Let's Have It with Nick Tillia

This lesson could be the entirety of your curriculum. Especially if you struggle with low self-worth or self-hatred. This lesson and the prescribed practice are about releasing the false image we’ve created of ourselves and replacing it with God’s image of us. Nick talks about the process of moving from illusion to truth and from self-hatred to self love! Find Nick on Instagram https://www.instagr...

Journaling Prompts for Money Desires & Money Blocks!!  Nick describes how imagining yourself winning the Powerball can help you to identify your desired as well as your money blocks. He discusses how folks who think that they’re powerless only think that they can get what they want through an Act of God (or winning the lottery) compared to powerful folks who believe in possibility and are will...

On this Easter Sunday, Nick wants you to remember what this day is about. It’s not about worshipping the son of God’s achievements or sacrifice… It’s about YOU, and me, and all of us. It’s about understanding what he was teaching and demonstrating. It’s about remembering that he wasn’t special and that all of the qualities and potential that existed in Jesus, exist in you and I. The resurrection i...

Nick breaks down ACIM Lesson 90, which is a review of Lesson 79: Let me recognize the problem so that it can be solved; and Lesson 80: Let me recognize my problems have been solved. Nick discusses the principles and gives various personal examples of the principles in action. Ego loves a disruption/distraction and to create the illusion of a problem to send you on an endless mission of seek and do...

Sabotaging patterns serve to protect us from what parts of us see as a threat to our safety... these parts just don't perceive our best interest.  Their  focus is simply to survive - not to thrive, prosper, change, evolve, or progress.  But we all have them. And they don't go away. Thinking that they shouldn't be there or do what they do (aka Judgment) doesn't actually help us...

During a heated moment in the most-watched Super Bowl to date, Kansas City Chiefs tight-end (and Taylor Swifts boo thang) bumped into and screamed at his coach on the sidelines. The bump caught Reid off-guard and he stumbled before a teammate grabbed Kelce and pulled him away. The Chiefs went on to win the game and both parties down-played and laughed about the incident in the post-game interviews...

Over the last 2 years, professional golf has been marred by legal and publicity battles between the PGA Tour and LIV Golf. The PGA Tour made a huge mistake in their dealings with LIV, which actually ended up hurting themselves more than LIV ever could've. Nick's works in Universal principles to demonstrate the mistakes made by the PGA Tour  so that you don't do the same with the LIV...

Ego loves to send you on an endless a fruitless journey of seeking but never finding! It's why folks are always trying to change things externally and looking for a magical pill rather than working their inner world. It's why folks are always looking for a different form of support rather than FULLY working what they have.  It's why folks are always looking for more to add or whatev...

A common question or area of frustration from women involves men not taking the cues to approach them or initiate conversation. It seems as if good men have stopped approaching or hitting on women in public and while this is a good step in the right direction, it's causing some confusion and ambiguity. Nick explains why his advice to women has changed from "leaning back" after creat...

Nick went through a season in the last quarter of 2023 where he experienced debilitating anxiety and panic as well as many of the horrific symptoms of anxiety and panic: agoraphobia, depersonalization, derealization, air hunger, vertigo, dizziness, GERD, and others. Nick shares the details and specifics of the experience, including what caused it, what helped his process of recovery, and what he l...

"Do you think that a contrasting experience is required in order to clarify what you want and then be able to go after it or create it?" Don't waste good contrast or rock bottom, but they aren't required. Personal contrast definitely isn't required. Listening intentionally can make the lessons and nudges more gentle than getting smashed over the head. Learn how to connect...

One of my favorite New Year ceremonies is writing down everything that I want to release and let go of and then BURNING the list!! While powerful, this ceremonial act isn't actually enough to relate these patterns and behaviors.  We have to do it over and over again as these tendencies inevitably show up in our lives. Let's decide what we're going to release and commit to doing it a...

Not a question, but a riff. It's inevitable that your adult children are going to come to you with things to discuss and process. The worst way to respond to them is... The best way and the way that can grow your relationship with your kids is... Why you might want to get support before this comes up. Find Nick on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/nicktillia/ Get more info about coaching an...

"Do you believe time heals?" Why time isn't enough for healing.  Healing is an active process that doesn't occur with just the passing of time. Time is a secondary factor of healing.  If you avoid the healing and just hope that time will do the trick... what will be left waiting for you? Find Nick on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/nicktillia/ Get more info about coaching a...

"I've struggled with my body for most of my adult life. I don't know if I'm holding onto some beliefs that may be making it harder for me to shed this weight but would love insight on how to identify these limiting beliefs that are keeping me safe so I can stop sabotaging my health goals."  Courtney and Nick actually both started out as fitness coaches and answering this q...

"How to move from just knowing something to truly believing it. I know that despite media portrayals, guys don't necessarily want sex constantly. But, I still feel rejected and unsexy when I'm in the mood and my husband isn't, for example." Reprogramming, Reparenting, and Repetition. The importance of considering medical conditions or hormones if somebody's libido isn...

"What do you think about practical gifts for Christmas?"  Nick gave an ex partner a gym membership and it did NOT go over well! If you insist on giving to Nick, give THIS. Let's normalize asking people what they like and want rather trying to read their fucking minds! How Nick and Courtney do lists for Santa with their kids.  Find Nick on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/nicktill...

Let's have it!!! Episode 1 is your introduction (or re-introduction) to Nick. Why did the world need another podcast from a cishet, white dude? All the personal metrics and details that people ask about, including the really important ones like age and height! How YOU can have your question answered on this podcast and what you aren't allowed to ask (aka boundaries).  And lastly, a remin...