we get into the topic of free speech and what that means. From twitter to other social media to the effects of things we say that can cost us our jobs we break it all down. We also break down the Kanye West situation and specifically the black community's response to him.  We also touch on the topic of should you date casually immediately after a breakup? W...

In this episode the team is back as we get into the topic of parenting. We break down gentle parenting, having kids to save a relationship, being a single parent but married. We ask the question do you want to be a parent or are you being pressured into having kids. If you meet someone are your birthday, are you/they obligated to buy a gift? When someone drunk text an ex is there a hint of feeling...

In this episode the team is back as we break down what exactly make a person attractive in your eyes. We ask the question how come some women never are approached while they are out with their friend group. We also break down what is chivalry and is it dead or not. We get into our two-sense segment with the question of is oral considered sex? We get into this and much more so sit back and listen a...

The team is back as we touch on the subject of addictions that people might not realize they have such as addicted to spending money, working, and social media just to name a few. We ask the question why do people say they want generational wealth but bash people with mom and dad money? Also, would you support the idea of marriage licenses expiring like driver's licenses to give couples an op...

In this episode we are back as we get into the discussion of interracial relationships. We break down having interracial kids, interracial misconceptions, the way the world views interracial relationships and much more. We also touch on the topic of death etiquette and how sometimes people don't know how to let someone properly grieve.  Known fact that women only set requirements for guys the...

The team is back as we get into the topic of you vs society. Do you want certain things because YOU want them or because society tells you that you should or shouldn't? Kids, income, certain jobs, body type, monogamy, etc. we touch on each one when it comes to society. We break down the Ime Udoka cheating scandal as well as dealing with feeling alone and how you overcome it. We also get into...

In this week's episode the team is back as we discuss the topic of "Cuffing Season". We break down the definition of cuffing season. the dos and don'ts, how long cuffing season, etc. We ask the questions is there a difference between privacy and sneaking? We discuss the topic of a therapist who was fired for her delivery when it came to her practice. You didn't bring a gif...

In this episode we are joined by entertainer, dancer and overall talent Bridgette (@bbcarodine) as we discuss an array of subjects. We ask her what got her started making social media videos, being a daughter of a mortician, dealing with the spotlight and overcoming dealing low self-esteem. We discuss the topic of ultimatums and do they push people away. Dealing with different ultimatums when it c...

In this episode we are joined by entrepreneur, teacher, and owner of SpinwithWhit LLC Whitley. Whitley breaks down her start in business, how she started in the spin business and how working for others helped her when it came to opening and running her own business. We break down the topics of what are the do's and don'ts when it comes to dating? How to go about getting a second date and...

In this episode we are joined by entrepreneur Bella (@shinney.bella) as we get into an array of topics. We break down her start with cooking, where she got her hustler mindset, her daughters' lemonade business(@rileyssecretjuice), her podcast (@teatimewithbella_) and much more. We get into some struggles that black business owners deal with, people needing to learn professionalism, and ask th...

In this episode we are back as we break down the different struggles of life.  Fun vs responsibility, young enough to do stuff but old enough to know better, and budgeting are some of the things we break down. We ask the questions why do people who have kids judge people without kids when they say their tired, exhausted or struggling? "We need more men to speak life into male brokenness inste...

In this episode we are back breaking down and identifying toxic traits and how we need to unlearn certain things. We ask the questions why can't some people be happy without a relationship? What should be the proper way to pay when going out with friends? Why when the parent's breakup most of the time the child stays with the mom and the father becomes a weekend dad? We break all this do...

In this episode the team is back as we discuss the taboos of being you. We ask the question, what are some traditional and non-traditional beliefs you agree with that society may not. We break down the power of your words and how you have to be careful with what you say. We break down healthy self-esteem and why it's important to you. So, we broke up a month ago and now you're engaged? O...

In this episode the team is joined by guests Marcos (@mrtableforone) and Mo (@_mo2thaaaa). We touch on an array of topics that include the Roe v. Wade ruling being overturned. We touch on the Mario v Omarion versus battle. We ask the question is celibacy a trend and why does it take for someone to be celibate to work on themselves. Should you give a person your "A game" during sex if you...

In this episode the team is back with the topic of trauma bonding. We break down different types of trauma bonding examples such as domestic violence, sexual abuse, human trafficking just to name a few. We also get into the roles of a stepfather, God father and in general of bring a child into another person's life. Why do mean keep women they don't want a relationship with around, we br...